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Is it odd?

So this weekend is a friends bach party and I was invited to go. I told DH about it and he was curious if the groom to be was going to have his bach party the same night (like we did)  I thought maybe not because someone wouldve called DH by now.  Mind you, I know this couple through DH.  The groom to be went to DHs bach party and his fiancee went to mine.  I just found out through another friend of mine that the groom to be is possibly having his bach party this weekend.  I find it odd that DH was not invited, these are one of his closest friends for years.  I want to think that MAYBE he is not having it this weekend.  But what if he is, i feel bad that DH was not invited and I was.  I mean DH has plans for this weekend anyway, going to the WBC at the dolphin stadium (they dont know that he has plans or not) DH is pretty sensitive when it comes to this, I dont want to mention it to him.  I feel guilty going now...  Im hoping IF there is a bach party going on for the groom that they call him tonight....
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Re: Is it odd?

  • oh no! =/ I would say that the future groom probably does not have things set in stone yet and therefore hasn't called (as most guys are). However, if he does and he forgot/neglected to invite DH I would feel extremely guilty. I dont know if I would go and pretend not to know anything about the boys' bach or to explain to the future wife the situation and gracefully bow down from the event. I would wait until tonight and see if he receives an invitation and probably make the choice tomorrow morning.

     GL! keep us posted.

  • well i was thinking that too, but then im stuck at home alone on a saturday night lol, cuz DH has the WBC game that night with his friend.
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  • Another possibility is that the groom isn't organizing the party!  Perhaps the organizer forgot to call your DH? 

    I do find it odd that you know the bride through the DHs and that your DH isn't invited to groom's party.

    -- Jackie
    "If we couldn't laugh we would all go insane" -- Jimmy Buffett Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • yea it is odd.  Im kinda thinking his bach party isnt this weekend or maybe they are letting people know last minute, you know how men are.  Women are more of the planners.  Then again i learned about her bach party this Monday!  hmmmm makes me wonder did she almost forget about me too LOL
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