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Ughhh..Changing your name!

Hi Ladies,

Ever since I came back from the HM, I've slowly been changing all my documents to my married last name...Although its not that complicated it's sooo annoying to see how much I have to change!! Also it was so strange to have to introduce myself with my new last name and I always find that I keep saying my maiden name...Anyways did you have to change your car registration as well? How was the whole name changing experience for you?

 

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  • LOL After 3.5 yrs of marriage, I find it weird to see documents w/ my maiden name!  Sounds strange, but it is.

    I did change my car registration, but once I had to renew the registration... I didn't do it immediately.

    Changing my name wasn't "traumatic" to me at all.  I guess I sorta found it to be "fun" b/c you always get the question "and why the change?" and you get to say "I got married!"  LOL  Silly, I know... but it is the little things.  My process was quite smooth.

    I started w/ the SS office, and then driver's license... once those 2 were in place (in my mind, the most important), then I started change CC.  Our house was bought before the wedding, and until we refinance (1 yr later), it stayed w/ my maiden name.

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  • I did not register my car here in florida until I had my married name. Also I found that it was a little annoying, but once it was done I was happy that I did it all.  I also still write my maiden name on accident.  I have not completely used to my new name yet.  But I am working on it.
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  • Mine has been smooth so far! Everything has been changed quickly except for my passport Embarrassed. Ive been lazy to do that one since it requires sending in a check etc.

    I will say, this past weekend I got a frantic call from my doctors office because walgreens called to verify my prescription and my insurance now is under my new name. They just couldn't figure it out even though my social and dob was the same. I haven't visited the doctors yet so I havent updated their files. They went bezerk. I thought to myself, "Doesn't this happen to them all the time when people get maried?" Its an obgyn office! You'd think they'd be used to that by now.

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  • Thank you Jackie and Shirley for your input! I'm happy to see that I'm not the only one annoyed by this process..LOL..Smile
  • Mine has been smooth so far! Everything has been changed quickly except for my passport Embarrassed. Ive been lazy to do that one since it requires sending in a check etc.

    That's hilarious!! I've been delaying that one because of the application fee!! LOL

  • i found it to be a hassle.  i first did my SS, then license, and finally passport.  it was smooth.  as far as everything else only changed it when the cards expired.  and something needed to be renewed. 
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    Mine has been smooth so far! Everything has been changed quickly except for my passport Embarrassed. Ive been lazy to do that one since it requires sending in a check etc.

    I will say, this past weekend I got a frantic call from my doctors office because walgreens called to verify my prescription and my insurance now is under my new name. They just couldn't figure it out even though my social and dob was the same. I haven't visited the doctors yet so I havent updated their files. They went bezerk. I thought to myself, "Doesn't this happen to them all the time when people get maried?" Its an obgyn office! You'd think they'd be used to that by now.

    The one thing that I have never changed is my BJ's membership card (Costco made me change it) b/c of pure laziness.  Whenever I pay w/ a credit card (married name), they verify w/ the membership card (maiden name).  They always put the most bizarre face like, "OMG what do I do?"  When I explain, I have to show the DL... gets annoying after a while, but I don't want to change my picture... it is quite funny (DH put bunny ears on me).  LOL
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  • I don't think I would want to change that pic either! lol

     Speaking of photos....im quite mad at the fact that I had to change my DL photo. My old one was so pretty. My new one has my new haircut that I dont exactly love and a rounder face :(

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  • I actually found everyone to be great w/ the name change as far as the DMV, SS, Passport Agency....

    My best friend's husband works at the Passport Agency in Philly and she said they are kind of slow so you should get it quickly. Mine took like 2-3 weeks when normally it's 6-8!

    My hangup has been w/ doctors. My insurance got messed up and still has my maiden name. And the doctors when looking for my records request my new last name and the practice is like "Uh....we can't find her in our database." Duh, I forgot to tell them to check under my maiden name.

    I just changed my work email and need new business cards, but I can't rationalize killing trees for 500 new business cards. 

    Good luck!

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    I don't think I would want to change that pic either! lol

     Speaking of photos....im quite mad at the fact that I had to change my DL photo. My old one was so pretty. My new one has my new haircut that I dont exactly love and a rounder face :(

    aww I'm sure your haircut looks just fine ;)

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    imageJennyLo26:

    I don't think I would want to change that pic either! lol

     Speaking of photos....im quite mad at the fact that I had to change my DL photo. My old one was so pretty. My new one has my new haircut that I dont exactly love and a rounder face :(

    aww I'm sure your haircut looks just fine ;)

     It is not terrible....but I miss my old long hair :(. I used to be able to air dry it and the ends would curl. I can't wait for it to grow out!

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  • I'm still getting little things here and there that pop up needing a name change. It's annoying, but as long as you have the major stuff done, you'll be okay.

    Get your passport done as soon as you can, that's a biggy. It's actually really easy, just fill out your paperwork ahead of time, take your picture (Walgreens does it) and drop it off at the post office. I got mine in the mail in 2 and half weeks.

  • Wow.. it feels like forever ago that I was making all the changes (3 yr anni next month).  I've been a total slacker though - I changed everything except my passport.  Being a sahm and everything you think I would find the time to do it, but no.  It expires next year so I guess I have no choice coming up soon. 
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  • I was bad, I didn't change my last name. The true reason is because our last names are only 1 letter different. his last letter is a T and mine is an E. And his last name always gets messed up and they say it the same as mine so I just saved everyone the trouble! lol. (plus it makes his parents really mad) He doesn't care what last name I have. We are married no matter if I change my name or not.  Plus he wouldn't change his Stick out tongue hehe
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    Wow.. it feels like forever ago that I was making all the changes (3 yr anni next month).  I've been a total slacker though - I changed everything except my passport.  Being a sahm and everything you think I would find the time to do it, but no.  It expires next year so I guess I have no choice coming up soon. 

    ok, first of all your little girl is ADORABLE!

    too bad she's a baby Gator -- haha j/k Wink

  • this is a process I am not looking forward to... i am looking forward to my last name changing... but not the actual process...
  • Changing my DL, credit cards, insurance, etc. was fun, but I am putting off changing my name with SS.

    I went to my local office once at opening, and there were 15 people in line! And I haven't been back since.

    Anyone know an easier way of changing your name with SS? I don't have a certified copy of our marriage license to send them...

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