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crazy dreams!
I have been happily married for 5 years and with my husband for 16 years! The issue is that i still have frequent dreams of my exboyfriend. My Ex and I were high school sweethearts and i met my husband shortly after my Ex and I broke up for the final time (right before graduation). My Ex and I continued to be friends (only!) for years after we broke up and never rekindled anything, but admittedly would still flirt with each other. The Ex just got married this fall and i found myself almost grieving. I guess it was the idea that we would NEVER end up together that finally hit me. I guess I thought he might always be there if my world fell apart.
Well, long story short, since he started his now wife about two years ago, he won't talk me, respond to emails (I only text or email him on his birthday to literally say HB), and we were facebook friends and he unfriended me. I think she is intimidated by our previous relationship and made him cut off all contact with me (so Ross and Emily and Rachel in Friends!). It hurts because we were actually friends and i miss my firend.
So now i am having dreams of all kinds! about him. The latest was so sad as i dreamt that we ran into each other at Home Depot and he was with her and me with my husband and we smile and nodded and went our separate ways but then, he snuck away from her sought me out and told me how much he missed being my friend and that it was all her and he was trapped. It broke my heart and i swear i was crying when i woke up because it was so sad!
Anyone else relate?