Confront someone who blocked you on Facebook?

bri123abc

Hi everyone

Can I have your opinions on something please?

If someone won't respond to your text messages and then blocks you on facebook, is it OK to go through another account to confront them about it?

Thanks so much

joleri23

I'd say no. I'd rather ask them directly.

jtmh2012

What's the point? They obviously don't want to talk to you. Confronting them won't change that.

VOR

At some point you need to let it go.  If you can't call them or see them in person, then stop trying to "confront" them online.  A LOT is lost through the written word, especially in anger. 

artbyallie

How about take a hint and leave them alone?

Even talking to them in person could come across badly if you start by whining about how they blocked you on FB.

MrsAshleyH10

Um. I'd say leave them alone. What exactly is the relationship you have with this person?

Erikan73

Another vote for leaving them alone. If they have blocked you & won't respond to your texts/calls, then I would stop wasting my time trying to communicate with them and move on. If this is an immediate family member, give them time (several months) and then maybe reach out to them again. But else drop it & move on and spend your time on more positive things. Why waste your time on someone who has no time for you.

bri123abc

thanks everyone 

puppylove2014

No.

puppylove2014

LOL! I remember you. Let me guess your brother and SIL had enough of your self centered BS and blocked you. Good for them!

GilliC

puppylove2014 said:

LOL! I remember you. Let me guess your brother and SIL had enough of your self centered BS and blocked you. Good for them!

I totally missed this in the Thank You note post! I should have remembered that there's only one person around here who finds fault with her SIL for being nice!

puppylove2014

GilliC said:

LOL! I remember you. Let me guess your brother and SIL had enough of your self centered BS and blocked you. Good for them!

I totally missed this in the Thank You note post! I should have remembered that there's only one person around here who finds fault with her SIL for being nice!

Read her post from October. Apparently she was hoping if she asked essentially the same question...a few months later...it would now be ok to harass someone who dares to block her on Facbook.

nyc artist

i'd say going on to another account to "confront" them is a) borderline stalker and b) cowardly.

If you truly want to "confront" them, facebook is not the place. Try calling again, if you even want to take it that far. But as others have said, why bother when this person has gone to these lengths to not speak to you? I'm sure there are much more positive things you can do with your time.

I know the feeling to defend or explain yourself might be strong, but I'll say unless you really really care about this person and don't want to lose the relationship AND are willing to put your ego aside and listen as well as speak, it's not worth it at all.

Disneygeek77

@dutchgirl76  and here

dutchgirl76

Wow, I was trying to defend, assuming someone wouldn't ask the same question over and over again. I'm sorry but please leave your SIL alone. I don't know if you've seen that show Catfish, but that's what you're doing. Take the hint and leave the person alone. If you really need to discuss something with them pick up a phone and discuss it like an adult.