Oregon Nesties
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
First IUI, now in the dreaded 2ww. Losing my marbles
The 2ww is absolutely driving me insane, crazy, batty, nutty this time around. I mean SERIOUSLY! I am physically and mentally incapable of thinking about anything else other than the outcome of this cycle. I wish I could will my mind to think about something, anything, but I simply cannot. Let me give you a little peek into the madness that is my mind right now:"Am I?""Probably not""...But maybe""What if...""Damn, don't get your hopes up""...But maybe""15% chance w/IUI... that isn't so great""...it is way better than less that 3% on our own...""What if I have twins""What if I have triplets""Where would we put them all?""Don't be silly""I could tell my mom on Christmas""I would BE a Mom next Christmas""Stoppit, you're just torturing yourself, remember LAST Mother's Day? Same stuff, difference day""...But MAYBE""Stop, JUST STOP My husband and I have been trying for 18 months and just had our first IUI this Saturday. All of my friends are getting pregnant with little to no effort, and I am just feeling like no one in my life "gets it." Anybody else TTC ing with IUI in the Portland area? I would love to have someone to help talk me thru these 2 weeks. And god forbid we get a BFN, I will definitely need a friend that understands. Any tips/ or advice are much appreciated.
-Kryss-