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Hi, I know I am a newbie but I was wondering if maybe I could get some
advise, I don't really know anyone in real life I feel comfortable
talking to about this. Okay so short back story, I was married for 4
years, with him for almost 12 years. We separated about 4 months ago,
but it had been over for at least 2 years. Being with him for so long
(since high school) I feel rather inexperienced. I have recently met
some one, and while he has not said any thing to the contrary, I don't
feel like I am any good at giving head. Like it takes a really long
time, and he usually has to help me out to finish, and he warned me
before hand that he is just not very vocal, and to not take offense. So
while I may get a little feed back after the fact, I don't get much
during the deed. He is also not circumcised, which I have just never
had any experience with. So I guess Im looking for pointers ? Advise?
Articles? Anything?
Re: BJ questions/advise
I would just tell him you need some, any, feedback. Ask him the next morning while you guys are doing something else like shopping or breakfast. Ask him to just tell you one pointer and see if the conversation expands from there.
Read this book. He will be screaming your name.