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So what do you guys think about the Kim Davis mess? The KY clerk who refuses to issue marriage licenses because if her religious beliefs.
Re: The Kim Davis chaos
http://www.breitbart.com/big-hollywood/2015/09/07/madonna-s-gay-brother-defends-kim-davis-is-it-so-difficult-to-allow-this-woman-her-religion/
I think he has a point.
And then there's the gay Texas judge who refuses to marry straight couples. So people are not given equal "protection under the law."
http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/gay-texas-judge-tonya-parker-won-perform-marriages-straight-couples-article-1.1027709
Here's a question: at what line do we accept civil disobedience? The Black Lives Matter movement is inciting violence across the nation, and this is acceptable? Yet, someone peacefully standing up for their religion isn't?
http://www.ijreview.com/2015/07/373292-gay-baker-message-sex-couples-suing-anti-gay-bakeries-not-friendly/?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=Partners&utm_term=PRM7&utm_campaign=
I agree her job description has changed. What if the SCOTUS makes a ruling to insist that people disclose the locations of certain religious groups so they can be rounded up and shipped off to a concentrated area somewhere? Would that be followed too since it would be the "law of the land?" What if my conscience was violated by that? My point is, when a law or rule violates someone's religious faith and conscience, why should that person give up their religion/faith? And, at what point then, does civil disobedience become okay and acceptable?
Beacsue apparently in this country as long as you're a person who follows Jesus, you have no rights and no regard given to you. But, if you're an atheistic, black, militant, white-hating, violence mongering wacko, who happens to be gay you have every protection afforded to you.
The difference I see with that statement is, at least in this particular scenario, she is not being asked to give up her religion/faith. Not at all. But if her job requires her to issue marriage licenses and, she herself feels she cannot do that because of her religion, than she needs to find a more suitable job.
In fact, I personally would have had 1000x more respect for her and her position if she would have resigned because she cannot perform her duties due to her religious beliefs. I still wouldn't have agreed with her. But I would have at least admired her and found that very powerful.
As I'm sure you are all aware, there are federal laws in this country that prevent job discrimination based on religion. However, and this is the big exception, a person still needs to be able to complete the CORE functions of their job.
I'll give you an obvious example of that. If my Lutheran church wants to hire a new minister, we can REQUIRE all candidates be Lutheran. Because being Lutheran is a core function of the job. Whereas in 99% of other jobs, to require an employee to be Lutheran is a huge violation of fair labor laws.
Same with her situation. If she won't issue marriage licenses AND doesn't allow any of her clerks to issue marriage licenses (because she was doing this also)...than she can no longer complete a core function of her job. Period. It doesn't matter if her reasons are religious based.
@MommyLiberty5013, I really appreciate your brining up the idea of civil disobedience. Because it is a fine line, isn't it? That just doesn't have a right answer. Certainly, some acts of historical civil disobedience are now celebrated. But then, society in general literally exists because we as groups have decided on particular laws and social norms. And it would turn into a very scary chaos if members of the public decided to just discriminate against whoever they wanted because of religious beliefs. There are some pretty extreme, but still recognized, religious sects out there.
For example, if a person's religion says a woman can't be out in public without her husband, brother, or father...does that now make it okay for an employee with that belief to not wait on or help a women that is unescorted? Sounds so crazy. But it's actually not any different than what Kim Davis is doing.
Here is my curiousity (sp?) question that I would love to ask Kim Davis. And I'm not being snarky, I would legitimately be very interested in her answer. I know of one Christian sect (not Catholicism) that believes, when people get married, they are always married in the eyes of the Lord and cannot be divorced. If she had gone to get a marriage license for one of her subsequent marriages, and ran into a clerk whose religious beliefs did not allow him/her to issue a marriage license for a divorced person...because in his/her religion they are still married to their first spouse...would she be furious? Or would she be celebrating that the person stood up for their religious beliefs even when the tables are turned?
Bottom line for me, one of the most fundamental foundations of our country is separation of church and state. I would fight for any house of worship's right to choose how and for whom they perform marriage ceremonies. Even though I agree with same sex marriage, I'd be furious if the gov't came down and said XYZ Church has to perform same sex marriages, even if it is against their religion. That's not currently happening thank goodness, but it would be atrocious. But I find it equally infuriating when a religious group tries to push their beliefs into our City Halls.
However, there were people who refused things based on race many years ago and that we know was wrong and I wouldn't want to go back to those types of scenarios. I feel like she might have gone with the compromise that now seems to be happening or at the very least possibly resigned had she not become such a public figure over it. I think she sort of got backed into a corner as the poster child for this position by groups supporting her conviction who were seemingly seeking to protect her from the groups that made her public enemy number one for their own agenda. Such is the crazy course of our social media culture these days.
Realistically when gay marriage first became legal where I live, there was no way to use the current legislation mandated marriage application form to process the applications properly. Some clerks altered the form or created their own forms contrary to the law until such a time as the law could be amended to allow for a more inclusive form. No one went to jail or was even threatened because their disobedience was coming down on the socially popular side of the current status quo.
I'm glad it seems to have been resolved somehow but if it weren't, there were steps and procedures in place to have her removed and I would have been fine with them doing so. Even if she was doing what she felt was spiritually correct to do, spirituality does not necessarily protect you from the worldly consequence of your convictions. If you truly hold those convictions then you are willing to suffer the worldly consequences.
The Talking Heads, Jackson Browne, Don Henley and Heart have all sued politicians for unauthorized use of their music. The suits were filled because they did not get permission in the first place. All settled out of court.
In this case, Ms. Davis, Mike Huckabee, and the other politicians at this rally did not get permission and did not pay licensing fee's. If anyone of them used this as a fund raiser, they can also be sued for that because they were profiting off of the performance.
My husband works for the professional sports teams in Detroit. We have the Detroit Tigers. If they want to use "Eye of the Tiger" at the stadium, they have to pay licensing fees. It is not in the public domain. You need permission to use it.
I disagree. Licensing and permission go hand in hand, when it comes to copy written material. All I'm saying is the owner of the music does have a case against her if they chose to file suit.
Both options are compulsory. He can't deny permission just because he doesn't like her. We have no idea, btw, if she applied for the license as that doesn't seem to be the issue. The issue is that he doesn't want her using the song.