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Does anyone have any resolutions this year? Or just something you want to work on or do better in 2015?
Happy New Year!
Re: New Year's Resolutions?
-Abbey
I have a ton of them...I know that I will not succeed at all of them (or maybe none of them, lol!), but I do like to always keep a list of things to work on to kind of keep me in check.
Get more sleep each night
Drink more water
Read 1 book per month
Sew 1 project every other month
Exercise 3 times a week
Organize closets and spare bedroom
Have a more organized routine for mornings/evenings
Of course I want to lose the baby weight, and then some (I'm actually only 6 or 8 lbs up from the day I found out I was pregnant, but I lost a good bit during the first half of the pregnancy. I had quite a bit I could stand to lose, even not pregnant!!!)
I'd also like to be more patient with S (yell less, etc.)...but also know that will also be difficult with the upcoming baby and related lack of sleep. I just generally want to feel like a better Momma. (Do we EVER feel like we're doing a good enough job!?!?!)
Finally, I'd like to organize my house and KEEP it that way!
I'm pretty much a total cliche....but those are three main areas I know I could improve. Trying to balance that with the knowledge that if I love my kids (I do!), then it won't matter that I have less than patient days. And it doesn't matter that my house is a mess, or I am "fluffier" than I should/want to be! There will be a time when they won't want to cuddle and play that I can work on those things.
Marriage: continue 1 date night outside the house per month
Add one date night at home per month after the kids go to bed (instead of him playing video games and my high quality TV)
Family: each parent takes Logan on one free or cheap date per month.
Do one active family activity per month (walking, kicking the soccer ball, etc)
Health: Go to bed at 11 every night (so far so good and it has really made a difference!)
Get strong again (after not exercising for a year thanks to the pregnancy and surgery complications, I have a long way to go here)
Home: organize/purge one space per month
Finance: save for Christmas all year long (we're SO bad about this)
Continue paying down debt.
I like Abby's to not yell as much. It's something I really struggle with!
I'm also going to work hard to get our debt down. We'll be paying off my DH's car loan and another bill in March, which will help a lot!
My other goal is to try to pick up one more freelance writing gig. Doing this help help me build my reputation down here as well as bring in more$ to help pay down the debt.
My three sons!