Christening question

Melissa51212

My husband just got asked to be the godfather of his best friends third child. YAY, I am really happy for him, he is so excited its so cute. However, they planned the christening before they even asked my H and the christening is the same day that I am being honored at a Heart walk. We are just going to have to miss out on each others big day. Im beyond pissed because I really wanted my H there to support me but also really wanted to see him become the godfather. Aren't you supposed to make sure the godparents are available before you plan the event? 

cpm1223

We made sure that both godparent would be around that weekend and that they didn't have any conflicting events... That sucks that they didn't even ask your husband

bpphoto785

Yeah, that totally sucks. I'm sorry you'll have to miss out on each other's day. 

spalko

I'm sure the parents just figured everyone would make themselves available for whatever day they decided on. Are the invitations already out? Could your H ask them to change the time at all? What time are you being honored? Maybe he could make the christening and leave right after to make your event. I'm sorry you have to deal with all this, it is pretty sucky

mancila60

That's horrible they should have asked. We didn't do a big ceremony or anything but if we did we would have made sure they were available first. Sorry you are missing out on each other's days. Hugs!

kushie77

People suck.  

What day is your walk again?  I am totally going to do everything in my power to be there.  

Melissa51212

June 8th, I feel bad asking them to change I know its an important day for their family but H did say he is going to call back and mention how I won't be there and hope they didn't call the church yet. Hopefully, they were just asking if he was free. MeN, :-P 

court115

I want to come to your walk too!! Send me the deets

But yea... that totally sucks. We asked everyone important before we booked T's. That's a hard situation that they put you in.