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Unions

Do you belong to a union at your job?  I know they're bigger in some industries than others.

I'm having trouble understanding how the one works at my job.  The lady that did the "sales pitch" only wanted to talk about the discounts you're eligible for if you join.  But if I was interested in saving money, I certainly wouldn't give them nearly $500 out of my paycheck each year.  The other thing that irked me was that the paperwork she brought for enrollment was used.  She gave me an application with someone else's personal information on it (including SS#).  So I'm a bit hesitant to give them my information if their rep can't keep it secure.

I wish they would just be straightforward about what they do with the money and what they do outside of giving access to auto discounts :\





dx:  Unexplained IF (mild MFI)

 TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3 TI, 2 IUI = BFN

IVF #1 (May 2013):  Antagonist Protocol: 
24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2 early blasts, no frosties = BFN
IVF #2 (August 2013):  Lupron Stop Protocol: 
28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
FET #1 (April 2014):  transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP

C.J. born 01/09/15

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Re: Unions

  • I'm union and have no choice in the matter. I pay approximately $1200 a year towards union dues. The only thing I can tell you is it makes it really really hard to get fired. (Here at least) as far as representing the workers, our local rep folds pretty quickly to management, but we just has an election so hopefully it gets a bit better and we get some stuff back.
  • I'm in a union as well at my job. I pay around $75 a month in union dues. At our hospital everyone pays whether they are union or not. If you are in in the fee is called "dues" if you aren't then you are paying the same amount as an exemption fee since the entire hospital benefits from the bargaining.  We are getting ready to enter bargaining right now so they will discuss pay rates, wages, benefits, etc and throughout the year they are there as representation if you are having issues or need to grieve something. I have no feelings either way about them, figured since I have to pay no matter what then might as well be a member.
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  • Our entire unit benefits from the bargaining whether your a member or not. I have no particular feelings one way or another, I'm just annoyed with the way they choose to promote themselves, I guess.





    dx:  Unexplained IF (mild MFI)

     TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3 TI, 2 IUI = BFN

    IVF #1 (May 2013):  Antagonist Protocol: 
    24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2 early blasts, no frosties = BFN
    IVF #2 (August 2013):  Lupron Stop Protocol: 
    28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
    EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
    FET #1 (April 2014):  transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP

    C.J. born 01/09/15

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  • I am. Our union collects 85% of the total cost of fees from nonmembers because they receive the benefit of bargaining and all that. I'm not really a fan of how things are run, but I think it's more district based than union based (animosity between schools and some district mandates that have come down).
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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    Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.
    I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
    3T<3

  • You are lucky you live in a state where you get to pick if you join or not. Here in Washington they can make you join and you have no choice in the matter.

    DH is in a union and there is no benefit to our family. He pays quite a bit in dues and the union uses the money to support political issues and candidates that my DH doesn't want to fund. It is really too bad.
    "How long till my soul gets it right? Can any human being ever reach the highest light? Except for Galileo, god rest his soul, king of night vision, king of insight." ~ Indigo Girls Anniversary
    When you've been married this long, you need a ticker to remind you.

    Baby Boy M - 08/01/2013
  • We are both in unions with no choice.  I pay around $75 a month.  I'm not sure what DH pays because we're in different union, but it's likely similar.

    I have mixed feelings about unions.  On one hand, we have excellent working conditions, wages and benefits.  On the other hand, it's really hard/impossible to get rid of terrible workers.
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    TTC Since January 2011 - We have bad sperm 
    February 2013: IUI #1 = BFN 
    October 2013: We made the decision to stop TTC and live without children.

    Nestie Besties with Xan921 
  • I live in a "right to work" state, so no unions here. It seems like it would be a good thing if managed properly, but I've never had any experience with them.


    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
    Ovaries are done...
    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • My husband is in the union. He pays about $30 per month. We have full medical, dental, and vision insurance at no cost to us. His company is trying to make it so every dependent is $50 per month but the union is fighting that. The union makes it almost impossible to get fired. They also give us 5k of life insurance at no cost. We get discounts on certain services & from certain companies. If ever you have an issue with the company or managers the union fights that battle for you. We both love it. He goes to the meetings & was really excited when he got to meet Jimmy Hoffa Jr.

    Anniversary

  • I'm not in a union.  I like the idea, but I think the way they sometimes go about getting votes and getting their way is crummy.  When my BFF was applying for a job at a nuclear power facility, she was told that after she was hired, she HAD to join the union or else she'd be fired.  Because she had no other options, she joined it and has regretted it.
    Anniversary
    Married: 10/13/2013
    TTC #1: Mirena removed 5/26/2015; DH - normal SA, me - diagnosed with PCOS 8/4/2016 - on Metformin;
    BFP - 10/29/2016!!!, EDD - 7/8/2017
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