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Monday Accountability Post
1) How MM was your weekend?
2) Any progress toward goals?
3) If you had $100K that you had to give away to a charity or nonprofit, who would you give it to? If you wanted to give it to multiple recipients, how much to each?
Re: Monday Accountability Post
1. Friday- $0
Saturday- $6 snack at the movies. Free movie!
Sunday- $23 Gas
2. Nothing yet, we get paid this week.
3. I would probably donate everything to breast cancer research as both my mom and grandma have been diagnosed and treated for it.
Pretty good. Groceries: $100 (regular store and Sams Club run), $25 for gas, $5 ice cream (after spending hours at the park yesterday), $54 cat food /litter.
2) Any progress toward goals?
No
3) If you had $100K that you had to give away to a charity or nonprofit, who would you give it to? If you wanted to give it to multiple recipients, how much to each?
1. Church/school
2. Local hospice house
3. Regional breast cancer assistance program - helps provide those in treatment with financial assistance (food, gas, medical bills, etc)
4. Local rescue mission (provides housing, counseling, support, to people/families in need
5. Contribute to my late professor's memorial scholarship fund. He was an amazing prof and inspired so many in our field.
$300 for excursions for our upcoming vacation (budgeted for)
$110 at Barnes and Noble (Not budgeted but they were having a kids book sale and we couldn't help buying a few things for the nieces and nephews)
$56 at Home Depot for garden supplies
$50 at Target for some board games
Sadly no. I was supposed to get a check a couple weeks ago from someone for some freelance work I did (money was going to go towards SL debt), but haven't been able to get a hold of them and haven't received payment yet.
If you had $100K that you had to give away to a charity or nonprofit,
who would you give it to? If you wanted to give it to multiple
recipients, how much to each?
10K to El Centro-a non-profit I used to work with in Colorado. They help day-laborers make sure they get fair wages/safe working conditions and also teach low-income immigrants English and various life skills (like cooking, how to write a resume, etc)
20K to Lost N Found - a non-profit that helps LGBT homeless youth in the ATL area
20K to Women's Global Empowerment Fund - a microfinance non-profit started by college classmate
20K to Wounded Warriors
10K to Humane Society
20K to World Wildlife Fund
2. My last check was designated for the mortgage, so not this week.
3. I'm a nonprofit fundraiser so this is a topic close to my heart!
Local homeless shelter: $20,000
Food bank: $20,000
United Way: $20,000
Area children's hospital: $20,000
After school program in the small town where I grew up: $10,000
Church (restricted to their local mission work and NOT general operating): $5,000
Planned Parenthood: $5,000
$35 for gas and $32 for a French press. Are old one was not working so great anymore and my DH has been crying for a new one. Of course, we have a perfectly good coffee maker and I saw no need to buy a press, but he sometimes jumps on a French press kick and he's on one right now.
However, I've been putting off my Costco trip. That is going to be a couple hundred bucks this week.
My budget has been a bit crazy and off kilter, because I almost bought an investment property last week, but then I bailed out. So I'd been hoarding money for the earnest money, the inspection, the appraisal, and the closing. Basically, just allocating it differently than normal. Now I'm back to knocking down my HELOC for the time being, so I threw extra money on that Friday, since the deal fell through.
For my $100K contribution, I'd give $15K to the SPCA...even though I hate their heartstring tugging commercials...because we, as a species, have chosen to invite dogs and cats into our homes yet we have abused this responsibility and privilege by allowing them to become overbred.
The majority of my donation, $85K, would go to the JDRF (Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation) because I am essentially a selfish person, lol. I've suffered from Type I diabetes, aka Juvenile Diabetes, for over 20 years and the sooner they find a cure, the longer I can potentially live.
FYI, it is only called Juvenile Diabetes because the onset of the disease is usually in childhood (though not always). I personally think that name is silly and inaccurate, because Type 1 diabetics obviously grow up and are no longer "juveniles"...or at least they grow up nowadays, thank goodness. But, for the name of a foundation, I guess "juvenile diabetes" sounds more warm and fuzzy than the accurate, clinical name of Type I Diabetes.
2. $250 to move money account, $100 to my student loan
3. What a hard decision. I would give a big chunk to the humane society and a chunk to breast cancer research.
If you had $100K that you had to give away to a charity or nonprofit,
who would you give it to? If you wanted to give it to multiple
recipients, how much to each?
Our Local Humane Society. They were on track to place in an 100k ASPCA challenge recently but when a dog came in sick they had to shut down for six weeks to make sure none of the other animals contracted anything. It was heartbreaking.
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If you had $100K that you had to give away to a charity or nonprofit,
who would you give it to? If you wanted to give it to multiple
recipients, how much to each?
$50k to my local church, it is one of the oldest diocese in the greater Cleveland area and finances are really tight.
$20k to a local organization to help those who want help to get back on their feet.
$20k to the Akron Zoo.
$10k to the YMCA to help those that need the YMCA.
Oh, that's so interesting! I had no idea. St. Jude's advertises where I live with the gist of the ad being that no parents are ever required to pay for their child's services.
You really burst my bubble, lol. There is no industry I hate and despise more than hospitals and pharmaceuticals. They make insane profits off the backs of people who are sick and injured. And here I thought St. Jude was a bastion of goodness within the den of evil. Apparently not so much.
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