Trouble in Paradise
wowand135
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Is this cheating?
I discovered (long story short via a "junk" email) that my husband two weeks ago set up an account on fling.com. I have never not trusted him before as he is very devoted. He hasn't put up a picture or communicated with anyone, likely because you'd have to pay to upgrade and I do our banking and would see a charge.
I do not think he has actually cheated. However, his profile does list our specific city which to me shows some intent of meeting a real person. (He watches porn a lot and I'm fine with that but if it's real ppl I feel it's different.) In the section for what he is interested in, he listed experimentation, threesomes, and "open to a relationship." That's the part that got me. He may have gone on this one time only but it was recent.
As a brief background we already have problems and are in counseling, namely for his concern with not good enough sex/lack of desire/enthusiasm on my part.
What would you make of this? Thank you.
I do not think he has actually cheated. However, his profile does list our specific city which to me shows some intent of meeting a real person. (He watches porn a lot and I'm fine with that but if it's real ppl I feel it's different.) In the section for what he is interested in, he listed experimentation, threesomes, and "open to a relationship." That's the part that got me. He may have gone on this one time only but it was recent.
As a brief background we already have problems and are in counseling, namely for his concern with not good enough sex/lack of desire/enthusiasm on my part.
What would you make of this? Thank you.
Re: Is this cheating?
None of this bodes well. No happily married man signs up for any type of a dating website.
You and he needed to derive at a solution together --- he blamed you, more or less, for your joint sex life being so lacking? Nope:2 to tango and he is part of the problem inasmuch as that he didn't work on this issue with you to get a good outcome to it.
He doesn't sound like the greatest of guys, based on that. ANd what about him? Does he just jump on and it's in and out and no foreplay, no variety no nothing? You would know the answer to that one.
Hasn't he spoken to you with the intent that he wants you and he to have a great sex life?