***carcrashheart***

BeckyP005

Hey!! I was lurking on the BMB and I saw your name! Congrats to you...how exciting!! Hope all is well I had to comment on here because I couldn't remember which month it was lol.

BeckyP005

Duh I guess I could of used the search button!! Oh well...

carcrashheart

Hi Becky! How are you?! I'm mobile and can't see siggies-how are things?? And thanks! Were still being cautious, but excited. I've been sick, though not nearly as sick as I was with DS, so we hope that means are still on track. I'm due in November. Which is kind of funny (in a not funny way) because my first loss baby was also due in November (2010). Hope you're doing well!!

seahorse01

Oh.

carcrashheart

Sorry seahorse. You didn't have to come in and read the page.

BeckyP005

Yes I did find you were on Nov board..lol. Sorry about the m/s. My DE cycle got cancelled for December and had to find another donor so my transfer should be at the end of April!! That's a good sign for you!! Can't believe how big your little guy is getting!!

seahorse01

Yes, I'm sure all of the people in here are so thrilled to hear your news CCH, given you've brought so much joy to the board.

Aimothy

I'm just going to drop this here.

ILoveRedVino

Seahorse, as an admin are you able to label this as PR? I'm guessing the OP didn't know. Maybe that'd save some bad feelings.

seahorse01

Nope, I have no powers. CCH knows how this works even if the op doesn't. She's been around the block a few times, she knows she could have responded in a pm. But hey, she got her happy ending(s), so what does she care?

cheezus

BackseatDriver

I know that CCH hasn't had an easy time with PR posts in the past, but in this case I don't think she really did anything wrong. The content of the OP seems to make it pretty clear that it is PR so I don't think a PM as a response would have been that helpful. I don't fault the OP for not knowing to put PR in the title, but I can see how someone could feel blindsided by this post. 

amandaf6383

BackseatDriver said:

I know that CCH hasn't had an easy time with PR posts in the past, but in this case I don't think she really did anything wrong. The content of the OP seems to make it pretty clear that it is PR so I don't think a PM as a response would have been that helpful. I don't fault the OP for not knowing to put PR in the title, but I can see how someone could feel blindsided by this post. 

CCH neverrrr posts here, unless it is to drop in some unhelpful comments in controversial threads. And although I wish her a very healthy 9 months, I don't really care to hear about a PR convo between two chicks who are never here. It's inconsiderate as shit.

BruinsBabe33

amandaf6383 said:

BackseatDriver said:

I know that CCH hasn't had an easy time with PR posts in the past, but in this case I don't think she really did anything wrong. The content of the OP seems to make it pretty clear that it is PR so I don't think a PM as a response would have been that helpful. I don't fault the OP for not knowing to put PR in the title, but I can see how someone could feel blindsided by this post. 

CCH neverrrr posts here, unless it is to drop in some unhelpful comments in controversial threads. And although I wish her a very healthy 9 months, I don't really care to hear about a PR convo between two chicks who are never here. It's inconsiderate as shit.

Nail. Head.

Xan921

amandaf6383 said:

BackseatDriver said:

I know that CCH hasn't had an easy time with PR posts in the past, but in this case I don't think she really did anything wrong. The content of the OP seems to make it pretty clear that it is PR so I don't think a PM as a response would have been that helpful. I don't fault the OP for not knowing to put PR in the title, but I can see how someone could feel blindsided by this post. 

CCH neverrrr posts here, unless it is to drop in some unhelpful comments in controversial threads. And although I wish her a very healthy 9 months, I don't really care to hear about a PR convo between two chicks who are never here. It's inconsiderate as shit.

WORD.

nfp147

amandaf6383 said:

BackseatDriver said:

I know that CCH hasn't had an easy time with PR posts in the past, but in this case I don't think she really did anything wrong. The content of the OP seems to make it pretty clear that it is PR so I don't think a PM as a response would have been that helpful. I don't fault the OP for not knowing to put PR in the title, but I can see how someone could feel blindsided by this post. 

CCH neverrrr posts here, unless it is to drop in some unhelpful comments in controversial threads. And although I wish her a very healthy 9 months, I don't really care to hear about a PR convo between two chicks who are never here. It's inconsiderate as shit.

Even shit is more considerate.

OP posted in GP a year ago, she knows better.

BeckyP005

Whoa....I am sorry but I didn't realize this would cause such an uproar. I figured what board she was after the fact. Jeez. What the heck is a PR?? Anyone who knows me on my home board knows I'm a quiet peep. @nfp147 I should of known better? PP on others boards look pp up and post not eve being on that specific board. I'm suppose to know this here????

Aimothy

Except you post on the Infertility board so you are CLEARLY aware of PR labeling.  Nice try. 

BeckyP005

Omg maybe I'm tired but WTF is PR?? PG is pregnant.

BeckyP005

Ok never mind because I'm leaving. The 3 years of been on the boards I never stirred up stuff so I guess there is always a first time. I feel bad because I am truly a good person. Very sorry. Guess I'm pretty stupid then for not knowing what PR is.

Aimothy

PR=pregnancy related

And I guess you've posted here twice in the last three years...both times to page CCH.  I would have assumed you weren't going to stick around anyway.  I'm sure you are a very nice person...this has a lot more to do with what an ass CCH was before she got pregnant than with you. 

BeckyP005

Duh I'm so out of it. Ugh...yes realizing what board I'm on and what I did especially when we just had this problem on my board. Oh jeez...ok...my bad...very bad. Not thinking cause I thought she still posted. Clearly NOT thinking!! Accept my apology?? I feel like an ass I really do. This never happened to me before

seahorse01

Don't sweat it Becky- it was more directed at CCH than you. She knows better.

BeckyP005

Thank you @seahorse01 that makes me feel better. My stomach feels sick because this upset me. I would never want to hurt anyone over here. Good night...

seahorse01

I'm sorry you were worried about it

ILoveRedVino

@beckyp005 I can promise, this isn't about you. Don't worry about it.

MH1006

@BeckyP005 don't lose any sleep over offending these people. The board is called "getting pregnant," but if you post anything "PR" and not "IF" they will rip you apart. They're a sad bunch.

seahorse01

So, so sad.

mrsvedo

MH1006 said:

@BeckyP005 don't lose any sleep over offending these people. The board is called "getting pregnant," but if you post anything "PR" and not "IF" they will rip you apart. They're a sad bunch.

Yep. Those BFP posts this week got nothing but hate.

Aimothy

The saddest, really.

amandaf6383