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Cat owners come in (obv. NGPR)
Tell me about owning a cat.
What type of work is involved?
How much money do you spend on your cat (food, vet bills, etc.)
Do you have pet insurance?
DH and I are thinking about getting a cat. I really want one but would want to go into it with a clear head about the responsibilities.
Bonus: PIP your kitty.
Married August 2009
3 years. 5 losses.
Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15
Re: Cat owners come in (obv. NGPR)
It's awesome. Our cat is adorable.
What type of work is involved?
Not much. B has short hair. She has food and water in the basement and a litter box. DH scoops litter box every other day to every 3 days. He gets lazy.
How much money do you spend on your cat (food, vet bills, etc.)
Not much. Food is about $12 every 3 weeks (dry). Vet bills are once a year, visit fee and vaccs. Maybe $150? Litter is cheap! You can buy a refill box from PetCo!
Do you have pet insurance?
We do not have pet insurance (I'm haven't found any to be worth the cost)
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TTC Since January 2011 - We have bad spermWe love our cats, can't imagine life without them. So many cuddles! They're adorable, and they have such distinct personalities. It's fun.
What type of work is involved?
We cut their nails once a month or so, scoop the litter boxes a couple times a week, change the litter monthly (way less often than they say to do it, but it works for us and our cats), keep an eye on their food and water levels, and wash the water bowl every so often. They also get needy sometimes, so we have to be ready for play/cuddles (mostly cuddles, as they play with each other, boxes, and balled up paper for the most part).
How much money do you spend on your cat (food, vet bills, etc.)
Mostly, we just buy food and litter. Maybe $20/mo total. We also have a large cat tree, scratcher, carriers, litter boxes, food/water bowls, etc, so it was a big initial cost and you have to replace these things every once in a while. They go to the vet once a year for ~$50 each, pretty much, and take no medication as they're indoor cats. I'm sure the vet bills get more expensive when they get older, though.
Do you have pet insurance?
No. We looked into it, and it didn't seem worth it.

"You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." - Dr. SeussWe now have 1 cat, he loves our dog and is a big Momma's boy. He hasn't been around children very much so he is very on guard when our nephews stop by.
Basically I put a scoop of food in his dish once a day, we have a cat water fountain running in our bathroom because he refuses to drink out of a regular bowl.
His litter is scooped by DH twice a week unless I smell it and can't handle it otherwise. When we had 2 cats it had to be scooped more often.
Food isn't very expensive, just look for sales and coupons. Litter is annoying but at least the cat goes in one spot and not all over our yard.
Vet bills aren't toooo bad. If the cat is an indoor cat they technically only need 2 vaccines. Outdoor cats require more vaccines which means more money.
I love my cat, I loved having 2 brothers but now I just put my love for my 2 babies into 1 and he knows he is spoiled by me. He is snuggly, and we have a bond that he doesn't have with DH.
TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
~Started acupuncture in May 2014~
~~BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
She rarely leaves her bed and will demand a blanket be put on the couch if she wants to sit on it. The only exercise she gets is when she runs away from me when I'm trying to comb her or clip her nails.
She hates all other people and will often hiss at them when they enter our house and it appears they are going to stay longer than 10 minutes. When my parents used to come for the weekend, she'd sit at the bottom of the stairs and hiss so they couldn't get by with the luggage. Last month, after 8 years, she finally let my Dad pet her. But only for about 10 seconds. Then it was game over.
I love her and I wouldn't trade her for the world, but be careful about what cat you choose. When we got her from the Humane Society, she was sitting all cute in the front of the kennel, while all the other cats were playing with each other on the other side. WE SHOULD HAVE KNOWN. She's the most anti social cat ever. Unless you are her Dad. Then she's attached to his chest.
Baby Boy born 5.3.15
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
She was a funny cat. Loved to cuddle with me, cuddled with DH, but didn't like strangers. She mostly left guests alone but she was so pretty that they would try to touch her, which she hated. She would give them a warning hiss and if they persisted (btw wtf people? Why do you not back off a hissing cat?!) she would scratch.
She left DS alone and didn't seem bothered by him, just ignored him. Same with our dog.
She was expensive. She had a food allergy and her food was more than $100 per month. She also had medicine we had to mail order. And we had to pay someone to come to the house at least once a day when we left town because if we tried to board her she would refuse to eat and it would exacerbate her medical condition.
So, we loved her, but she was high-maintenance. We miss her.
I think we will get another cat some day, but not planning to soon.
When you've been married this long, you need a ticker to remind you.
Baby Boy M - 08/01/2013
Married August 2009
3 years. 5 losses.
Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15
In Christ alone my hope is found. He is my LIGHT, my STRENGTH, and my SONG!
T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.
Leave out food and water and you should be good to go.
Unless you have @aimothy cat who will probably eat all the food in one sitting.
TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
~Started acupuncture in May 2014~
~~BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~

"You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." - Dr. SeussIn Christ alone my hope is found. He is my LIGHT, my STRENGTH, and my SONG!
T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.