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Anyone else listening to the Romney speech?

I think the speech in itself is a mistake.  He needed to just stay quiet and sip coffee on his mansion here in NH (ugh it's such a a gorgeous house on a stunning lake).

HOWEVER, I completely agree with what he's saying.  I also have always liked him as a person.  I think he was a very weak candidate because he was never capable of competing in modern day politics.  He's too polite and people perceive that now as weakness.  But I personally appreciate class and I think he ran a gentleman's campaign, which as we can see clearly now, is not what the American people want.  He lives here in NH and I've had the pleasure of meeting him a few times and he really is a class act and I believe would have made a good president.  I never got excited about his campaign, but I felt sad the world would never know a President Romney (and shouldn't now! No running Romney again!).

He's saying everything we have been saying about Trump.  He's absolutely correct in every point so far.  But again, I don't think it was his place to give this speech, but it sounds like he is so upset, he just couldn't keep his mouth shut anymore.  I feel the same way and if I had a platform, I would probably take it.  



Re: Anyone else listening to the Romney speech?

  • I'm pretty much convinced that every time any "establishment" Republican says something against Trump, all his followers rally around him more, so Romney's speech really isn't doing much.

    I also still really want to know-who are these Trump followers and what are they THINKING? The only hard-core Trump follower I know (living in a very conservative area)-is my bi-polar great aunt, and she's kind of off her rocker anyway. Trump's latest thing that scares me is his comments about "opening up the libel laws" (whatever that means). He specifically said his purpose was to prevent the New York Times and Washington Post from saying anything bad about him, which is so clearly anti-American it's not even funny. Are Trump's followers even listening to what he is saying? These are the questions that are puzzling me.

  • BlueBirdMBBlueBirdMB member
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    edited March 2016
    I'm reading the comments sections about this speech (terrible idea for anything) and people really think that Romney is a GOP puppet trying to tell the American people how to vote because the "establishment" is afraid of Trump being "anti-establishment".

    What does "establishment" actually mean?  I've been pondering this for a few weeks.  I think it's a media created term.  I used to think it meant an intrenched politician- someone like McCain.  But now it seems that anyone who doesn't have extremist ideas and has ever held political office is "establishment".  Romney held office for 2 years (edited: 4 years) as governor of MA before running for president.  The rest of his career was spent in the private sector, far away from the GOP machine.  And that's considered "establishment"?  Cruz and Rubio are "establishment" because they are 1 term senators?  And yet somehow, Rubio is more "establishment" than Cruz because other politicians have endorsed him?  Why is any of that a bad thing?  The whole thing is so twisted. 
  • I'm reading the comments sections about this speech (terrible idea for anything) and people really think that Romney is a GOP puppet trying to tell the American people how to vote because the "establishment" is afraid of Trump being "anti-establishment".

    What does "establishment" actually mean?  I've been pondering this for a few weeks.  I think it's a media created term.  I used to think it meant an intrenched politician- someone like McCain.  But now it seems that anyone who doesn't have extremist ideas and has ever held political office is "establishment".  Romney held office for 2 years as governor of MA before running for president.  The rest of his career was spent in the private sector, far away from the GOP machine.  And that's considered "establishment"?  Cruz and Rubio are "establishment" because they are 1 term senators?  And yet somehow, Rubio is more "establishment" than Cruz because other politicians have endorsed him?  Why is any of that a bad thing?  The whole thing is so twisted. 
    I always thought "establishment" is someone supported by the RNC or DNC. I guess I got this idea from the democratic race. Bernie is the "anti-establishment" one in that race. The DNC is clearly backing Clinton and has been doing semi-sketchy things to back her, such as making all the debates on Saturday nights when no one will watch. In the case of the RNC, though, I really feel like they really truly know that Trump will make a terrible President and are trying to block him for the sake of their party's reputation and unity, and for the sake of the nation. I really don't think they care that much who else wins. Just #NeverTrump.
  • snp605snp605 member
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    edited March 2016
    To me, establishment is the current favorite who has been toeing the party line for a period of time maintaining the status quo. An example would be someone who pretty much votes with their party all of the time, will renege on campaign promises to follow the party line on an issue near and dear to the leadership of the party and is very careful what they say and do because they need the continued support and cooperation of their bedfellows to get re-elected. I don't think of them as innovators or free thinkers but as people who like power and will say anything to keep getting elected to their position of prominence. I also lump people who have been elected due to family connections/name in with establishment ie Kennedy, Bush, etc

    It may be a media constructed term but it's been used for as long as I can remember. I think it's getting used more because it seems to be such a bigger factor in this election.
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  • snp605 said:
    To me, establishment is the current favorite who has been toeing the party line for a period of time maintaining the status quo. An example would be someone who pretty much votes with their party all of the time, will renege on campaign promises to follow the party line on an issue near and dear to the leadership of the party and is very careful what they say and do because they need the continued support and cooperation of their bedfellows to get re-elected. I don't think of them as innovators or free thinkers but as people who like power and will say anything to keep getting elected to their position of prominence. I also lump people who have been elected due to family connections/name in with establishment ie Kennedy, Bush, etc

    It may be a media constructed term but it's been used for as long as I can remember. I think it's getting used more because it seems to be such a bigger factor in this election.

    I agree with the bolded for a definition of "establishment."

    Sanders and Carson (too bad it seems he's leaving) are anti-establishment, I think. "Anti-establishment" doesn't mean being a tool or a jerk (A la Trump). Sanders and Carson both prove that. I certainly don't think Cruz fits into the establishment and Rubio might (I'm not sure how likely it is that he would follow through on his promises or just maintain status quo).

  • BlueBirdMBBlueBirdMB member
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    edited March 2016
    So basically if a politician's views happen to follow party lines, then they are "establishment"?  If a candidate is simply a politically savvy politician and thinks carefully about what they say before they say it, they are "establishment"?  Well then I don't give two shits in hell if a politician is "establishment" then.  I'd rather have someone who can work with the political machine and get shit done rather than someone has has grand ideas that will never work or come to pass.  Sanders has been a senator forever, but doesn't have a lot to show for his decades in public service because he can't compromise.  
    I don't care if that means they are "political" in how they speak or not.  I'd rather how someone consider their words than just spit whatever comes off the top of their head out.  I also don't care if a politician normally votes party lines as long as they show they can also get along with the other side.  Getting along with the other side seems to be a "establishment" to a lot of people too.  They bitch out of one side of their mouth about how "nothing gets done in Washington" and then bitch out of the other side of their mouth if a politician compromises with the other side.  
  • BlueBirdMBBlueBirdMB member
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    edited March 2016
    I personally think that people are using the term "establishment" to talk about anyone that has ideas firmly based in reality, who is supported by other politicians, or who speaks like a normal human being with grace and politeness.  

    Romney was never "establishment", but this speech will be used as fodder by those who hate the "establishment" and believe that Trump is the answer to the "establishment" problem.  They will view this display as confirmation that the "establishment" is terrified of Trump because he is wonderfully "anti-establishment"
  • BlueBirdMBBlueBirdMB member
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    edited March 2016
    snp605 said:
    To me, establishment is the current favorite who has been toeing the party line for a period of time maintaining the status quo. An example would be someone who pretty much votes with their party all of the time, will renege on campaign promises to follow the party line on an issue near and dear to the leadership of the party and is very careful what they say and do because they need the continued support and cooperation of their bedfellows to get re-elected. I don't think of them as innovators or free thinkers but as people who like power and will say anything to keep getting elected to their position of prominence. I also lump people who have been elected due to family connections/name in with establishment ie Kennedy, Bush, etc

    It may be a media constructed term but it's been used for as long as I can remember. I think it's getting used more because it seems to be such a bigger factor in this election.

    I agree with the bolded for a definition of "establishment."

    Sanders and Carson (too bad it seems he's leaving) are anti-establishment, I think. "Anti-establishment" doesn't mean being a tool or a jerk (A la Trump). Sanders and Carson both prove that. I certainly don't think Cruz fits into the establishment and Rubio might (I'm not sure how likely it is that he would follow through on his promises or just maintain status quo).

    So are you saying that an "establishment" politician is someone who says what is needed for political expediency?  I could agree with that definition.  My guess is that that is exactly what Trump is doing and I base that on the fact that he has changed his platforms numerous times in the past year to fit with the mold that will appeal to the most people.  It's something politicians have long been accused of.  It's a reason I think it's important to nominate someone with political experience.  You have to see if they have a record of following through on their promises or not.  You have to see if they have turned out to be who they said they were.
  • I always equate establishment as those that are getting money from the big wigs and are puppets to them. Regarding all these things the GOP are saying. I think the need to stop and just accept it. It's not going to hurt trumps polls anyways. They should have done all this stuff last year. It's making them look ridiculous.
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  • Just like we have attempted to define "political correctness" here before, and also attempted to define "natural born citizen" here before, perhaps the "establishment" word also fits into a category of terms tossed around, but everybody has nebulous ideas of what the term actually entails.

    Like, "it depends on what your definition of 'is' is." It is also possible that everybody using the term "establishment" takes their meaning based on their own perspectives and if we talked to a Trump supporter s/he would give a different definition than a Rubio supporter or a Carson supporter would give.

    It seems like it is a highly nuanced word.

  • Just like we have attempted to define "political correctness" here before, and also attempted to define "natural born citizen" here before, perhaps the "establishment" word also fits into a category of terms tossed around, but everybody has nebulous ideas of what the term actually entails.

    Like, "it depends on what your definition of 'is' is." It is also possible that everybody using the term "establishment" takes their meaning based on their own perspectives and if we talked to a Trump supporter s/he would give a different definition than a Rubio supporter or a Carson supporter would give.

    It seems like it is a highly nuanced word.

    I think it's a grossly over used word that has very little meaning. 
  • vlagrl29 said:
    I always equate establishment as those that are getting money from the big wigs and are puppets to them. Regarding all these things the GOP are saying. I think the need to stop and just accept it. It's not going to hurt trumps polls anyways. They should have done all this stuff last year. It's making them look ridiculous.
    I agree they should have put a stop to this nonsense a long time ago and at this point, it's just fueling the fire.  However, if I were them, I don't know if I could keep my mouth shut either. 
  • snp605snp605 member
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    edited March 2016
    establishment to me is not necessarily JUST agreeing with their party (which makes sense because why do you belong to that party if you don't share some base values?!) but I think I distinguished that by pointing out that establishment people are willing to renege on campaign promises and even u-turn their own positions that got them elected by the people in their jurisdiction in the name of political expediency or their own survival. I'd add in there people who are elected by virtue of their current connections be it their family name, wealth or simple connections to the right people.   It feels like they say anything to get elected and then just go with the flow of the existing leadership, introducing very little by way of new solutions or even being willing to take any sort of political risk to fix anything.

    Hillary is a good example of this. It happens in both parties but she's an easy, quick example. When she ran for Senator she had ZERO personal political experience and had not grown up or spent any significant time as a resident of New York. Yet she had the political clout to walk in there and run a successful campaign over people who were likely born and raised and spent the majority of their life there. These were eople who knew the people and way of life there and what was really needed yet she was chosen over them by the political machine and then the people. She may even have done a bang up job there but still it goes to show that you don't have to  really have to appear to be the best person for the job provided you have the right political name and pull.

    Something that has come about, somewhat I think unforeseen by the founding fathers, is that we live a lot longer than we used to and this country has grown exponentially. The people who serve us started out doing it in their "side time" sort of how some people currently serve on their local school boards and county commissions in addition to their regular jobs. I don't think the founding fathers recognized that we'd have people who turned this into their whole career and would serve 30, 40 and even 50 or more years without providing room for fresh voices and fresh ideas. It's become an incestuous cesspool of power with very little actual "service" as servants of the people. Ordinary people are the props and what they have to put up with to get elected and get favors for their friends. Donald Trump is doing the same thing and without the veil of being "establishment" it's very obvious looking in that is what is going on. We don't just accept that this is what he has to do to "get things done". We call a spade a spade when it's Trump but we have let Congress do these things for years. :(
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  • snp605 said:
    establishment to me is not necessarily JUST agreeing with their party (which makes sense because why do you belong to that party if you don't share some base values?!) but I think I distinguished that by pointing out that establishment people are willing to renege on campaign promises and even u-turn their own positions that got them elected by the people in their jurisdiction in the name of political expediency or their own survival. I'd add in there people who are elected by virtue of their current connections be it their family name, wealth or simple connections to the right people.   It feels like they say anything to get elected and then just go with the flow of the existing leadership, introducing very little by way of new solutions or even being willing to take any sort of political risk to fix anything.

    Hillary is a good example of this. It happens in both parties but she's an easy, quick example. When she ran for Senator she had ZERO personal political experience and had not grown up or spent any significant time as a resident of New York. Yet she had the political clout to walk in there and run a successful campaign over people who were likely born and raised and spent the majority of their life there. These were eople who knew the people and way of life there and what was really needed yet she was chosen over them by the political machine and then the people. She may even have done a bang up job there but still it goes to show that you don't have to  really have to appear to be the best person for the job provided you have the right political name and pull.

    Something that has come about, somewhat I think unforeseen by the founding fathers, is that we live a lot longer than we used to and this country has grown exponentially. The people who serve us started out doing it in their "side time" sort of how some people currently serve on their local school boards and county commissions in addition to their regular jobs. I don't think the founding fathers recognized that we'd have people who turned this into their whole career and would serve 30, 40 and even 50 or more years without providing room for fresh voices and fresh ideas. It's become an incestuous cesspool of power with very little actual "service" as servants of the people. Ordinary people are the props and what they have to put up with to get elected and get favors for their friends. Donald Trump is doing the same thing and without the veil of being "establishment" it's very obvious looking in that is what is going on. We don't just accept that this is what he has to do to "get things done". We call a spade a spade when it's Trump but we have let Congress do these things for years. :(
    I agree with this.  

    I am 100% for term limits for Congress because of the reason you cited here- we live much longer now then we did when Congress was first created.  And apparently people are incapable of voting out incumbents because they don't educate themselves enough to see past name recognition often.

    I think 16 years (2 terms) is quite long enough to be a senator.  Any more time than that, the power starts to corrupt even the most honest, moral person.
  • I think the speech in itself is a mistake.  He needed to just stay quiet and sip coffee on his mansion here in NH (ugh it's such a a gorgeous house on a stunning lake).

    HOWEVER, I completely agree with what he's saying.  I also have always liked him as a person.  I think he was a very weak candidate because he was never capable of competing in modern day politics.  He's too polite and people perceive that now as weakness.  But I personally appreciate class and I think he ran a gentleman's campaign, which as we can see clearly now, is not what the American people want.  He lives here in NH and I've had the pleasure of meeting him a few times and he really is a class act and I believe would have made a good president.  I never got excited about his campaign, but I felt sad the world would never know a President Romney (and shouldn't now! No running Romney again!).

    He's saying everything we have been saying about Trump.  He's absolutely correct in every point so far.  But again, I don't think it was his place to give this speech, but it sounds like he is so upset, he just couldn't keep his mouth shut anymore.  I feel the same way and if I had a platform, I would probably take it.  



    This is exactly, exactly, exactly the biggest thing I hate about politics.  I feel like many politicians run their campaigns and behave in a way that if they were pre-school, and not Congress (or other political position), would not be tolerated at all.

    It's just sad for all when our population is swayed by the biggest loud mouth instead of the candidate with the best POLICIES and SOLUTIONS.  My attitude is if, a politician's commercials/campaigns are primarily just a beat down of their rival(s), that tells me they must not have much to offer themselves.  So they use the "look how much the other guy sucks" strategy as a smokescreen for their own inadequacies.   

  • I think the speech in itself is a mistake.  He needed to just stay quiet and sip coffee on his mansion here in NH (ugh it's such a a gorgeous house on a stunning lake).

    HOWEVER, I completely agree with what he's saying.  I also have always liked him as a person.  I think he was a very weak candidate because he was never capable of competing in modern day politics.  He's too polite and people perceive that now as weakness.  But I personally appreciate class and I think he ran a gentleman's campaign, which as we can see clearly now, is not what the American people want.  He lives here in NH and I've had the pleasure of meeting him a few times and he really is a class act and I believe would have made a good president.  I never got excited about his campaign, but I felt sad the world would never know a President Romney (and shouldn't now! No running Romney again!).

    He's saying everything we have been saying about Trump.  He's absolutely correct in every point so far.  But again, I don't think it was his place to give this speech, but it sounds like he is so upset, he just couldn't keep his mouth shut anymore.  I feel the same way and if I had a platform, I would probably take it.  



    This is exactly, exactly, exactly the biggest thing I hate about politics.  I feel like many politicians run their campaigns and behave in a way that if they were pre-school, and not Congress (or other political position), would not be tolerated at all.

    It's just sad for all when our population is swayed by the biggest loud mouth instead of the candidate with the best POLICIES and SOLUTIONS.  My attitude is if, a politician's commercials/campaigns are primarily just a beat down of their rival(s), that tells me they must not have much to offer themselves.  So they use the "look how much the other guy sucks" strategy as a smokescreen for their own inadequacies.   

    I used to think that too, but now I just think it's the only way to A. be reported on in the media and B. be heard by the public.  It's a sad state of affairs when you need to run a Kardashian style campaign for anyone to vote for you.  

    I've also pondered this for a while.  I think we've become desensitized as a population to indecent, crude, rude behavior so much, that we don't perceive it as rude anymore, but simply as "speaking one's mind".
  • I think the speech in itself is a mistake.  He needed to just stay quiet and sip coffee on his mansion here in NH (ugh it's such a a gorgeous house on a stunning lake).

    HOWEVER, I completely agree with what he's saying.  I also have always liked him as a person.  I think he was a very weak candidate because he was never capable of competing in modern day politics.  He's too polite and people perceive that now as weakness.  But I personally appreciate class and I think he ran a gentleman's campaign, which as we can see clearly now, is not what the American people want.  He lives here in NH and I've had the pleasure of meeting him a few times and he really is a class act and I believe would have made a good president.  I never got excited about his campaign, but I felt sad the world would never know a President Romney (and shouldn't now! No running Romney again!).

    He's saying everything we have been saying about Trump.  He's absolutely correct in every point so far.  But again, I don't think it was his place to give this speech, but it sounds like he is so upset, he just couldn't keep his mouth shut anymore.  I feel the same way and if I had a platform, I would probably take it.  



    This is exactly, exactly, exactly the biggest thing I hate about politics.  I feel like many politicians run their campaigns and behave in a way that if they were pre-school, and not Congress (or other political position), would not be tolerated at all.

    It's just sad for all when our population is swayed by the biggest loud mouth instead of the candidate with the best POLICIES and SOLUTIONS.  My attitude is if, a politician's commercials/campaigns are primarily just a beat down of their rival(s), that tells me they must not have much to offer themselves.  So they use the "look how much the other guy sucks" strategy as a smokescreen for their own inadequacies.   

    I used to think that too, but now I just think it's the only way to A. be reported on in the media and B. be heard by the public.  It's a sad state of affairs when you need to run a Kardashian style campaign for anyone to vote for you.  

    I've also pondered this for a while.  I think we've become desensitized as a population to indecent, crude, rude behavior so much, that we don't perceive it as rude anymore, but simply as "speaking one's mind".
    Bolded. Emphatically agree.

  • I used to think that too, but now I just think it's the only way to A. be reported on in the media and B. be heard by the public.  It's a sad state of affairs when you need to run a Kardashian style campaign for anyone to vote for you.  

    I've also pondered this for a while.  I think we've become desensitized as a population to indecent, crude, rude behavior so much, that we don't perceive it as rude anymore, but simply as "speaking one's mind".
    Bolded. Emphatically agree.

    While I agree with the statement of the population being desensitized, I don't agree with the general sentiment.  Not saying you do either!  I understand you're just pointing out herd mentality.

    In fact, I think this very forum is a great example of how people with differing views can "speak their mind" without resorting to crude and rude behavior. 

  • I did hear some of Mitt's speech on The Daily Show last night.  Agreed so much with what he said.

    But, of course, The Daily Show then juxtaposed that speech with a speech he made when he was running for President.  At that time, Trump had endorsed him and was standing right up there on the podium with Mitt, when Mitt gave a glowing speech of thanks to Trump and talking about what a great man he was.

    To be fair, the Daily Show does that kind of thing to everybody.  It just makes me glad I don't have a lifetime of recorded sound bites, lol.

  • I did hear some of Mitt's speech on The Daily Show last night.  Agreed so much with what he said.

    But, of course, The Daily Show then juxtaposed that speech with a speech he made when he was running for President.  At that time, Trump had endorsed him and was standing right up there on the podium with Mitt, when Mitt gave a glowing speech of thanks to Trump and talking about what a great man he was.

    To be fair, the Daily Show does that kind of thing to everybody.  It just makes me glad I don't have a lifetime of recorded sound bites, lol.

    Everyone's saying Mitt is hypocritical because he had Trump's endorsement.  I mean, Trump is a rich man with deep pockets and a ton of influence.  What candidate is going to say "nooooo I don't want your money or endorsement".  Besides I doubt a politician personally knows every person who endorses them in the way we now know Trump.

  • I used to think that too, but now I just think it's the only way to A. be reported on in the media and B. be heard by the public.  It's a sad state of affairs when you need to run a Kardashian style campaign for anyone to vote for you.  

    I've also pondered this for a while.  I think we've become desensitized as a population to indecent, crude, rude behavior so much, that we don't perceive it as rude anymore, but simply as "speaking one's mind".
    Bolded. Emphatically agree.

    While I agree with the statement of the population being desensitized, I don't agree with the general sentiment.  Not saying you do either!  I understand you're just pointing out herd mentality.

    In fact, I think this very forum is a great example of how people with differing views can "speak their mind" without resorting to crude and rude behavior. 

    I'm so happy to have found this group and be able to have concrete discussions with civility.  However, I think we are the minority, not the majority.  

  • I used to think that too, but now I just think it's the only way to A. be reported on in the media and B. be heard by the public.  It's a sad state of affairs when you need to run a Kardashian style campaign for anyone to vote for you.  

    I've also pondered this for a while.  I think we've become desensitized as a population to indecent, crude, rude behavior so much, that we don't perceive it as rude anymore, but simply as "speaking one's mind".
    Bolded. Emphatically agree.

    While I agree with the statement of the population being desensitized, I don't agree with the general sentiment.  Not saying you do either!  I understand you're just pointing out herd mentality.

    In fact, I think this very forum is a great example of how people with differing views can "speak their mind" without resorting to crude and rude behavior. 

    I'm so happy to have found this group and be able to have concrete discussions with civility.  However, I think we are the minority, not the majority.  
    Thank you guys...I like to hear what you all say and also voice my opinion without being attacked ad hominen.
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