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thoughts?

Boss just received a text message from a female ex-coworker inviting him out for drinks. He was planning on going until secretary said it was shady. Ex-CW knows he's married but made it a point to say, "drinks for 2!". He says it's innocent and she's a sweet girl.
Would any of you ladies be kosher with your husband going out for drinks with an ex-cw? I'm going to share your thoughts with him tonight to help influence his decision.

 

 

Re: thoughts?

  • My DH yes I would trust him to go, but would I like it, no! ?

    DH goes out with a friend (female) every so often. ?The whole family of the friend is very close to us, her dad is like a dad to my DH. ?She is married. ?Her & Dh go out to dinner from time to time just themselves. ?I trust them, but I still don't like it. BTW, DH had a crush on her way back in the day.?

    I think it is inappropriate for a married man or woman to have a one to one get together with anyone of the opposite sex. (I even tell my DH that)?

  • Does this girl have a history of being overly flirty or having inappropriate relationships? If not, I wouldn't have any problems with it.

    Dh is in outside sales and can get some valuable networking and advice from ex-coworkers. I trust him 100% and even if the meeting was friendly rather than business, I know that he wouldn't do anything inapproriate and would up and leave if it seemed that a female friend had that type of intentions.

  • I just asked him. He says she has a history of soured relationships and is in her late 20's. He's in his 50's. She also just sent him a picture of herself in a cocktail dress that she's wearing to vegas this weekend.I told him to delete it and unless he wanted a divorce to stop texting her. The picture wasn't modest...at all! Bewbies all over the place. Helllo.....

    WTF...maybe he likes the attention too? I don't know but if Sal had this shi* on his cellphone we'd have major issues.

  • That doesn't sound like any good could come out of it. He needs to be smacked for even thinking about going.
  • I was going to say 'well, maybe she needs work advice or something' but then I read your post about the picture.  Run away, run far away.
  • Definitely sounds like trouble since you posted your follow-up post...
  • When I heard the part about her texting the crazy pic to him, that is trouble. She sounds like she is flirting.   right?  come on, men are men.  He should not go!
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