Am I weird?....

pmontgomery87

I seem to enjoy sex more when he is in charge......am I the only one? It isn't that I don't enjoy being in charge....I just seem to like it more when he is....any advice on how to get the most out of either situation? I know he wishes I would take charge more and I want to because he loves it when I do......

pmontgomery87

I am starting to this yes now since there are no replies /:)

pmontgomery87

*think.....stupid thumbs

doeydo

No, not weird at all.  I think it is hot when FI is "in charge" int he bedroom.  It makes me feel more wanted/sexy for some reason and IDK how to describe it.

pmontgomery87

Exactly!!!! Glad I am not the only one!! Thanks for the reply

DawnLilly

This is sometimes a slow board. I enjoy both. I like him to make me feel wanted but it was brought to my attention that he needs to feel the same way. He said he likes it sometimes when I take charge to make him feel like he is sexy and that I "need" him right now.

pmontgomery87

dawnlily

that's a good point....I think it's mostly a confidence issue, not the confidence he has in me but what I have in myself..just something I have to work at! Thanks for the reply.

DawnLilly

pmontgomery87 said:

dawnlily

that's a good point....I think it's mostly a confidence issue, not the confidence he has in me but what I have in myself..just something I have to work at! Thanks for the reply.

That's exactly how I felt too. I don't know why I didn't jump him before he told me that's what he wanted sometimes. I am definitely glad he spoke up though. I have gained confidence and gotten more comfortable doing that. I think it has helped our physical and emotional relationship.

ladyshavon

I also had the same issue. I love for my husband to take charge but later became clear that he needed to feel wanted as well. It truly is all about confidence. Fix yourself up, wear something you feel sexy in (that part really is about you releasing your inner sex vixen, guys don't care because it's coming off anyway) and take charge! Not sure what to do or just want some motivation to try new things? Check out the Date Night 2 game from Pure Romance. This game has lots of creative sexy suggestions to try. You can play it with him or for your situation it may be better if you pull a couple of suggestions out of the "wake the neighbors" deck and make sure to complete the task buy the end of the day. Your guy is sure to enjoy! Check out my Facebook page for more ideas and encouragement. Message me there to get a discount offer on the Date Night 2 game, tickle his pickle book, or the complete guide to sexual positions all can be found under Foreplay and Fantasy on the site.

pmontgomery87

awesome! thank you!

lifeguard

Given the mixed messages men get from the media. Some men are not sure if they should initiate.

kr0403

I like it when he takes charge and when he tells me what he wants me to do. But, I do find it is hard to get him to do that. he just says he likes anything i do. I just want him to give me directions

notyetthere89

Not weird at all!! I very much enjoy a man taking charge. Just realize they like when you take charge... It goes both ways... That'll help him feel wanted. Tricky but it's gotta go both ways.

MarriedLateBloomer

I love my husband being in charge.  Being tied up or spanked is a real turn on.  I don't think there is anything wrong with liking him being in charge.  I really feel like the only place I can really be more in charge is if I am giving him a blow job.  I say take charge with blow jobs.  I'm sure that would make him really happy.