My sister is beside herself (please help)

Knottie86667276 · March 2015

My older sister has been married for 5 years (it's both their second marriage) and they are a great couple...loving, hard working, devoted to each other and their children (she has one from her previous marriage)...They are letting me stay with them after my fiasco with the nut job and his issues. Anyway, I came home yesterday and my sister was bawling. Her MIL called her up and accused her of taking away her son, saying she was a bitch and she keeps her grandson away from her...being outright nasty (my sister and her have always had issues, and do NOT get along). So, my sister hung up after telling her MIL to leave her alone and that they were a happy couple and they did not need her aproval. Her MIL then called up my brother in law and told her my sister threatened her and hit their son...police showed up and, thank god, believed us that this woman is nuts, since she's done this in the past. I told my sister to BE DONE with this woman for good...she's so beside herself.

My BIL is so supportive and says they never have to see her again, but I have a feeling this woman is going to keep harassing them...any advice?

BlueBirdMB · March 2015

Knottie86667276 said:
My older sister has been married for 5 years (it's both their second marriage) and they are a great couple...loving, hard working, devoted to each other and their children (she has one from her previous marriage)...They are letting me stay with them after my fiasco with the nut job and his issues. Anyway, I came home yesterday and my sister was bawling. Her MIL called her up and accused her of taking away her son, saying she was a bitch and she keeps her grandson away from her...being outright nasty (my sister and her have always had issues, and do NOT get along). So, my sister hung up after telling her MIL to leave her alone and that they were a happy couple and they did not need her aproval. Her MIL then called up my brother in law and told her my sister threatened her and hit their son...police showed up and, thank god, believed us that this woman is nuts, since she's done this in the past. I told my sister to BE DONE with this woman for good...she's so beside herself.

My BIL is so supportive and says they never have to see her again, but I have a feeling this woman is going to keep harassing them...any advice?

Holy shit. She called the police and falsely accused your sister of child abuse? I can't think of a worse way hurting her son and his wife. She is dangerous. They need to severe contact immediately. This woman has no boundaries and is capable of doing literally anything.

magsugar13 · March 2015

olice showed up and, thank god, believed us that this woman is nuts, since she's done this in the past.

So, she has done this in the past and they still have contact with her?

What's going on with you and your F? Is he in jail yet?

Me thinks you are a MUD writer.

Knottie86667276 · March 2015

magsugar13 said:
olice showed up and, thank god, believed us that this woman is nuts, since she's done this in the past.

So, she has done this in the past and they still have contact with her?

What's going on with you and your F? Is he in jail yet?
Me thinks you are a MUD writer.

I am doing better...my EX fiance is MIA, after calling day and night, trying to borrow money, and an LONG ass email from his mother telling me what a horrible crack whore bitch I am, leaving her baby depressed and alone. That family was so trashy and I'm so glad I got out...

About a month ago, I stopped hearing from them, thank God. I've been in therapy and it's helped me see I was codependent and afraid of being alone. My fear of being alone made me desperate to marry ANYONE, even a train wreck like him.

I'm in NO hurry to date, so I'm just working and laying low. One day, I'd like a relationship with a person who is mature, responsible and a good person, but until I'm one hundred percent happy with me, I don't know if I can have that.