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3T Check In

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FYI: We don't want to exclude some ladies, but this is a check in for ladies who are unfortunately having trouble trying to conceive (TTTC=3T). If you've been trying for more than a year and/or have been diagnosed with any form of infertility OR are now pursuing adoption or have decided to remain childless following a 3T journey, you are welcome to join us.

Updates: Ok ladies... where are we at this week? Testing, Procedures, Appointments, Adoption updates, Life updates? What’s going on, etc. Let's hear all about it!

QOTW: What are your vacation plans for the summer? Or interesting stay-cation plans?

FFC/AW of the Week (no rules):

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3T

-Abt81813 - Graves Disease DX; Still testing for PCOS; Clomid cycle to start soon

--Aimothy: TTC since October 2009, DX: PCOS & Unexplained MFI, IVF Summer 2012

- amandaf6383: TTC since July 2012. DX: PCOS. On Metformin. Clomid & getting healthy before pursuing IUI/IVF

-brij2006: TTC since 4/13 DX: PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles); further treatment Winter 2015

-Flamingo86: TTC since July 2012, 4 losses. Dx: MTHFR, clotting issues, otherwise unexplained. Considering adoption.

- FutureMrsWright2012 - TTX since March 2012. DX: low AMH and decreased BAF count. 5/2013 - 2 unsuccessful Clomid + IUI cycles, and now waiting to start IVF in Summer 2014.

-Islandmonkey08 - TTC since January 2013. DX: Annovulatory/Unknown reason. IUI #1 currently happening Feb 2014.

-IloveRedVino: DX:Primary dx PCOS, secondary dx unexplained infertility. One stillbirth, one miscarriage, two failed IVF cycles. Exploring new options

-LooneyLife: TTC since May 2011, DX: Unexplained w/mild MFI

-nfp147: No longer actively TTC but still amazing support to 3T family and deeply loved.

-poppies717 - TTC #1 since Feb. '12; dx - unexplained; 2 rounds of IVF in winter 2013-2014, 1 m/c; taking time to grieve

-rccola1981: TTC since April 2011, DX: dx to mild PCOS, endometriosis and low sperm count

-Rockabye: TTC since Dec 2008, DX: PCOS with no ovulation at all. 2 failed Clomid/IUI cycles. Injectables April 2013 = BFN.

-Seahorsey: TTC since October 2008, DX:Unexplained IF with failed IUIs and IVFs

-Sewilson33 - TTC since Dec. 2012; SA & BW came back great; Next step: HSG & RE

-Sweetpotato123 - Diagnosed with PCOS August 2012, all tests clear for both me and Mr (will be doing another HSG hopefully in December just in case) . 4 unsuccessful rounds of Clomid, 3 femara/inject iuis with 1 chemical and one miscarriage just shy of 6 weeks. Going for more testing to look at cause of losses and trying to stay hopeful.

-Xan921: TTC since March 2012. DX irregular and anovulatory cycles; also DX with Complex Endometrial Hyperplasia.

-Ystaalenburg: TTC since February 2012 DX: PCOS @ 16; Currently taking break after 2 failed treatment cycles.


Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • Update: AF should be here Saturday. That would have meant that we would be starting IUI #1 this month but DH decided to throw a curve ball at me this morning and ask why we can't try naturally. 16 months of trying naturally hasn't done much of anything yet so I don't get where his head is. Now I am looking into acupuncture as a back up plan. Either way I will have to start IUI testing on Monday or acupuncture next week. I'm rooting for IUI but we will see.
    Tonight should be a LOVELY night with DH. (sarcasm....)

    QOTW: Every year we go to Cape Cod for the 4th of July. This year we are sticking to our normal weekend away but extending it by 2 extra days.
    We will also end up doing a couple long weekends on Cape Cod or Maine throughout the summer. That's about it.

    FFC: I had a dream last night that we were out for Mother's Day with a TON of people I know including IL's and someone mentioned something about me getting pregnant and I flipped my shit and went crazy in front of everything about infertility and issues. Oh it was glorious!! I wish I could do it in real life!

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    TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
    DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

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    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
  • abt8113abt8113 member
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    Just waiting for our RE appt on Monday! AF should be coming this weekend. Just in time for my birthday and Mother's Day.

    QOTW: The Derby was our vacation so to speak. I will soak up the three days weekends that we have for Memorial Day and Fourth of July. We are going to Florida with my ILs in September for a long weekend, but I'm not sure I would label that a vacation.
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  • abt8113abt8113 member
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    @sewilson33 sorry about YH. DH make a comment like that about the financial aspect of IF, and I pretty much lost it. Needless to say, he is back on track. ;) hope yours comes around to IUI soon!
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    Cinnabun and Junebug say, "Go Wildcats!"

  • @abt8113 it is crazy how insync our cycles are....  Luckily there is someone on GP that uses the same RE clinic I use so after getting some answers from her I think I will be able to present DH with a lot of good info. I'm just waiting on an answer about $$$ now.

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    TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
    DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

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    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
  • GL with the acu @sewilson33. Sorry about the curveball :(

    @abt8113 - I hope your RE appt goes well!

    Update: nada. AF is either gone or will be gone today. I guess I'll start temping again in a few days. I have nothing better to do, so why not torture myself!

    QOTW: No summer vacay plans this year :((  Our plans were wiped out with DH's diagnosis because he had to use all of his vacation time, plus some. He's still in the hole. We may try to take a long weekend somewhere, but we're not sure. Probably won't happen because we're cheap and trying to save money. So all that to say, my staycation plans will include spending every evening/weekend in and around the pool and hopefully dressing up the rest of the yard a little so it looks prettier.

    In Christ alone my hope is found. He is my LIGHT, my STRENGTH, and my SONG!


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    T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.  


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  • nfp147nfp147 member
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    Good luck with the RE @abt8113 

    I'm sorry your H isn't on board @sewilson33 I hope you are able to convince him!

    Love and hugs to all my 3T ladies!

    QOTW: We have a lot of little plans. I'm flying to my sister's for 5 days next week to see her and my nieces.  We're flying to Saskatoon for a wedding at the end of June.  We're having DH's niece and nephew stay with us for a week in July.  And, we just found out that Seth Rogen is doing a comedy show in Montreal in July, so we're thinking about doing that.
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    TTC Since January 2011 - We have bad sperm 
    February 2013: IUI #1 = BFN 
    October 2013: We made the decision to stop TTC and live without children.

    Nestie Besties with Xan921 
  • We are going to MSP in August and somewhere else in the Fall.  We want to go to Iceland, but I am not sure if we should spend the money on that large of a trip.  Maybe Boston?
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    "I DO NOT love that you think so many things revolve around you.  I know you're bitter.  I get it.  But I'm over your feelings." The best person on the internet ever!
  • @seahorse01 - I vote Iceland!! That would be amazing!

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    TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
    DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

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    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
  • @seahorse01- how was your trip??

    @sewilson33- sorry ab your H. Hopefully you can get back on the same page.

    @abt8113- good luck with the RE!

    Nothing new for me. lupron starts next Friday.

    We're going to the beach for a 4 day weekend with friends next weekend and a week in august at the beach with my family. We're saving $$ now that we've paid for IVF, so no big trips for us.

    Sending everyone lots of hugs!
    **Signature Warning**

    Dx PCOS August 2012
    Clomid x4 = BFN
    Femara+Follistim IUIs x 6 = 3 BFN, 2 C/P, 1 early miscarriage
    IVF June 2014- 43 R, 34 M, 24 F, 12 blasts frozen and severe OHSS
    FET September 12, 2014!
    Beta #1 12dp5dt- 724
    Beta #2 14dp5dt- 1631
    Beta #3 20dp5dt- 12,813
    EDD 5/31/15 until OB tells me otherwise. Grow babies grow!

    "I might have to wait. I'll never give up. I guess it's half timing, and the other half's luck. 
    Wherever you are, whenever it's right, you'll come out of nowhere and into my life." ~ Michael Buble

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  • We are going to MSP in August and somewhere else in the Fall.  We want to go to Iceland, but I am not sure if we should spend the money on that large of a trip.  Maybe Boston?
    COME TO BOSTON!!!!!

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • lol @amandaf6383- How did I know that would get your vote?

    The trip was fine, there was a lot of driving.  I really liked Asheville and Hilton Head.  If any of you ever get the chance to stay at the Disney resort at Hilton Head DO IT!  We have an amazing villa.  It was lovely.
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    "I DO NOT love that you think so many things revolve around you.  I know you're bitter.  I get it.  But I'm over your feelings." The best person on the internet ever!
  • Update: The bitch showed her ugly head today. So IUI stuff starts again. Saturday is CD3 bw/us. Assuming all goes well with that I start sticking myself that night.

    QOTW: Due to 3T, DH's Jeep kicking the bucket, and work on our house we have no vacay plans this summer. We will spend some weekends down the shore at my IL's shore house though and have some parties at our house.

    Vent: I'm happy AF showed her face so we can move on to this next IUI, but holy shitty timing. Saturday I have to go at 7:50am for BW/US then I have a hair appointment at 9am for a wedding that night. It's going to be a LONG day. I'm most likely going to have to friggin' shoot myself up in the bathroom at the wedding. I know some of you ladies have had to do this before but if the bitch held out one more day I wouldn't have to! And then to follow it up with Mother's Day. Just finish nailing my sad coffin shut, okay?
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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
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  • Love and ((hugs)) to all you wonderful ladies!
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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

  • Updates: Had TNF redrawn on Monday.. Still waiting for results. FX that it's improved!

    QOTW: Heading to Vegas this weekend, which is super exciting since we haven't been on any kind of vacation in over a year. Nothing major planned for summer vacations since we hopefully will be doing IVF soon. We may go camping/hiking at Grand Canyon for a weekend though.


    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
    Ovaries are done...
    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • Lots of love and hugs to everyone. I have no updates. I have my appointment next Friday and I'm excited and scared, even though this isn't my first RE rodeo.

    QOTW: We don't really have vacation plans for the summer. I take random long weekends and lay by the pool whenever humanly possible. I've talked with my girlfriends about maybe renting a beach house but who knows at this point.

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • Vent: I'm happy AF showed her face so we can move on to this next IUI, but holy shitty timing. Saturday I have to go at 7:50am for BW/US then I have a hair appointment at 9am for a wedding that night. It's going to be a LONG day. I'm most likely going to have to friggin' shoot myself up in the bathroom at the wedding. I know some of you ladies have had to do this before but if the bitch held out one more day I wouldn't have to! And then to follow it up with Mother's Day. Just finish nailing my sad coffin shut, okay?
    I'm sorry for the shitty timing, love.

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • Updates: Had TNF redrawn on Monday.. Still waiting for results. FX that it's improved! QOTW: Heading to Vegas this weekend, which is super exciting since we haven't been on any kind of vacation in over a year. Nothing major planned for summer vacations since we hopefully will be doing IVF soon. We may go camping/hiking at Grand Canyon for a weekend though.
    FX for good results!!

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • Aimothy said:
    Update: Impatiently waiting on beta 4 results.
    Wishing for huge fat big betas. :-)

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • @islandmonkey8 - I'm so sorry AF has such terrible timing! They call her a bitch for a reason!

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    TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
    DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

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    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
  • @islandmonkey8 - I'm so sorry AF has such terrible timing! They call her a bitch for a reason!
    Seriously, I know you're in a similar boat this weekend too with Mother's Day and all. I just want to strangle her timing!
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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

  • @sewilson33 I'm sorry you're H isn't ready to move forward yet.  GL with the acu if you go that route
    @abt8113 GL with your RE appt
    @aimothy FX for a fantastic number!
    @islandmonkey8 Sorry about AF, but glad you can get back to IUI this cycle
    @amandaf6383 GL with the new RE appointment





    dx:  Unexplained IF (mild MFI)

     TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3 TI, 2 IUI = BFN

    IVF #1 (May 2013):  Antagonist Protocol: 
    24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2 early blasts, no frosties = BFN
    IVF #2 (August 2013):  Lupron Stop Protocol: 
    28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
    EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
    FET #1 (April 2014):  transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP

    C.J. born 01/09/15

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  • Update:  I'm 6w today and started bleeding and cramping.  I had a couple light brown tinged CM wipes at work this morning but nothing else.  On my way home from work I started feeling crampy.  Got home and saw I bled (red) through my pants and then bled again when I went to the bathroom.  I called my nurse and I've got an appointment tomorrow.  I'm not expecting hopeful news.





    dx:  Unexplained IF (mild MFI)

     TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3 TI, 2 IUI = BFN

    IVF #1 (May 2013):  Antagonist Protocol: 
    24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2 early blasts, no frosties = BFN
    IVF #2 (August 2013):  Lupron Stop Protocol: 
    28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
    EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
    FET #1 (April 2014):  transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP

    C.J. born 01/09/15

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  • lfk2013lfk2013 member
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    Oh no, Looney! (hugs) to you.
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    Married: 10/13/2013
    TTC #1: Mirena removed 5/26/2015; DH - normal SA, me - diagnosed with PCOS 8/4/2016 - on Metformin;
    BFP - 10/29/2016!!!, EDD - 7/8/2017
  • (((hugs))) Looney. I hope everything is ok

    In Christ alone my hope is found. He is my LIGHT, my STRENGTH, and my SONG!


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    T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.  


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  • No, Looney!! :( I'll be thinking about you tomorrow.
  • hugs Looney! I'm keeping my FX that everything is okay!

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    TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
    DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

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    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
  • Looney so many hugs!   I really hope it was just a fluke and you get good news tomorrow.

    TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

    TTC 2.0   6/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
    BFP 9/16  EDD 6/3/17
    Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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  • Looney- Sending lots of T&Ps your way that everything is okay!

    Aim- Hoping for good beta results!

    Islandmonkey- So sorry for the horrible timing :-(  I am keeping everything crossed for you this cycle!

    RAB- I am hoping you o again on your own this cycle!
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    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    ~TTC Buddies with akcrrr and amandaf6383~
    ~Knottie/Nestie Besties with *ecinereb* - Congratulations!~
    TTC since June 2011 dx: PCOS
    Clomid+IUI: Cancelled b/c didn't respond (June 2012)
    Femara+Trigger+IUI #1: BFN :-( (July 2013)
    Natural Cycle (8/7/13)- BFP!  Beta #1 (9/10/13): 509 Progesterone: 18.64  Beta #2 (9/12/13): 1118
    Baby N born 5/9/14
  • Oh no, looney. So hopeful it is only a scare and little looney is just fine.
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    Dx PCOS August 2012
    Clomid x4 = BFN
    Femara+Follistim IUIs x 6 = 3 BFN, 2 C/P, 1 early miscarriage
    IVF June 2014- 43 R, 34 M, 24 F, 12 blasts frozen and severe OHSS
    FET September 12, 2014!
    Beta #1 12dp5dt- 724
    Beta #2 14dp5dt- 1631
    Beta #3 20dp5dt- 12,813
    EDD 5/31/15 until OB tells me otherwise. Grow babies grow!

    "I might have to wait. I'll never give up. I guess it's half timing, and the other half's luck. 
    Wherever you are, whenever it's right, you'll come out of nowhere and into my life." ~ Michael Buble

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