Trouble in Paradise
ILoveMy2Girls
member
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Big changes...feel so alone and scared
So I was a Nestie for years....been married 10.5 years, have two beautiful girls...and our life has fallen apart. I have been dealing with a verbally abusive situation for years, and it turned physical 3 times now. Watching my daughters look at my bruised face was enough for me to have to file for divorce. Mo have tried to make it work for so long...for so many reasons. I just can't anymore. I have my kids in counseling, I am in counseling too... It's been 3 months... And in this state you have to be separated a year to divorce. I tried going the at-fault way, to get it done sooner, but after two months with a lawyer, I have spent more than $7k. Ugh... This just sucks. My oldest is having major adjustment issues. She cries a lot.... I hate this for my babies and I wish I could just make everything better. I am supposed to move into my new place in a couple weeks.... He wants to go over all the belongings tomorrow which makes me nervous... I literally hate this so much.
I have a great bra, but could definitely use some "support"... If you have been thru this, or even have some encouraging words..
I have a great bra, but could definitely use some "support"... If you have been thru this, or even have some encouraging words..
Re: Big changes...feel so alone and scared
Thank you ladies
I'm so sorry for what you have gone through. I just wanted to throw out my encouragement with the other PPs. I know it must be hard, especially seeing your girls hurting, but you are doing the right thing and you know you are doing the right thing. As time passes and things become more normalized, it will get easier and easier for everyone.
And you are doing the best thing for your daughters. You are showing them it is NOT okay or acceptable to be verbally or physically abused. I know you don't want them following that path. Keep showing them your strength.