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Tips on how to deal with a Bipolar spouse
Hi everyone.
My husband was diagnosed with bipolar disorder before we even met. I have always known about the problem, went with him to his doctors and also make sure that he takes his medicines etc. We have never really had too many problems with it.. However he is going through a bit of a episode now that a lot of things are happening at once in our life. His work circumstances are just hectic and we are moving to a new town.. just to name a few..
I know it is a sickness and its not him, however, sometimes it gets difficult to remember that when you're not treated the way you should be. I wish I could say I knew how to always stay rational and to handle it perfectly.. Im hoping that I can learn from more "experienced" spouses. We've been married only 6 months now - and I have so much to learn!!
Thats the reason for my post.. If ANYONE can please help with ANY advice that can help I will really appreciate it!!!
Re: Tips on how to deal with a Bipolar spouse
Try your county mental health organization; they can probably tell you where one is held and when --- or ask his doctor or therapist.
A friend of mine has a former spouse who is bipolar --- they found out after they broke up that that was what he had.
He is funny about taking his meds and he can do odd things; it is touch and go for her because they have 4 kids --- and when those kids were not of majority, it was all the tougher.
Realize his bipolarisim is a day to day issue -- check out the support group. Any spouse or partner of somebody with a chronic condition will tell you how tough it can be sometimes. GL.