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Card for Someone Dying

I need help. A family friend has decided to stop cancer treatment and I want to send her a card. We don't talk on a regular basis but she is very good friends with my aunt and anytime I'm at my folk's house for the weekend I always talk to her in church or the few times we've all gone out to eat for a special occasion where she was involved. I don't know how to really describe it, but she is very special to me even though I don't talk to her much - does that make any sense at all?

Anyway, back to the card. So far, this is what I have: "I am so sorry to hear about what you are going through. You are such an amazing person and I’ve always looked up to you. I want you to know how special you are to me and that I will never forget your kindness and listening ear."
So...now what? Sorry your are dying? I am at a complete loss!

~Bonnie
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Re: Card for Someone Dying

  • I think you are on the right track. Be sure the card is a "thinking of you" and not a "get well" card. I would be careful not to refer to her in the past, such as that you will always remember her. Keep it positive, compliment how she is handling her challenges, and maybe offer support or help.


  • I don't think I would bring up the dying part.  I mean, she knows she's dying and probably can figure out that's why you are sending the card.  I don't know if you are religious, but you could say something like, "You are with me in my prayers and thoughts everyday". 
     
  • I am sorry about your friend. I think you are on the right track though as far as what to include in the note. expressing your love/friendship in words will be appreciated. Let her know she will be in your thoughts, and heart.
  • Thanks ladies! I figured out how to end it. 
    ~Bonnie
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