May 2012 Weddings
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qod 5/22

Would you ever allow your parents or your inlaws to live with you?  
"Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly"

Re: qod 5/22

  • My mom yes.
    My MIL-  Not for all the money in the world.  #batshitcrazy
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  • I have already let MIL live with us so that answers that. My mom or dad I would totally let! But FIL heck to the no! I would not want all that in my house. He is a total alcoholic and I just couldn't deal with that 24/7.
  • We've actually talked about having my Mom move in with us one day. It would work as long as she had an apartment or some separate space and not just a room in the house. I don't think that would work as well with Dad. 

    As far as the ILs, I would like to live closer to them but am not sure I would want to live with them. I love my MIL but TBH she can be a little overbearing and I could see it creating issues. If for some reason it were just FIL I'd let him move in in a heartbeat. 

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  • I actually suggested we moved into my IL HUGE house to save money, They would drive me nuts but their house is HUGE so I think I could hide hah.

    I would kill my mom, I literally lasted like 3 mnths after college before I had to move out. I love her so much but she is the one person who drives me up a wall.  My dad can move in whenever he wants hha
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  • We have discussed it a little bit. I think my mom and I would kill each other after while. 

    MIL stayed with us a few days before and after the wedding. She constantly cleaned our little apartment and I felt horrible. Both of us would love the easy access to her food though... yum!

    FIL is so quiet, I probably wouldn't even notice him.

    I might let my dad move in. He wouldn't though because he wouldn't be able to smoke inside.
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  • I feel like an a-hole saying this but no. I love my mom but we are much better when we don't see each other 24/7. My dad smokes like a chimney and I don't want that in my house.

    We did live with my in-laws for 2 months after we sold our condo and before we made settlement on our house. It was fine and we got along great but by the settlement date, we were all ready to move on. I do miss her preparing dinner though! ;)
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  • If there were emergency circumstances than probably yes it would have to have a definite start and end date though. But other than that. No. I love them all and want to keep it that was.
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  • Never. My parents moved into an In-Law suite house so that my dad's mom could move in with them just after my dad's dad passed away. It was heart breaking to sell our old house, because we weren't ready to let it go and I see how insane my g-ma makes my mom. My MIL would be the same way. However, my dad has a fantasy about me and H taking him and my mom in, but my mom knows it's crazy. I'm sorry. No.
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