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Sex in SD

I am so afraid of getting caught, that I have NEVER had sex anywhere other than at home/hotel. Never in a car, a pool, the beach, a hot tub. Nothing. I want to try sex in a public place. I hear it is quite exciting, however, I am so embarassed and need some encouragement... where should I take him to surprise him with some lovin'? I know he will be totally in to it because he has mentioned it before.

You can just make suggestions, even if you have not tried it personally.

I cannot believe I am about to click Post... I would post this on the Sex board, but I am hoping for some SD specific ideas...and I am going to DD this later.

Re: Sex in SD

  • Well when DH and I we're in high school his parents we're home so we left to go to a park to have sex. While doing the deed a lady drove by in a minivan with her cell phone waving it as us, basically telling us she was going to call the cops. I don't recommend having sex in public places after that!
  • What at about a little hole that's quiet and on the beach??
  • The beach is fun, just plan on getting sand everywhere ;-)

  • I was much more up for "sex anywhere" in high school and the beginning of collge - not so much anymore.  for some reason, it just doesnt appeal so much anymore.  Maybe because I was more adventerous when I was younger??  I dont know.

    I always thought the beach was romantic - bad idea. There are places sand just shouldnt be.  Beach area is better - there are gazibos along the beach in some areas. How crazy do you want to get?  The car is always an option - or doing things (to him) while driving.  Dressing rooms?   

  • Not to be a total wet blanket (I enjoy the new found liveliness of the board). A now former co-worker did this at Mission Beach after having a few too many at the Comber. Someone saw it going on from afar, called the cops and they charged them as sex offenders. He spent $250K on attorneys to get the charges lessened. He apparently didn't want his house labeled online with a little blue dot. Food for thought.
     
  • imageLloydBraun:
    Not to be a total wet blanket (I enjoy the new found liveliness of the board). A now former co-worker did this at Mission Beach after having a few too many at the Comber. Someone saw it going on from afar, called the cops and they charged them as sex offenders. He spent $250K on attorneys to get the charges lessened. He apparently didn't want his house labeled online with a little blue dot. Food for thought.
     

    OMG that is crazy. I had no idea you could be a sex offender by getting caught in public. Was the couple married? I think they would be more lienent (sp?) to married couples. Just makes ya think twice!

  • imageLloydBraun:
    Not to be a total wet blanket (I enjoy the new found liveliness of the board). A now former co-worker did this at Mission Beach after having a few too many at the Comber. Someone saw it going on from afar, called the cops and they charged them as sex offenders. He spent $250K on attorneys to get the charges lessened. He apparently didn't want his house labeled online with a little blue dot. Food for thought.
     

    this is what i was wondering.  peeing in public puts you on the list, thought this might also.  thanks for clearing that up! 

    glad we never got caught!  Embarrassed

  • ^^ ack! I had no idea about being a sex offender. So maybe I am over it then. I only have one friend that ever got busted by a cop, she was the sargents daughter doing an officers brother. LOL. Needless to say, they did not get in trouble.

    There is no way in hell we could risk that. DH has super top secret clearance. Took years to get that.

  • if your really up for it...go see an old movie late at night where you know (or hope) no one will be in there and go into the very back in the corner. me & my hubs did it at a few different theaters. put an old jackets/sweatshirt down first. haha. i wanted to try the beach to but sand everywhere no thanks. we also did it at my husbands work in the parking lot in the corner. haha. we like adventure every once in a while.
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