getting off two early during sex

scooter89

Why does a man get off to early in sex
:-/

TarponMonoxide

"Two early"???

Is that like three early or four early?

Good grief.

That's too early. Just an fyi. (The two of us went to the store and got some milk and Nancy came along, too.)

He ejaculates too soon because of a number of things:

Inexperience, nerves, poor technique, perhaps a medical issue is at hand.

I don't know the backstory. If this is your H, you need to speak to him --- outside of the bedroom, of course -- and approach the topic.

He needs to try the "think about baseball" or "think about screwing your 7th grade math teacher" trick.

doeydo

How early are we talking here?  Like five minutes into sex or you two are just making out and he jizzes in his pants?

NoneForUs

TarponMonoxide said:

"Two early"???

Is that like three early or four early?

Good grief.

That's too early. Just an fyi. (The two of us went to the store and got some milk and Nancy came along, too.)

He ejaculates too soon because of a number of things:

Inexperience, nerves, poor technique, perhaps a medical issue is at hand.

I don't know the backstory. If this is your H, you need to speak to him --- outside of the bedroom, of course -- and approach the topic.

He needs to try the "think about baseball" or "think about screwing your 7th grade math teacher" trick.

It could have been an honest spelling mistake. No need to be so rude about it. 

I once dated a man who suffered from PE. Communication helped a great deal. He would ask me to slow down if he was close. I got rid of him in the end because he called me a whore for being sexually adventurous. He also had a very small penis and a prudish attitude. No thanks!

bennypb

Average in the UK is around 7 minutes. Continually coming within 90 seconds is considered PE. Is it that soon? As long as both partners are satisfied then it shouldn't matter how long it takes, but in this case sounds like you're not? It can be physical, more often it's a psychological problem. It is difficult to work through but it is manageable. There is no quick fix, and delay pills/creams are a bit of a waste of money. The best method is identifying what the trigger is and working towards eliminating this, whilst continually praciticing and learning to identify when you need to stop, working up gradually so that with an appropriate pause you keep extending your staying power. Read this it deals with all the techniques http://www.passionbay.com/blog/premature-ejaculation-last-longer-bed/

Lindshae322

Sounds like he can use a little help.  I have a website were you can order a product called "Up all night" for him.  This is a prolonging cream.  Check it out at www.pureromance.com/shanikeroland

NoneForUs

bennypb said:

Average in the UK is around 7 minutes. Continually coming within 90 seconds is considered PE. Is it that soon? As long as both partners are satisfied then it shouldn't matter how long it takes, but in this case sounds like you're not? It can be physical, more often it's a psychological problem. It is difficult to work through but it is manageable. There is no quick fix, and delay pills/creams are a bit of a waste of money. The best method is identifying what the trigger is and working towards eliminating this, whilst continually praciticing and learning to identify when you need to stop, working up gradually so that with an appropriate pause you keep extending your staying power. Read this it deals with all the techniques http://www.passionbay.com/blog/premature-ejaculation-last-longer-bed/

Very informative post!

4Karma

I feel for you and would love feedback from others. My husband has PE and for instance one day this week- penetration had not even occurred yet!!! We have been married 7 yrs and I feel like it's gotten worse. He is becoming ashamed and I'm getting bored and no longer wanting to initiate intercourse because I feel like "why bother" help