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laurenandbill3

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TarponMonoxide

laurenandbill3 said:

It's our first anniversary today. My husband and I agreed to just do cards as we are saving money and redoing our kitchen. We woke up this morning and he said he forgot to get me a card. I know we've both been stressed about house projects and haven't had a lot of time on our own, but I can't help but be hurt by this. Am I justified or am I being over dramatic?

He can still run down and get a card. The day isnt over yet. It's 1:15pm where I am.

I don't know what is up with this --  but I strongly suggest you talk to him.

Communication is key.  Tell him what you told us.

In the future, here is what you do -- so he doesn't forget a birthday or anniversary:

A month before the day: give him a wish list with several items you would like to have.

He can pick one; they need not cost a lot of money.

This way he's got no excuse and there's no way he can "forget" or say "I didn't know what you wanted..." when he comes up empty.

Will vave yu a lot of aggravation, if you do this --- you can also do the same for Christmas or a major holiday that entails gift giving.

Leftie22

Well, he did remember your anniversary, he just forgot the card. Go ahead and feel sad for a minute, but don't beat him up about it. And maybe suggest that you make a nice dinner together or go out for cheap dessert or something. Cards don't really matter, and it sounds like you're both stressed. Do something nice to mark the day, and don't be too strict on the card. I'm sure he'll be relieved to see you're willing to get past it, and have a good day. Good luck!