I'm i gay if I what to experience having sex with another man

Jojo7916

Sex

DawnLilly

Sexuality is a spectrum not a classification. You can fall anywhere on that spectrum. I have had sex with a woman but I am in a happy monogamous marriage with a man. One experience does not define you nor does mere curiosity.

doeydo

You might be bisexual, bi-curious, pansexual, etc.

TarponMonoxide

What's going on here?

I am guessing the title was edited and so was the post itself.

bennypb

Possibly, if you have fantasies about men, are attracted to men, and sleep with men you're technically gay or bisexual. But nothing is clear cut, sexuality can be ever evolving and transient and it may just be a curiosity that you want to fulfill. The main thing is to not be concerned, you are what you are, gay, bi straight, who cares, as long as you are happy and confident in who you are. To loosely paraphrase Gor Vidal there are no gay people, just gay acts : )

TarponMonoxide

It's also said that lots of young men experiment ---- we need more backstory from you.

As you can see, everybody is giving you a picture of what you might be experiencing. We don't know your age, we don't know anything much about you. We've got no backstory from you. It would help us if we had some idea of what's been happening with you. You'll get better advice that way.

SheMarie82

I think that before you worry about coming up with a label for yourself, you should evaluate your thoughts and feelings. I personally believe that there is a spectrum of sexuality, you can be gay, straight, or somewhere in between. I, myself consider myself to by almost straight, but I am married to a woman. So, I generally classify as bi because it makes it easier for people to understand.