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My turn....it's a.....

GIRL!
We are very excited (as we would have been either way...but I think deep down I really wanted a girl.)

But, if you could keep Baby in your thoughts and prayers, I'd appreciate it.  I got a call last night that she is measuring small.  (10 Days behind my due date, which I am reasonably sure is correct, if it was not a little late already due to early O.)  Her head and abdomen measurements are only 10th percentile and 3rd percentile.

The rational part of my brain knows that ultrasounds can be off (they told me DS was a full pound heaver than he was the day before he was born) and baby wasn't in the best position for some pics (heart), so that leads me to believe other measurements could be off, too.   Or, baby could just be small.  DS was only 7lbs 12oz at 10 days late, so he wasn't super tiny, but not huge by any means.  I still feel her moving around the same as I always have, etc.

But, the irrational part of me was dumb, and Googled, and then freaked myself out.  (Chromosomal Abnormality, Toxoplasmosis, Infection, Placenta issues....)

Trying to keep my head on straight, but sometimes that doesn't work super well. 
:\"> I have a another ultrasound next Wednesday, and then a doctor's appt. on Thurs to see the results.  So, I'm just hoping the next 7 days go fast. 

Re: My turn....it's a.....

  • Congratulations on a baby girl!  I will absolutely keep you and baby in my prayers.  Stay off of google; no good ever comes of that.  Hang in there.  Waiting is never easy when it comes to things like this.  
     
  • "Dr. Google" is evil and not to be trusted! Prayers for baby girl and you!! 
  • Congratulations!

    I will absolutely keep you guys in my prayers. And I also agree to stay far away from Dr. Google!
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  • Congratulations!!

    Ditto the others...step away from Google!  (Which, as someone with their Google M.D., I know is impossible!)  Try not to focus on the what if's.  I will keep your baby girl in my thoughts and prayers!

  • Congrats on the baby girl!  Throughout my pregnancy the doctors said DD was going to be huge.  She was 6lbs 9oz and perfectly normal.  So don't let the ultrasound results scare you, they're not accurate. 

    And as my pedi told me when I was concerned about DD being on the small side, "Someone has to be at the top of the percentile and someone has to be at the bottom."
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  • Congratulations on a baby girl!  So exciting.  And you all are definitley in my thoughts and prayers.  I know it's easier said than done, but please try not to worry!
  • How exciting! congrats. Will keep you and baby in my thoughts and prayers. I am sure all will be ok. Yes step away from google. I had a couple hiccups when pregnant with DD#2 and really it is best to STAY off the internet. Hang in there!!
  • Congrats Dena!   Look at Madeline and Harrison.  Madeline was teeny tiny and still is and Harrison is a giant.  Saying a prayer your little GIRL is just a healthy little peanut.  Now go buy some pink and purple!  Just say NO to Dr. Google.  

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  • Yea for little girls!! congratulations! 

    I hope that her small size is of no concern, and that your next u/s clears up any doubt on the issue. The internets are hard to avoid when it makes access to info so easy, but our minds can jump to the scariest places so easily.  Try to relax until you get real information from your doctors (easier said than done, I know).
  • Thanks, ladies.  Literally as I was typing into Google I thought "I'm going to regret this...."  They should make people have to click like 6 times when Googling medical stuff.  "Are you sure you want to Google this?"  "Positive?" "You cannot unknow what you are about to read..." Ha!

    Thanks for the encouragement, though!  I so appreciate it.

    And, I definitely hit the clearance rack at Marshall's today.  :-D  Got 5 onsies for $6.00.

  • Yay!!! Congratulations! You'll certainly be in my prayers. :)
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  • Congrats - that's wonderful news!!

    And yes, yes, yes, step away from Dr Google!!!!
  • amyjoy18 said:


    And as my pedi told me when I was concerned about DD being on the small side, "Someone has to be at the top of the percentile and someone has to be at the bottom."
    This is so true. 
     
  • How wonderful! Congrats. You and baby girl are in my thoughts. And ditto the other ladies on staying away from Dr. Google.
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  • Congrats!  I agree re Google.  All the monitoring they can do is a double-edged sword.  DD had a kidney issue in utero, which caused us a lot of worry and follow up appointments and it turned out to be nothing.  I managed to stay off google, though that was more about fear than will power.
  • I can't resist Googling either - and have regretted it every time. I now say to myself "my situation is not their situation" - bc you can scare yourself to death! My niece measured so small my sister had to see an high-risk ob - who was not concerned. Her baby was born totally normal, but on the smaller side (6ish lbs). I had pregnancy scares too. Try not to borrow trouble! Your baby is fine - growth isn't perfectly linear. Hugs!
  • YAY!!! A wee baby girl! Now I get to buy something girlie! lol

    Hugs, prayers, and Finger locks so that you don't google anything in the next 7 days. ;)

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  • Aw yay, a little girl! How sweet!

    I wouldn't worry until the doctor says to worry, which I know is much easier said than done. But stay away from Dr Google! All that will do is cause stress!
  • congrats on the baby girl, and you will both be in my thoughts and prayers!
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  • Thank you, again, ladies!  I know I can always count on you to be the voice of reason! 

    (Why is it always so much easier to be reasonable when you're not the one involved!?!?!) 
  • denalea said:
    Thank you, again, ladies!  I know I can always count on you to be the voice of reason! 

    (Why is it always so much easier to be reasonable when you're not the one involved!?!?!) 
    emotion, it clouds judgement :)
  • Congrats Dena! Glad the u/s update resolved some of your concern!! Feel free to email...I know girls inside and out!
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