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H's Car-Help Me Strategize

This week has been a major financial wake up call for us.  We have a lot of work to do on our finances.  

Right now we owe on both of our cars.  I owe around $2,500 at 4% interest on a car worth about $6,000 that I love and that will last many more years.  H owes around $5,500 at 6.9% on a car worth about the same, and it is having major problems.  Both of us have much better credit than when we took out these loans, but H's car is too old to refinance anywhere that we have found.  

The problematic car is a 2004 Subaru Forester Turbo with about 124,000 miles.  We've loved it, but when we noticed it was burning oil a few weeks ago we brought it in and spent $900 on repairs, including the routine 125,000 mile service.  We bring it to a dealership for a few reasons: 1) we know NOTHING about cars and have no friends that do either, 2) they give free loaners, and neither of us can be without a car during the work week, 3) the last couple of times we've attempted to find local mechanics, even with recommendations, we have gotten burned.  I know this part of why we are spending so much.  H got back to it after our trip, and it is still burning oil, and also needs to tires soon.  We've spent over $1,000 a year on repairs since we bought it at 85,000 miles.  That was in much worse financial times and we felt pretty desperate.  

We've been paying above the minimum since the beginning, and it'll be paid off in about 1.5 years at our current rate.  However, I'm starting to worry it won't last that long.  I know car buying is a hot topic of debate around here, and it is between my H and I as well.  I'd love to never have a car payment again, while H is okay with a three year car loan with reasonable payments on a lightly used vehicle.  Our compromise is going to be one car loan at a time; his vote counts here and I can live with that.  

I am in the long process of sellling $2,500 worth of stock, which I've mentioned before, and was planning to use that to just pay off my car and then start "banking" my payment towards our next DP.  Is this still a good strategy if H's car may be on the outs, or should I funnel this money towards his loan instead?  If you were me, would you also pause e-fund and Roth IRA contributions to accelerate either the saving or the pay down?  We've already stopped travel savings.  There are a few expensive things (our dog adoption and my dive instructor course) that we're locked into at this point, but they will be cash flowed.  Federal SLs and mortgage are our only other debts, but e-fund is significantly lower than I'd like.  My car payment is only $140 a month so it won't add up that quickly.  

I feel like a total MM failure right now and would welcome any advice.  I know we all have different strategies with these things.  The only other thing I'll add is that my car has a cosigner, and that adds to my desire to get it paid off.  
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  • If it were me I would sell that stock you have been talking about it and pay off your car like you mentioned.  I would NOT pause e fund or IRA contributions unless you are already contributing to another IRA - then I would probably pause the ROTH IRA contribution.

    I feel like there will never be "enough" money to do everything we want to.  Right now 1k is no way enough of an e fund for me to sleep at night so ours has always been at 6k.  Unfortunately it never stays at that number because we have either car repairs, medical bills, or house repairs to deal with. 
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  • We are proud drivers of paid for beaters. So, if I were you, I'd put the stock proceeds toward the loan with the higher interest rate. You don't say how much you have in your e-fund, but it if it were me, I'd then liquidate that and put everything but $1,000 toward the loans. While I am clearly on the debt averse side, I wouldn't stop retirement contributions.
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  • Xstatic3333Xstatic3333 member
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    We have about $3,500 in our e-fund right now.  It will be $4,000 soon if we keep to the current plan, as our $500 reimbursement from upgrading our boiler was slated to go in there.  This is about 1.5 months of expenses.  Although I'm becoming more debt-averse as time goes on, I'm not comfortable dropping it any lower.  I could be talked into a temporary pause of new contributions to save up a car down payment.  Our jobs are both funded for at least a couple of years, and the $3,500 could cover an "all deductibles at once" situation (our health insurance rocks).  

    Stock is definitely getting sold.  It's just taking some time since it is certificated and I had to manually transfer it to myself in my married name before selling it.  This required a medallion signature guarantee, all has to be done by mail, etc.  

    Roth IRA is my only retirement.  H gives 9% to a pension and an additional 5% to a 457 (government version of a 401 K).  

    ETA: I know there are different attitudes about the emergency fund.  Our is for extreme emergency only-job loss, natural disaster, major family crisis, etc.  We bank a little for car repairs each paycheck, but that's currently tapped out.  We can cash flow most repairs but it eats up all our wiggle room. 
  • abrewer5abrewer5 member
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    You mentioned H's car is worth about what you owe, could you get this last repair done, sell the car and in the mean time sell your stocks and buy a beater car for him?

    That way you don't increase debt, you get out of the money pit car and you can continue to pay on your car more aggresively.

    I bought a great '96 Toyota Camry in high school for 3K and the thing still runs and has very minimal repairs even with 280K miles.

     

    ETA words I forgot.

  • abrewer5 said:

    You mentioned H's car is worth about what you owe, could you get this last repair done, sell the car and in the mean time sell your stocks and buy a beater car for him?

    That way you don't increase debt, you get out of the money pit car and you can continue to pay on your car more aggresively.

    I bought a great '96 Toyota Camry in high school for 3K and the thing still runs and has very minimal repairs even with 280K miles.

     

    ETA words I forgot.

    Ugh, I know, I'm still a total believer in the reliable used car strategy. I think we're just having bad luck. I definitely think Toyotas and Hondas last forever. The car we like is a Honda and I plan to keep it to the high-200s for sure.

    Selling the Forester is an interesting idea. I'll bring it to H. He's pretty gunshy about selling on Craigslist (he's afraid that if something goes wrong the buyer will come after us) but there's a huge market for private party Subaru sales in our area.
  • I would sell the stock to get your car taken care of. After that I would halt the E-Fund savings until you get H's car taken care of. How long do you think it will take you to pay off?

    I wouldn't stop retirement for it.

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    I would sell the stock to get your car taken care of. After that I would halt the E-Fund savings until you get H's car taken care of. How long do you think it will take you to pay off?

    I wouldn't stop retirement for it.

    I'll have to full budget tonight, but as long as we get a break from repairs, now that we've paused travel I bet we could do it in six months. Would you pay to the loan vs. stockpiling cash? My thinking is that cash could also be used for repairs in a pinch.
  • Don't stop retirement and try not to dip into the e-fund too much just yet.  

    If you sell the stock, make sure you hold back enough for taxes.  Personally, I would see if there's something else that can be done to fill in this financial gap other than selling the stock... but that's just because I wouldn't want to pay 15% in taxes for a 4-7% car loan.  I'm cheap though, and if that's the best source of cash for you and you really need it right now, then by all means go for it.

    Speaking of taxes, are you expecting a refund?  If so, make a point to do that as early as possible to give you an additional cushion.  We got our refund in less than 2 weeks by e-filing.

    If it's leaking oil and you know this, I would also be hinky about selling it to a private party.  Make sure the laws in your state protect you in this instance.  Some states are pretty much "buyer beware," other states not so much if the seller has knowledge of a defect and doesn't disclose it to the buyer.  Personally, I don't like having to worry about it and that's why we sell cars to places like dealerships and carmax - the risk is on them, and they are big enough to sell the car for parts if it turns out to be a bad deal for them.  

    As a trade-off, we take a hit in the price we get for it when selling to a dealership/carmax. But when we were contemplating possibly having to spend upwards of $2K for a new catalytic converter on H's old car, we decided to take it to carmax and see.  The car (thankfully) cranked, and carmax offered us right around KBB for the car.  It seemed like a deal too good to pass up.  The other nice thing is we walked out with a check that day, drove to the bank, and it cleared the next day.  At that point I stopped worrying about it. 

    Maybe over the weekend take it to a carmax (or similar) if there's one in your area and get an offer for it.  I'm pretty sure the carmax offers are good for 7 days, and they will just swap your offer letter for a check if you come back in that time frame.  That gives you a little more time to think about what to do, and at the very least you will have a sense of what you can get for it in cash from a dealer.  That would be good info to have right now.
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  • One other point about the stock - the 15% I mentioned is on the gain.  If you haven't earned much or you have actually lost money with this stock, then definitely go ahead and sell it.

    The other thing about carmax I forgot to mention - they offered us twice as much as I was hoping for, no joke.  Obviously YMMV but we were very pleasantly surprised.
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  • Do not touch nor stop retirement contributions.

    Before you step foot on a dealsership's lot - talk with a local credit union and bank to see what their used car loan rates would be (for the kind of vehicle in which you are interested). Then you can compare against what the dealership  has to offer.

    Subaru's generally have a great rating - however, some of the Foresters have had more problems than other models and I always avoid anything Turbo.

    DH's Subaru Imprezza is now 12 years old and going strong (DH bought it new) and only has had basic maintenance and normal wear replacements,  We have also had success with Hondas and my current car is a 2008 Toyota Corolla which I love.
  • Sisugal said:

    Do not touch nor stop retirement contributions.

    Before you step foot on a dealsership's lot - talk with a local credit union and bank to see what their used car loan rates would be (for the kind of vehicle in which you are interested). Then you can compare against what the dealership  has to offer.

    Subaru's generally have a great rating - however, some of the Foresters have had more problems than other models and I always avoid anything Turbo.

    DH's Subaru Imprezza is now 12 years old and going strong (DH bought it new) and only has had basic maintenance and normal wear replacements,  We have also had success with Hondas and my current car is a 2008 Toyota Corolla which I love.

    Good advice. We're definitely going to finance through our credit union this time around. H was hoping for an Imprezza next, so it's nice to hear you've had a good experience. I wouldn't be surprised if the current problems are Turbo-related. We sort of tripped into getting this one because we were in a pinch and the price was right, without knowing what we were getting into. It's sure fun to drive though!

    @hoffse Carmax definitely feels more comfortable to me. I *doubt* they'd offer what we owe, but it can't hurt to check.

    Can you buy a car without a DP? As mentioned, no plans to touch the e-fund or Roth for that.
  • Another question for the mechanically inclined-is burning oil a thing that can be fixed? Or is it an automatic death sentence?
  • we were in this situation a couple years ago, but only owed money on H's car.  We've also compromised that one car payment at a time is what works for us.  so we're basically in a rotation where right now my car has payments, once it's paid off we'll think about selling H's car to get him something newer and more reliable. 

    I do not like doing the repair shop shuffle, spending all that time dealing with a car that is continually breaking down, and worrying about shopping around for repair prices etc. so when a car gets to the point where it's in the shop every couple months I start thinking about getting rid of it. anyways two years ago H's car, that he still owed like $5K on (and it wasn't worth much more) was in and out of the shop basically all winter, by July we had probably spent $2K on repairs and then it needed another repair.  We went to the dealer, found a gently used nice car, they gave us a deal on the trade and we never looked back. this was 2013, we got a 2011 Outback with 18K miles on it, H now drives my old car (2007 Mazda6). once the outback is paid off we'll start banking that payment towards a DP for H's next car, and as soon as repairs start seeming like too much we'll get rid of it. for the outback, we weren't prepared to make a DP, and just used anything beyond what we owed on the trade towards the DP.

    Basically, if I were you I'd figure out paying off your car and trading in your H's car.  you may not get anything towards your DP from the trade (but if the dealer is motivated you might) and you'll probably get a better interest rate on that loan. New cars are generally the ones  you can get better interest rates on (you know those 0% for 36 month deals), but if your credit is better than it was you can probably get a good rate on a certified pre-owned.
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  • If you already take it to a dealership for repairs (we do too), did you ask them what they would give you as a trade in? DH is probably going to trade in his 2006 subaru outback for a 2015 subaru forester in September.. we're just going to take it right to the dealer since they have the history of the car (we actually bought it from there) and know we maintain it. We'll use the trade in as a DP for his car and we'll take out a 3 year loan with our bank or credit union (depending on who has a better rate) or possibly the dealer if they're holding a promotion like they usually do in September. 
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  • noffgurlnoffgurl member
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    It is mostly likely just the valves or valve covers leaking, they can be fixed (the easiness depends on how hard it is to get to them-which can drive up repair costs, foreign cars have tendency to have really tight spaces). They are pretty cheap, like $30-50 each depending on the brand.

    ETA: The $30-50 is just the part cost for each valve, I was not quoting the whole repair  cost. If you can find anyone other than a shop though, that would be great because I guarantee a shop is going to want to charge a couple hundred or more in labor just because they can and you won't know any better.
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  • My car burns oil like crazy....I had the dealership check it 5 times every few thousand miles to keep track of how much it goes down and they've found nothing. Therefore I just keep a big bottle of oil in the garage and top off when necessary and that is my fix for now...it will be time for a new car soon anyway....
  • Do not touch nor stop retirement contributions.

    Before you step foot on a dealsership's lot - talk with a local credit union and bank to see what their used car loan rates would be (for the kind of vehicle in which you are interested). Then you can compare against what the dealership  has to offer.

    Subaru's generally have a great rating - however, some of the Foresters have had more problems than other models and I always avoid anything Turbo.

    DH's Subaru Imprezza is now 12 years old and going strong (DH bought it new) and only has had basic maintenance and normal wear replacements,  We have also had success with Hondas and my current car is a 2008 Toyota Corolla which I love.
    Good advice. We're definitely going to finance through our credit union this time around. H was hoping for an Imprezza next, so it's nice to hear you've had a good experience. I wouldn't be surprised if the current problems are Turbo-related. We sort of tripped into getting this one because we were in a pinch and the price was right, without knowing what we were getting into. It's sure fun to drive though! @hoffse Carmax definitely feels more comfortable to me. I *doubt* they'd offer what we owe, but it can't hurt to check. Can you buy a car without a DP? As mentioned, no plans to touch the e-fund or Roth for that.
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  • vlagrl29 said:
    Do not touch nor stop retirement contributions.

    Before you step foot on a dealsership's lot - talk with a local credit union and bank to see what their used car loan rates would be (for the kind of vehicle in which you are interested). Then you can compare against what the dealership  has to offer.

    Subaru's generally have a great rating - however, some of the Foresters have had more problems than other models and I always avoid anything Turbo.

    DH's Subaru Imprezza is now 12 years old and going strong (DH bought it new) and only has had basic maintenance and normal wear replacements,  We have also had success with Hondas and my current car is a 2008 Toyota Corolla which I love.
    Good advice. We're definitely going to finance through our credit union this time around. H was hoping for an Imprezza next, so it's nice to hear you've had a good experience. I wouldn't be surprised if the current problems are Turbo-related. We sort of tripped into getting this one because we were in a pinch and the price was right, without knowing what we were getting into. It's sure fun to drive though! @hoffse Carmax definitely feels more comfortable to me. I *doubt* they'd offer what we owe, but it can't hurt to check. Can you buy a car without a DP? As mentioned, no plans to touch the e-fund or Roth for that.
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    Agreed.  We actually financed H's entire car, even though we got cash from the trade-in.  The rate was so good that it was basically free money, and we banked the cash we got from his old car as part of the downpayment on our house.  It worked out really well for us.  You just have to make sure you can afford the payments, but you know that already.

    Carmax may not offer you what you owe, but they really don't hassle you about it.  Getting an actual offer is good info to have so you can make a more informed decision.  Or who knows, you may be able to leverage their offer against another dealer who will negotiate (carmax will not).  I think it's worth an hour of your time to find out what a real offer would be.  The online car estimates are ok, but not always on target.
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  • AprilH81 said:
    You will likely have a bit more negotiating room (not a lot though) with a dealer as a trade in towards a "new" vehicle.

    Many times they can't budge on the sale price but they can offer you a little more on the trade in to made the bottom line more in your favor.
    This was exactly what happened for us. They couldn't lower the price on the car we were buying, but they did bump what they were giving us on the trade $500 to push me from the "meh, maybe we need to wait another month or two" side of the fence to "ok, lets do it now"
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  • Also check around for dealerships that buy outright (and promise to beat Carmax's price) I'm not sure if this is a wide spread thing but in our area they are popping up more often. Carmax offered my H $3000 for a car because it apparently had frame damage (it did not really) and my H ended up selling to a local dealership for $12000... Obviously this is rare, but worth looking into! Carmax can be kind of slimy IMO.

    I would be inclined to pay off your car and see what you could get for trade in. Having 1 car loan is better than 2, and if you're getting a more reliable car with less repair costs that would be great for your budget too.  

  • yeah I would also pay off your car and trade in your DH's car.  I think that is the best route.  Then you only have 1 car payment.  Not sure what the normal interest rate is these days with cars.  I got mine at 0% financing back in 2003.
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  • Thank you all for this great info and advice! Hopefully the Forester will hold out a little longer, but if not I feel much better about our options. A new car payment will suck, but it does look like it would be less than our current combined payments for a lightly used Impreza. We'll get Carmax and trade in estimates after it goes back in on Wed. We're expecting a highly discounted service since we just paid $900 that didn't resolve the problem yet.
  • For what its worth, I drove a Chevy Nova in high school that was over 20 years old at the time.  I don't know if it burned oil, but it definitely leaked oil a little bit.  I would have to give it more oil about 1-2x/month.  But my mom drove it for a number of years like that before she gave it to me and I drove it for 3-4 years after that.  I did have a major repair to the engine during that time...the head gasket blew...but I don't think that had anything to do with the oil issue because it long pre-dated the head gasket and was still the same after the head gasket was fixed.

    The muffler fell off the car when I was driving it one day.  Pretty hilarious looking back on it now.  One second the engine was making its usually soft rumbling noise and the next second the car sounded like I was racing it in the Indy 500.

    I sold a car on Craigs List.  It was a Honda Civic, but was 11 years old.  It also had a lot of problems, including a slipping transmission.    The mechanic told me it wasn't worth fixing and I would be lucky to get $1500.  Blue book for good condition was $4500.  I asked $2500 in the ad and mentioned the transmission was on its last legs.

    Got a few responses within a couple days and the first guy to show up and test drive offered me $2000.  I accepted.  I had two basic purchase agreements ready to go, which included the phrase "as is".  We signed both so we both had a copy.  He gave me the cash, I gave him the signed title and took my plates off, he drove my car away.  Pretty simple and I never heard from him again, as it should be.

    I've sold other cars to private parties, though that was the only one through CL, and they all basically worked just like that.  True, you can open yourself to more trouble if you sell to a jerk who doesn't want to understand the meaning of "as is", but I would think that is a small percentage of private party sales.

  • Update: the problem is in the Turbo and will cost around $6000 to fix. H is going to make the argument that we brought it in for the oil smell several times while it was still under warranty and see if they'll work with us, but if that fails we're going car shopping in addition to getting a dog this weekend :(

    (Dog can't be delayed. It's been a long adoption process and we're financially and emotionally committed).
  • Update: the problem is in the Turbo and will cost around $6000 to fix. H is going to make the argument that we brought it in for the oil smell several times while it was still under warranty and see if they'll work with us, but if that fails we're going car shopping in addition to getting a dog this weekend :( (Dog can't be delayed. It's been a long adoption process and we're financially and emotionally committed).
    wow - if it's really 6k, its time to trade in and get a new (used) car.  I could not shell out all that money
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  • edited February 2015
    Plus side, a new or gently used car shoudn't have unexpected costly repairs for a while.  congrats on your new fur baby! we bought our car right after we got our puppy, dealerships love dogs!


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    Oh yes, no way we're paying $6000. We'd consider $1000 but I think the writing is on the wall here. H is going to swing by the credit union after work if he can get there in time. There's a nice used 2012 Forester with 20,000 miles we might consider. I'm pretty annoyed that we just spent $900 on the current car before getting the crazy $6,000 diagnosis for the same problem. If they don't give us a deal that reflects that, hell will hath no fury like the Yelp review that I'm going to write.

    Thanks @Gdaisy09‌. I'm so excited! I'll aw some pictures once he's here.
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    I had a tempo when I was in college and it kept crapping out on the highway and I would do the same as you $900 just to see what was wrong with it.  I figured I might as well have a car payment so we sold it and I bought a much better car.
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  • edited February 2015
    Oh yes, no way we're paying $6000. We'd consider $1000 but I think the writing is on the wall here. H is going to swing by the credit union after work if he can get there in time. There's a nice used 2012 Forester with 20,000 miles we might consider. I'm pretty annoyed that we just spent $900 on the current car before getting the crazy $6,000 diagnosis for the same problem. If they don't give us a deal that reflects that, hell will hath no fury like the Yelp review that I'm going to write. Thanks @Gdaisy09‌. I'm so excited! I'll aw some pictures once he's here.
    Can't wait for photos! we love our 2011 subaru, they're great cars, especially for new england. I've had zero trouble getting around in this weather...a little slipping on our road that is currently the consistency of mashed potatoes this morning, but their AWD kicks right in.

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  • It was a bad news afternoon.  The dealer offered only $3,000 for a trade in; that was expected.  H went directly to Carmax, which also offered $3,000.  The car is still technically drivable but will need more oil every week or so and produces unsettling smells and noises.  I can put $1,000 towards it every month if we stop all saving except for automatic retirement contributions.  We owe $6,500.  Only $3,500 in the e-fund, reluctant to drain more than $1,000 for this.  H asked our credit union about a small personal loan and was told they "don't do that."  

    We work in opposite directions.  I'm required to have a reliable vehicle with me to complete my job, most days.  I've been driving the Forester since my base commute is shorter and it doesn't get the best mileage.

    We are going to top off the oil and try to get a few more months out of it while going "gazelle intense" on the loan.  I'll drive it carefully to work, maybe work from home the days my boss does (always allowed but not normally my preference) and take the busted car except on days I visit schools in the middle of nowhere with no cell reception.  We're also going to ditch our CPA and get started on Turbo Tax tonight.  The good news is that once we kill the loan, financing for a really nice reasonable replacement will fit comfortably into our budget.  Chest la vie.

    I don't know how this effects my opinion on the great beater vs. new car debate.  If anything it increases my interest in just getting rid of all debt so I'm not in this position again.  Very thankful we had not booked any big trips.  It looks like we'll be enjoying beautiful RI this year, which is never a bad thing :)
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