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I'm kinda new to couponing and budgeting, and I'm finding that they interfere with each other some times. For example, last month I went over my budget, but it was largely because I found great deals on paper products and dog food, plus I got a groupon deal on a bunch of oil changes, then there was the $120 used armoire that we really did need to clear out space in our guest room closet for the international student that we are hosting next year. We are now good on dog food and paper products for 4 months, and oil changes for a year.. but I feel like I failed. For our particular situation, going over the monthly budget does not mean going into debt. We technically CAN afford to go over our budget. However, it is putting us behind on our (probably too ambitious) savings goals, especially if I continue to do this every month.
What is your take on this? Is it OK to go over on your budget if you can afford it and you are buying things on sale that you really do need? Or is it best to cut out the bargain hunting and buy only what you need? Also, to those experienced couponers...do you think I am just going over because I'm new to couponing, and I need some time to develop my "stockpile"?
Re: Are budgets always best?
I think that it's ok doing what you are doing because in the end you will be using those items/services regardless and you will save in the future months budget because you wont have to buy those items.
H and I do the same thing, a few months ago our grocery bill was about $95 for a few weeks in a row which is high for us, but after that it dropped to $60 or so for a few weeks because we had food/toiletries in the house stocked up so we didn't need to buy as much.
The only thing that I can think would be a waste is if you bought 30 jars or hot sauce or 35 cans of olives just because you have a coupon. I see that stuff when I watch "Extreme Couponing" and I wonder how many of jars of hot sauce and olives do you really need LOL.
Maybe, since this is something you are "into" or could happen frequently add a "stockpiling" line item to your budget. Budget like $25 a pay or whatever and then that way when a deal comes along you can use whatever is in that "envelope" which should keep that practice from becoming a habit and really make your stop and think if whatever is on sale or whatever you have a coupon for is a want or a need.
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