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Nickel and dimed?

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  • jtmh2012 said:
    vlagrl35 said:
    I've never really thought about this stuff but movie tickets are so dang expensive now.  I'm one of those that brings their own candy and drinks.
    We started skipping a lot of movies in theatres because of this.
    We've been enjoying the early Sunday morning shows because they are WAY cheaper at our theater than an evening movie. Instead of dinner and a movie we do brunch and a movie for our dates!
  • My cell phone bill drives me batty.  It's never the same amount month to month.  Why is that?!  Plus, my service is terrible.  In the city where the company is headquartered.  It's insane. 

    The toll thing is interesting.  We don't have those around here, but we do have taxes that other states don't.  Until I came to this board I didn't know that it wasn't the norm to pay your county's standard tax rate on food (here it's 7-8%).
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  • The MD ezpass for tolls is ridiculous, but I've heard DE is worse. H and I have a plan that is $20 a year to cross a bridge to get to our house. We cross this bridge literally every day at least 2 times a day. Without this plan it is $8 to go east, there is no toll to go west. There was a point when H had his ezpass tied to his debit card, and they kept taking out $8 a day for him to cross this bridge even with the yearly plan. I think they ended up taking over $80-100 before H noticed (I have no idea how you don't notice that, but he doesn't check his account as frequently as I do). Anyway we called and requested a refund because he had a valid, paid for yearly plan, and they said they could only refund the money to his ezpass account but not his debit card. So he had over $100 credit on his account. Some how that credit disappeared really quickly even thou he still had the yearly plan and doesn't drive his truck on any other toll roads. For some reason H decided not to fight that fight, but we did remove the auto-payment option from his account.

    I will never again have an auto payment option for our tolls. Lesson learned for sure.

    Back to the OP - I hate paying for water. I know that's crazy, but I grew up with a well so we never paid for water growing up. Now I live in a small town and have to pay for it. I wouldn't mind IF our water wasn't constantly brown with a foul smell like they can't balance out the chemicals. You can definitely tell when there is too much chlorine or sulfur in the water. Discoloration and smell happens at least once a week and we get a notice at least once a month saying it failed some sort of state standard, yet I'm still forced to pay over $200 a quarter for water that really isn't drinkable. H works at a water treatment plant I keep meaning to have him take a sample to work to test it and make sure it's within legal limits.


  • jtmh2012 said:
    vlagrl35 said:
    I've never really thought about this stuff but movie tickets are so dang expensive now.  I'm one of those that brings their own candy and drinks.
    We started skipping a lot of movies in theatres because of this.
    Same. We only go if it's a big blockbuster like Star Wars where the big screen will impact the viewing experience. 
  • jtmh2012 said:
    vlagrl35 said:
    I've never really thought about this stuff but movie tickets are so dang expensive now.  I'm one of those that brings their own candy and drinks.
    We started skipping a lot of movies in theatres because of this.
    oh yeah we don't see that many movies in the theaters anymore but when we do I'm also so shocked.  There is a theatre close to us that is a bit cheaper than the AMC so we go to that one.  We are actually having DD's bday party at it next month and the kids will watch the new beauty and the beast movie.
  • jtmh2012 said:
    vlagrl35 said:
    I've never really thought about this stuff but movie tickets are so dang expensive now.  I'm one of those that brings their own candy and drinks.
    We started skipping a lot of movies in theatres because of this.
    We rarely go too. After the high cost of tickets, it's inevitable that we end up sitting behind someone who pulls out their phone, which absolutely ruins the movie for DH. It's just one of his pet peeves and he cannot tolerate it. He usually says something or tells the theater about if if they're causing a major disturbance but it still ruins the entire experience. So it's just not worth the $25-$30 anymore for us to go. I think the only times we've gone to a movie lately were because we had a gift card.
  • vlagrl35 said:
    jtmh2012 said:
    vlagrl35 said:
    I've never really thought about this stuff but movie tickets are so dang expensive now.  I'm one of those that brings their own candy and drinks.
    We started skipping a lot of movies in theatres because of this.
    oh yeah we don't see that many movies in the theaters anymore but when we do I'm also so shocked.  There is a theatre close to us that is a bit cheaper than the AMC so we go to that one.  We are actually having DD's bday party at it next month and the kids will watch the new beauty and the beast movie.
    I'm not sure if there are any in the Northland but Cinemarks have $4.50 matinee tickets for any movie before 5:00 pm.  If there aren't any up North, I do know there is one on the Plaza.
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  • We used to have a cool place called CinemaCafe.  They'd have ~$1 movies on Tue/Thur and 2 of the theatres would have 1st run movies and 2 would show second run movies at a discount.  Part of our reason for not going to movies is cost, but honestly, the bigger factor is we now have a toddler and we don't want to ruin it for other people or ourselves.
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  • labro said:
    jtmh2012 said:
    vlagrl35 said:
    I've never really thought about this stuff but movie tickets are so dang expensive now.  I'm one of those that brings their own candy and drinks.
    We started skipping a lot of movies in theatres because of this.
    We rarely go too. After the high cost of tickets, it's inevitable that we end up sitting behind someone who pulls out their phone, which absolutely ruins the movie for DH. It's just one of his pet peeves and he cannot tolerate it. He usually says something or tells the theater about if if they're causing a major disturbance but it still ruins the entire experience. So it's just not worth the $25-$30 anymore for us to go. I think the only times we've gone to a movie lately were because we had a gift card.
    I'm with your husband - people who use their phone in a theater (movie or otherwise) are the worst. I assume they also hate fun and kick puppies but I can't prove that yet. 
  • Yeah we rarely go to the movies, but went to see John Wick 2 2 weekends ago, that movie is good to see in a theater I think.  But after the fees and the actual tickets, it was $25 for the 2 of us.  Plus H got a beer there and it was like $11 or something crazy.  
  • edited February 2017

    One irritation that occurred for us in 2016, was a toll in CA. We were from out of town and had rented a van. We knew the road we were on was a toll road, except there were no plazas to pay via cash or credit card (and didn't know this until we were already driving on it). Apparently, there are these overhead monitors, and if you don't have an Ez-pass reader, they charge you the toll and register it to your license plate.

    As we zoomed passed, WAAAAY off to one side I saw a road sign that read, in super tiny print, as we're driving at 65 MPH for rented vehicles to send your toll to XYZ website or whatever. I had no time to jot it down. But I realized there was a website and sought it out later online. But, the info it wanted to pay the fee would not recognize the rental information we provided. So we could not pay it. We figured the toll would get charged back to the rental car company and passed along to us. Oh. It. Did. $150 in fines and fees from the State of CA.

    I wager this happens a lot to out-of-towners in rental cars. It's such a stiff because either they don't see the website sign or like us, they do, but they can't pay it. Too bad for CA the nearly "illegal" toll plan to "steal" from unsuspecting travelers, still hasn't gotten their state out of debt. We paid it all rather than fighting it. I mean, who has the time for that?!? Won't go to CA again just on principle.

  • We have a similar problem here.  Any new toll roads are 100% electronic tolling.  Any old ones are being slowly converted.  If I used them all the time, I'd just get a transponder and be done with it.  But my normal routes don't require it and the few times I'd hit it don't keep it active enough so I don't get it.  Plus, I just hate the idea of having money sitting on an account I can't touch.  And it seems like everybody is going that way.....
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  • @MommyLiberty5013, there's one toll road nearish where my mom lives in So. CA.  When I'm visiting, I refuse to take it because I find it super confusing, lol.

    If a person already has an EZ-Pass, no worries.  But, otherwise, you have to occasionally take these "off ramps" where the pay stations are.  But, if you don't normally take that road, you don't know where the off ramps are until it is usually too late to go down one. 

  • @MommyLiberty5013, there's one toll road nearish where my mom lives in So. CA.  When I'm visiting, I refuse to take it because I find it super confusing, lol.

    If a person already has an EZ-Pass, no worries.  But, otherwise, you have to occasionally take these "off ramps" where the pay stations are.  But, if you don't normally take that road, you don't know where the off ramps are until it is usually too late to go down one. 

    The one near me has those, but they're very well marked.  I do find it funny, part of the point of electronic tolling is to reduce the congestion at the toll plaza.  The readers are capable of reading at highway speeds.  But nearly everyone I've seen requires slowing down for the readers.
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