FFC

jjbmstinco

SPILL THEM.

*deleted* just in case. My FFC is that I am so jealous.  I am happy that I am married but I want a new car. I want to be on vacation.  I want to not worry about my job next year.  

lovealwaysfindsaway8202011

....T is training to enlist in the National Guard. I am so proud, but sort of upset at the time. this just threw the future plans all over the place.

jjbmstinco

I hope you get it figured out!

lovealwaysfindsaway8202011

I guess my biggest thing is if he gets asked to move somewhere. I really am not sure if I would follow him. It sounds horrible, but I'm not sure.

jjbmstinco

I think this is a normal FFC.  I would have the same thoughts as you.

Jean9ds

FFC? Although Jared and I only have about two months left being apart, I just booked another weekend of tickets to see each other. I'm going up to visit him over spring break March 15-March 23 (which includes my birthday!), but then his birthday is two weeks later on April 6th. He didn't want to be alone for his birthday, so we splurged and bought tickets for him to fly down. I guess my FFC is that we bought plane tickets to see each other for twice in one month haha

jjbmstinco

I had a good one, but now I forgot it.

jjbmstinco

I remembered.

so my bff is getting married.  Friends got her a necklace for birthday to wear on her wedding day.  I wasn't invited to go in on it.  Then there was a bunch of drama with it, so I ended up being happy about not bring in it.  But she feels like she has to wear it for the wedding because they got it.  I talked her into switching for the ceremony and reception because she really wants to wear pearls.

Then people were planning stuff online and I felt left out.  I told her, and she told her other friend. Then I got an email about how I shouldn't feel left out. awkward. Last week I saw her homemade bridal shower invites.  I still hadn't received one, so I text her asking.  Turns out they didn't send me an invite.  She has a lot of stress going on with his family and her friends, so I told her I wasn't mad.  But reality is that I cried last night when I went to bed because I am so hurt,

ImperiumWife

I'm sorry Jen. 

Mine is that I kinda don't want to look for another job. I love my job, I love the free time I have, and I'm not sure that I have the time to devote to lesson planning, especially with a new house. But at the same time I want to, and I want to have the money. Plus I hate applying and getting nowhere. 

shellyamf

Aww hugs, Jen.