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moving in with fil.

So, recently my husband and i eloped to Las Vegas. We have been together a few years, and we are very very happy together... The only problem is that we live in this tiny shoebox apartment, and neither one of us have good enough credit to buy a house of our own.. So my hubby has come up with his idea to help us save money........ to move in with his father... Its a long story and i wont waste your time, but my husband, his brother and their dad all own equal shares in this home. So I guess techically, the house is my husbands too. His dad, however, moved a woman in over 10 years ago, who has completely destroyed this home.... Im talking tons of cats, tons of kids, you get the picture. Lets just leave it at it is a disgusting mess, not meant for humans to live in. The past few weeks have been us working there nonstop, on top of my job, gutting the place.. Im ok with moving in there for awhile till we save for a home of our own.... But my husband wants to live there forever.... I have told him I will NOT have our children in the same home as his father (personal reasons) but he seems to think that living there for awhile will change my mind.... I just could really use some help determining if im being a selfish hag or not.... and how to handle the upcoming move. Advice please... heck it doesnt even have to be advice, i just need someone to encourage me in this confusing time....
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