I could use some tips on how to sneak veggies in meals so you can't even taste them.
Think like cooking for a picky toddler - but for a 28 year old man who hates veggies. Oh yea and his wife (yea we're bad i know). We WANT to be better but I don't know how! Even growing up the most i'd eat is corn. We take vitamins and just started taking an Omega 3 supplement as well but for the most part we eat like crap. Snacks- ice cream, cookies, potato chips.... Meals are mostly meat or starches. We call ourselves "meat-a-tarians" because we are the opposite of a vegetarian.
I look up healthy meals all the time and healthy versions of meals usually either don't taste good or i just don't know how to cook them. Actually most healthy meals he just plain won't eat. Chances are if its "green" - its not on his plate. He looks at salad and has a joke "what is this green stuff". I'll mix in cut up broccoli every once in a great while but thats the extent of our vegetable intake.
My husband eats way too many high fat foods and added sugars.... I'm worried about his health - his dad has diabetes and his grandfather died young from heart disease. We are about to sign up for life insurance and i'm terrified the rate he'll get. We NEED to fix this - but I'm so confused as to how to even do this. Its not like i'm a health food nut trying to convert him - i'm just as bad. I am so lost

Help us stop killing ourselves please

Most healthy recipes (or recipes in general) look gross to us. We eat a lot of chicken and beef or pastas. I did get him to convert to whole grain pasta and brown rice and diet soda a few years ago but thats the extent of it.
Any ideas are welcome. Can i just get like baby food veggie jars and mix that in? i don't know i'm lost...
Re: Teach us to eat healthy - Hiding veggies in foods.
He is okay with some beans (i think he just doesn't like big pieces) he has been wanting me to make him beanless chilli - but i bet if they were small pieces he wouldn't care. What veggies would you hide in chilli?
Cauliflower in mashed potatoes - thats interesting. He loves my mashed potatoes.
And I like the idea of cauliflower alfredo sauce. I will have to try that.
He's working on saturday so maybe i'll blend up a munch of veggies and put them in the freezer in individual containers so they are ready to go.
And i know what you mean about telling him after - although in some cases ive learned to just keep my mouth shut altogether. The idea of it scares him. And if he knows its in there he'll pay more attention to the taste and be able to tell.
My husband isn't a big fruit or veggie eater either. I have started making smoothies for us both for breakfast. They taste great and usually add up to a couple servings of fruit in each cup.
It can be hard to change your eating habits, so don't try and do everything at once. Start with smaller steps like eating a side salad with your dinner instead of just eating a salad. Also, try cooking together! Jamie Oliver has some great cookbooks. It can be fun to learn at the same time. My husband and I have the best conversations making dinner together with a glass of wine.
That being said, here's a few of my tips/tricks for adding veggies into meals:
-- My 'go to' is to sautee broccoli on the stove on medium-high with a bit of olive oil, garlic (i usually buy jars of fresh, minced garlic). about 3/4 of the way through, I pour a bit of lemon juice in there, and quit cooking as soon as they start to brown/char.
-- I 'hide' veggies in pasta all the time! Typically peas, broccoli, green peppers, onions, etc. The key is to dice them into small pieces (the size of your fingernail), and toss them in the pasta water about 3-4 minutes before it's done. this way, they aren't totally mushy, but not crunchy either! I do the same with rice (adding cheese to the veggies & rice works too!)
-- chili: add in some diced onion and green pepper.
-- sweet potato fries! with a honey/butter dipping sauce, or siracha/mayo dipping sauce....yum!
-- pita pocket sandwiches. cook some chicken (with greek spices!), and fill a pita with the chicken, lettuce, tomato, feta cheese and onion. add some greek or italian dressing and chow down! again, if you chop things a bit smaller, it might be less offensive and feel more like a sandwich, and less like a salad
-- spaghetti squash might be something to try. after baking, you can 'string' it so it looks like pasta!
-- you could hide some spinach in something like lasagna... just chop it very fine and hide it in the layers! There's so much cheese and sauce he shouldn't care
-- be creative! use a terayaki sauce, or honey mustard, or lemon/garlic.... something! plain, boiled, baked or sauteed veggies are boring. learn to use your spice drawer and experiment a bit!
Good luck!
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Try not to cook with butter, use olive oil in place.