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spin-off from yesterday's post
thank you all for your responses! now that hubby and i decided on the zero based budget and 100.00 buffer in checking, we are trying to figure out savings. What do you all keep in your Emergency fund? right now we are at 1000.00 which to me is not enough but hubby thinks its fine. We keep it in a regular saving account at our bank. what is too little and what is too much. i know every ones situation is different tho.
Re: spin-off from yesterday's post
This varies on your job stability and your expenses versus income ratio.
If you have relatively stable jobs that you're unlikely to lose or you can live off one income if something happened to the other person then I would recommend around 3 months of expenses.
If your jobs aren't incredibly stable or you require 2 incomes to meet your bills then I would recommend 6 months of expenses.
If you have job losses, major illness - you will NEED this!
IF you have a good deal of debt, then perhaps only 3 months while you work on getting rid of the debt ASAP.
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I'm going to echo pps, this should be determined by a LOT of different factors. For H and I, we have $2000 in a dedicated e-fund, which we are okay with. However, we have recently decided to beef it up to $3K by the end of 2016.
We are comfortable with having a lower e-fund amount for a lot of reasons:
-Our monthly expenses are relatively low, especially when you factor out 'optional' expenses. If one of us was to lose our jobs, we would immediately axe all discretionary spending.
-We have additional savings accounts that we could pull from if needed. While they are earmarked for other things, we obviously could use them in an emergency situation.
-We don't have children, nor do we plan to have any.
-Both of our vehicles are 5 years old or less and in great condition.
-I work in a very stable field and H works in a fairly stable field; the chances of one of us losing our jobs is not great. However, if we did, either one of us would get whichever jobs we needed to in order to pay the bills. Fast food jobs are plentiful around here. I would hate it, but I would do it.
-We have discussed the 'what ifs' as far as emergency planning goes. If one of us lost a job, we would not only work whatever we could find, but we would be willing to sell our vehicles and pretty much anything we own as long as we got to keep our house. Knowing that we have that mindset makes me feel more comfortable with a smaller e-fund.
-If one of us had a medical emergency and there were no other alternatives, we do have access to a significant amount of credit card lines. This would be an absolutely last resort but at least it's there.
-We are not debt-averse or risk-averse.
We have fairly stable jobs, no kids and no immediate plans for any. The truck is newer, but barely gets any use and my car is 7 years old, but still in decent shape.
I wanted to throw in about medical bills and e-funds. Don't get me wrong, having enough in your e-fund to cover your full medical (and other) deductibles is optimal.
But in a "god forbid" situation and there is a major medical crisis with not enough money in the e-fund to cover it, the vast majority of hospitals will put people on a payment plan for the bill. Usually no interest. They are just ecstatic people are proactive about wanting to set up a plan. I suspect a lot of doctors would do this also, if asked.
Always negotiate hospital bills...after THOROUGHLY checking them, because they are usually rife with mistakes. That are "magically" rarely in your favor. And, if you do have an e-fund to pay the bill in full with cash, that is serious bargaining power. Use it to your advantage.
Thanks for posting! That is really good to know. My current insurance is one of those high deductible plans (for family). They pay zero...not even for prescriptions or dr. visits...until I hit the $8,000 deductible and then they pay 20% until I hit $10K.
If something major happened and I had to pay $10K...even with a discount and on payment plan...that would really be depressing. On top of being depressing for whatever horrible thing happened to me or H to incur that charge in the first place!
My MINI Cooper is five years old and I've owned it for 18 months. But she is a foreign, high performance vehicle and I swear if you even look at her wrong it is a few hundred in repair, lol.
I took her to the mechanic for the first time (other than oil changes) a couple months ago for the most minor of stuff (spark plugs, ignition coil) and just that was $260.
And only Mid Grade or Premium gas and all-synthetic oil changes for this little snowflake. But I love that car!
I'll call both of you and raise you another $2200
. My house was built over 100 years ago and has never had central ac/heat. I looked into getting that added after I bought my house. $7700!!! Because, in addition to buying/installing the equipment, they would also have to put in all the ductwork. And that would be just for my side of the house. If I wanted central ac/heat for the other side of the duplex, that would be another $7700.
Thanks. ButNoThanks. I'll stick with my window units.