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FRIDAY CONFESSIONS

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  • I splurged on a Kate Spade purse and lied to MH about how much I spent on it.
    I wish I could love this post more than once.

    I did not tell my husband about the Kate Spade shoes or how much they cost.  They are still sitting in my office at work.  
    I did not tell my husband about a D&G leather biker jacket that I bought or how much it cost.  In my defense, I bought it from eBay so it was way less than Net-a-Porter! 
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  • I confess that I'm a little envious of those who have husbands who wouldn't notice. J watches everything like a hawk.

    I've been wanting a pair of new Frye boots, but J would 1) notice the transaction and 2) notice the boots.
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  • SnShne322 said:
    I confess that I'm a little envious of those who have husbands who wouldn't notice. J watches everything like a hawk.

    I've been wanting a pair of new Frye boots, but J would 1) notice the transaction and 2) notice the boots.
    My husband tells me that every time we do laundry, I have more clothes. I always respond with things like, "Oh no, I just haven't worn those in a loooong time." Really it's a new pair of jeans.
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  • SnShne322 said:
    I confess that I'm a little envious of those who have husbands who wouldn't notice. J watches everything like a hawk.

    I've been wanting a pair of new Frye boots, but J would 1) notice the transaction and 2) notice the boots.
    I think I'm one of the lucky ones whose husband notices and never complains about price.  Being married to someone who isn't the best at keeping to a budget has its advantages at times.
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  • SnShne322 said:
    I confess that I'm a little envious of those who have husbands who wouldn't notice. J watches everything like a hawk.

    I've been wanting a pair of new Frye boots, but J would 1) notice the transaction and 2) notice the boots.
    Mine is like this too. He is the most observant man I've ever met. I always tell him that he missed his calling as a police officer. 

    I went to Macy's and bought a $16 eyeliner at MAC during lunch yesterday. At 3 PM I had a call from him asking what I bought at Macy's. I get that he is just making sure there's no fraudulent activity on our card but OMG. I HATE BEING STALKED. 

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    EliStar said:
    SnShne322 said:
    I confess that I'm a little envious of those who have husbands who wouldn't notice. J watches everything like a hawk.

    I've been wanting a pair of new Frye boots, but J would 1) notice the transaction and 2) notice the boots.
    Mine is like this too. He is the most observant man I've ever met. I always tell him that he missed his calling as a police officer. 

    I went to Macy's and bought a $16 eyeliner at MAC during lunch yesterday. At 3 PM I had a call from him asking what I bought at Macy's. I get that he is just making sure there's no fraudulent activity on our card but OMG. I HATE BEING STALKED. 
    This is why we have our own cards. :P

    My H is observant, but not about women's fashion.  A black jacket is a black jacket to him.  Or I just have too many clothes for him to keep a mental inventory. LOL.

    WAIT!  That's the solution to @SnShne322 and @EliStar's problems!  BUY MOAR CLOTHES.
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  • Last night at dinner I ate past the point of being hungry and went way into stuffed territory because it tasted so good. I knew I was getting uncomfortable, but still I ate. I paid for it though with really severe indigestion.
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  • EliStar said:
    My confession: This is long. Sorry. Remember that party I was complaining about yesterday? Turns out it's a non-issue because DH has a pinched nerve and is totally out of commission so we can't go. 

    I've had pinched nerves/herniated disk/severe sciatica since I was 18. I've had 12 spinal epidural injections since then, multiple rounds of physical therapy, have seen countless doctors, and am always in at least a little back pain. I'm so used to it that it just doesn't phase me anymore and no one acts like it's a big deal when my leg has no feeling or when I am literally fighting back tears from the pain because everyone is so used to it. They just continue about their business and I fight my way through it and continue to do everything as normal. I am stoic about it because that's just how I am... so I don't get this: 

    My husband is acting like his world is completely ending. I feel bad for him because I know exactly how bad it hurts. But -  I am SO annoyed that he has completely thrown his hands in the air and refused to do anything for the past three days when I have to suffer through it in silence when I have to deal with the same exact pain. I know it's new for him, so I'm giving him a free pass and trying to be a loving, supporting wife but babying is just NOT in my nature at all. I am loving and sweet, but I can't treat my full grown husband like he's a baby bird. If that makes me a bitch, oh well. 

    At least he acknowledged yesterday that I am much more badass than him. 
    LOL. I'm the same way. When DH gets the sniffles, it's the end of the world. Meanwhile, I was sick as a dog still getting up to feed baby and work and clean the house....freaking boys.
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  • @EliStar This is precisely why God intended women to give birth, not men.  They wouldn't last through the first trimester. LOL.
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  • SnShne322 said:
    I confess that I'm a little envious of those who have husbands who wouldn't notice. J watches everything like a hawk.

    I've been wanting a pair of new Frye boots, but J would 1) notice the transaction and 2) notice the boots.
    We have a joint account for joint things and then our own accounts for fun money/our own things. So he will never know. Muahahaha
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  • SnShne322 said:
    I confess that I'm a little envious of those who have husbands who wouldn't notice. J watches everything like a hawk.

    I've been wanting a pair of new Frye boots, but J would 1) notice the transaction and 2) notice the boots.
    We have a joint account for joint things and then our own accounts for fun money/our own things. So he will never know. Muahahaha
    We do have some separate "fun" money that I can do what I like with, but it was take a serious dip for $400 boots.

    Sometimes I buy something from our joint account and tell him I have intentions to replace it with my fun money, then I don't.  More often than not it's a book or something $20 or less.  He calls me on it about 50% of the time.
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  • @Elistar I'm sorry Anth is being that way.  I can't totally relate.

    I was born with a heart defect and by my mid 20's it was really getting to be a problem.  I was out of breath all the time.  One time I was dancing at a bar (I knew it wasn't a good idea, but I digress) and it took me two hours to catch my breath fully.  J has an occasional irregular heart beat and he makes me take him to the hospital, the last time was just earlier this month.  They always tell him, while it's uncomfortable, it's OK and all the tests come back normal.  While my heart was fixed in 2008, I really have a tough time sympathizing.  I had years of tests and catheters and couldn't lift things over my head or over 10 pounds for quite some time. There was a question for awhile whether my body was able to handle pregnancy.

    What's worse is that he tells is like it's a war story.  It's not like I want attention for it, especially now, but goodness man, give it a rest!
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  • Thanks so much everyone!  It's so early that I don't really know whether it's a good idea to tell people yet, but we've told our parents and I have to tell some friends today because we have a ski trip planned in a month and now I can't ski.  :(  So I figured it was fine to tell you guys too.  But the reality of it honestly hasn't set in yet; I often forget that I'm pregnant, and find myself not really believing its true.  Or maybe that's denial.  I think once I go to the doctor next month, it'll start to sink in.

    I'm sort of hoping that I might be able to buy a used breastpump from one of my friends, because I don't really want to drop hundreds of dollars on it knowing that this is our last kid.  DH wants me to rent one (because he knows as well as I do that I probably won't use it longer than 6 months), but that cost will add up way too fast.  I'm also sort of hoping that we can get one or the other of our parents to buy us the car seat as a baby gift.  So maybe that's also some confession for me today.
  • I'm dyeing my hair purple later tonight.  I'm hoping it's more subtle than livid (I have very dark hair), but at the same time I'm also kind of hoping it's electric.  It's semi-permanent, so if my boss loses his shit completely I can tell him it's temporary. 
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  • SnShne322 said:
    @Elistar I'm sorry Anth is being that way.  I can't totally relate.

    I was born with a heart defect and by my mid 20's it was really getting to be a problem.  I was out of breath all the time.  One time I was dancing at a bar (I knew it wasn't a good idea, but I digress) and it took me two hours to catch my breath fully.  J has an occasional irregular heart beat and he makes me take him to the hospital, the last time was just earlier this month.  They always tell him, while it's uncomfortable, it's OK and all the tests come back normal.  While my heart was fixed in 2008, I really have a tough time sympathizing.  I had years of tests and catheters and couldn't lift things over my head or over 10 pounds for quite some time. There was a question for awhile whether my body was able to handle pregnancy.

    What's worse is that he tells is like it's a war story.  It's not like I want attention for it, especially now, but goodness man, give it a rest!
    Yup. This is what I hate. 

    I can't sympathize. I am not a naturally sympathetic person. 

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  • EliStar said:
    My confession: This is long. Sorry. Remember that party I was complaining about yesterday? Turns out it's a non-issue because DH has a pinched nerve and is totally out of commission so we can't go. 

    I've had pinched nerves/herniated disk/severe sciatica since I was 18. I've had 12 spinal epidural injections since then, multiple rounds of physical therapy, have seen countless doctors, and am always in at least a little back pain. I'm so used to it that it just doesn't phase me anymore and no one acts like it's a big deal when my leg has no feeling or when I am literally fighting back tears from the pain because everyone is so used to it. They just continue about their business and I fight my way through it and continue to do everything as normal. I am stoic about it because that's just how I am... so I don't get this: 

    My husband is acting like his world is completely ending. I feel bad for him because I know exactly how bad it hurts. But -  I am SO annoyed that he has completely thrown his hands in the air and refused to do anything for the past three days when I have to suffer through it in silence when I have to deal with the same exact pain. I know it's new for him, so I'm giving him a free pass and trying to be a loving, supporting wife but babying is just NOT in my nature at all. I am loving and sweet, but I can't treat my full grown husband like he's a baby bird. If that makes me a bitch, oh well. 

    At least he acknowledged yesterday that I am much more badass than him. 
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  • @sfgiantsjo I am so sorry. Cancer flucking sucks.

    @elistar a week after my c section, J cut his finger bad on glass. My mom took him to the hospital for stitches. He was using my pain meds and comparing his pain to mine ( apparently his was worse). I told him if he ever seriously hurts himself or requires surgury he is on his own. Big giant baby.
  • I kind of want to move. The past 3 weeks I have spent in Southern California have been great and I really think I would be happy living here.


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  • Lauren620 said:
    I kind of want to move. The past 3 weeks I have spent in Southern California have been great and I really think I would be happy living here.
    Doooooo it. It's awesome here.
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    I kind of want to move. The past 3 weeks I have spent in Southern California have been great and I really think I would be happy living here.

    Doooooo it. It's awesome here.


    MH and I actually had a legitimate conversation about moving here and now I can't get it off my mind.

    How close are you to San Diego? Next time I am here we need to get together if it isn't too far!


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  • While I was in the ER this morning after my accident, the lady who hit me was there and I was listening to her tell someone that she didn't see my car coming.  She didn't know I was there and I got so angry because she was just worried about some car making a turn and cutting her off.  If I could have, I would have jumped off the gurney and gone over to yell at her.

    She was in a school bus when she hit me.

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  • RevJen said:
    While I was in the ER this morning after my accident, the lady who hit me was there and I was listening to her tell someone that she didn't see my car coming.  She didn't know I was there and I got so angry because she was just worried about some car making a turn and cutting her off.  If I could have, I would have jumped off the gurney and gone over to yell at her.

    She was in a school bus when she hit me.
    You were in an accident??!!  Are you ok???
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  • RevJen said:
    While I was in the ER this morning after my accident, the lady who hit me was there and I was listening to her tell someone that she didn't see my car coming.  She didn't know I was there and I got so angry because she was just worried about some car making a turn and cutting her off.  If I could have, I would have jumped off the gurney and gone over to yell at her.

    She was in a school bus when she hit me.
    You were in an accident??!!  Are you ok???
    >:D<
    I am.  I have whiplash and a bruise on my chest wall.  I think that's internal?  I'm also really sore along where my seat belt was.  My right side is hurting but I have ibuprofen for the pain along with muscle relaxers.  

    I will never utter the phrase, "What if I'm hit by a bus?" again in my life if I can help it.

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  • RevJen said:
    RevJen said:
    While I was in the ER this morning after my accident, the lady who hit me was there and I was listening to her tell someone that she didn't see my car coming.  She didn't know I was there and I got so angry because she was just worried about some car making a turn and cutting her off.  If I could have, I would have jumped off the gurney and gone over to yell at her.

    She was in a school bus when she hit me.
    You were in an accident??!!  Are you ok???
    >:D<
    I am.  I have whiplash and a bruise on my chest wall.  I think that's internal?  I'm also really sore along where my seat belt was.  My right side is hurting but I have ibuprofen for the pain along with muscle relaxers.  

    I will never utter the phrase, "What if I'm hit by a bus?" again in my life if I can help it.
    I'm so glad you're ok!  Rest up and feel better!

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  • RevJen said:
    RevJen said:
    While I was in the ER this morning after my accident, the lady who hit me was there and I was listening to her tell someone that she didn't see my car coming.  She didn't know I was there and I got so angry because she was just worried about some car making a turn and cutting her off.  If I could have, I would have jumped off the gurney and gone over to yell at her.

    She was in a school bus when she hit me.
    You were in an accident??!!  Are you ok???
    >:D<
    I am.  I have whiplash and a bruise on my chest wall.  I think that's internal?  I'm also really sore along where my seat belt was.  My right side is hurting but I have ibuprofen for the pain along with muscle relaxers.  

    I will never utter the phrase, "What if I'm hit by a bus?" again in my life if I can help it.
    I'm so glad you're ok!  Rest up and feel better!

    Oh man.  I'm so sorry.  Geez.  Rest up, read, and feel better soon.
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  • @RevJen I'm so glad you're ok!!!!! I wondered if something was wrong when you started your other post. Sending lots of T&Ps for a speedy recovery for you!
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  • RevJen said:
    While I was in the ER this morning after my accident, the lady who hit me was there and I was listening to her tell someone that she didn't see my car coming.  She didn't know I was there and I got so angry because she was just worried about some car making a turn and cutting her off.  If I could have, I would have jumped off the gurney and gone over to yell at her.

    She was in a school bus when she hit me.
    @RevJen Oh man, I'm so sorry. Rest up this weekend. Hope you're feeling better soon.
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  • Thanks ladies.  I'm mostly sore and moving about slowly.  But I AM moving about.  It could have been so much worse.  I'm also really thankful there were no kids on the bus.

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  • @revjen oh my!! Glad to hear you are okay!! I hope you feel better soon!!
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