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Can someone paraphrase for me?

I haven't been around much in the past few days and don't have the energy to read all the posts, what's all this drama I'm hearing about? And what's with the random troll posts?

Re: Can someone paraphrase for me?

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  • First read these two paragraphs...  then go down to Krista's thread called "F/U to the jibberish posts" and page down a bit to my paragraphs there for more explanation of this past week's events...

    There is always much controversy on both the SJ and Philly boards when the subject of photographers is brought up (or rather, a particular photog).  Early last week there was much bashing of several Knotties by both Nesties & Knotties on the Philly K board.  Our Mod banned a particular Knottie... one of whom none of us has ever met IRL. 

    Months and months and months ago when Shari (the one who has baby Harper from our SJ Nest board) was pg there were some drama that happened on the PG boards and they followed her back to the SJ K board and we were infested with these terrible mean snarky posts directed toward her and then some others.  

  • Thanks for updating ME smiley!  I had no idea all those shananigans had gone on - seems really ridiculous...
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  • It's unfortunate and very high school.  Our Philly board moderator is working with TK on trying to fix the situation.  TK doesn't know how to ban IPs. 

    In the meanwhile...  those of us who know each other IRL have found an alternate method of communicating outside oft he Philly K board and alot of us are FB friends.

  • it craks me up the drama that goes on on the internet.  My husband was shaking his head going "are you serious...this is so stupid" when I was going over the "drama on the message board."   Yea....he made me feel like a complete moron for actually being mad that someone was "trolling" the message board. 

    He did tell me I really should stop posting personal info on here, which I could understand where he was coming from .  I am a pretty trusting person and I never really think twice about what I post on here.  I guess I should start. 

  • Krista, I'm the same way, but I know a few girls have had problems with psycho stalkers so I try not to post anything that could direct people to the real-life me. I'll never understand why people waste so much time putting bad karma out into the universe. 
  • coolMod- wow...that is crazy!  I know when I started on the knot, I posted on the north jersey boards bc that is where my wedding was.  Apparently, a girl had an issue the previous year with some crazy person trying to cancel her vendors bc she posted her vendor info in her bio. 

    It just baffles my mind!  I guess I was lucky bc during my time on the knot, I met some really nice girls who I still talk with.  I just moved down here a year and a half ago, so it helped me meet people. 

    I definitely think editing what you post is a good idea and I am going to try and keep everything general from now on!

  • i think the drama follows me!  it is probably because i have such an uninteresting real life!

    and i completely believe in karma.  it will come back in their direction so no worries! 

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