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I am not content...ever feel this way?

I am tired, but dont want to sleep. I am a little bored and nothing is really of interest to me right now.

I am generally feeling a little "off"....a tiny bit anxious and antsy too.

Do you ever feel like this?

Re: I am not content...ever feel this way?

  • YES and that is when I usaully do something nice for myself
  • Yes! I know exactly what you are talking about. It drives DH crazy. He doesn't understand feeling this way and not really doing anything to change it... but I just can't explain it to him.

    It always passes, so I just remind myself of that and deal with it. Hope it passes for you soon.
  • I definitely get like that....especially on Friday evenings. I tend to not make big plans for Fri nights and then I end up wanting to do something but I'm never sure what. Some cures for me are shopping, wine, a good magazine or doing my nails. hmmmmmmm or nesting.
  • Yup.  Kind of like you want to crawl out of your own skin, but for no good reason?  I get like this from time to time, and find (found) a glass of wine and a good book would sometimes do the trick.  Or forcing myself to do SOMETHING (go out, watch a movie, etc) would help at other times.

  • Yes! A bath/shower sometimes helps me!
  • Oh yes. It's a very uncomfortable, frustrating feeling. I usually take my dog to the park when I get that way - go for a nice long walk there and get all my "kinks" out. Or, if you feel like you need to relax more than get out, have a glass or two of wine and take a bath. HTH!
  • All the time.  When I was in college I coined the feeling as being "aggidy", a cross between aggrivated and agitated.  I don't know that I have a cure, buying something doesn't really help, chocolate can, I usually just have to wait for it to pass.
  • I have found that I get that way 1-3 days per month....its not PMS since the days vary. But I think its Hormonal...Sometimes its like my body feels anxious or nervous (like anxiety or panic attacks) but I mentally dont feel a reason for anxiety...I think I will call it aggidy from now on....I like that word!!
  • Yup, I know how you feel.  It happens to me sometimes.  Don't know why.  Hope your feeling better.
  • I don't mean this to be inconsiderate - but the first thing I thought of when I read your post is how I remember oncefeeling that way every now and then...before I had kids and now I can't remember when the last time I felt that way was and how I'd LOVE to feel that way for just one hour one day.  Ok - so basically my advice to you is to soak it up.  You may long for some "not content time" someday! :o)

    By the way - I am so super excited for you and the new "journey" you're taking soon!  I JUST CANNOT WAIT until you're a mom!  You are going to be one fabulous mommy - I have goose bumps while I'm typing this!
  • Mrs. MJP- thats so nice of you. I cant wait either.

    I guess I should clarify. What I am feeling is like a pervasive anxiety that is making me want to crawl out of my own skin.... its not good at all.

  • I do know what you mean and I have felt like that before.  You have a lot going on and even more coming up - you have every right to feel this way.  I hope you feel better soon!  :o)

    If you feel like driving to East Hampton - I have more than 12 bottles of wine to choose from.  The girls are asleep and Mike went to meet one of his friends out at a bar...  ;o)
  • Like you have to do something/go somewhere/eat something, but no task/place/food is appealing or making you seem like you'd feel better?
  • And to add on - there is stuff going on and you're missing it...?
  • Yes, yes and YES!

    I am trying to keep my mind off it, and Grace is indulging me and playing online Scrabble with me-- thanks Grace!

    I am pretty sure its related to these pills I am taking now.

    Thanks for the wine offer, but I had a 1/2 glass before and it made me feel a little woozy.

  • I've definitely felt like that...and I've found that other than something to take the "edge" off like I said earlier, time is the only thing that made me feel better.  FWIW, I've never woken up feeling the same way!!  Hope it passes!
  • Thanks Jess, me too.....I might head to bed soon so see if I can sleep it off. :-)
  • What Kelly meant to say is "I am kicking Grace's a$$ in Scrabble"
  • I definitely have days/moments when I feel like that..anxiety is a terrible feeling, especially when you can't put yoru finger on exactly what is making you feel this way.  Sometimes when I am feeling anxious I will take a long, hot shower, go for a walk, go to bed, deep breathing (like yoga breathing), read a magazine, watch mindless tv, go for a drive...if I can pin point the cause I "try" to self talk myself out of it. 
    Hope  you are feeling better soon!!!  Hormones can play a huge role also so it is very possible that the pills you are on may be causing some anxious feelings....hang in there!! :0)
  • Not to be a total downer, but you can expect to feel this way for the next few weeks - on and off, of course, but still present.  You are taking a very emotionally and physically taxing journey right now, and stress/anxiety manifests itself in strange ways.  I hope you're feeling better soon!
  • I have def felt this way before, and also found that is most often happens when I'm going through life changing events or I'm really stressed out.  Unfortunately I've never found a "cure", I just kinda had to ride it out and let it pass.  Considering all that is going on lately, I'm not surprised you're feeling this way, you have a lot going on.  Look at the bright side, on some subconscious level your body and brain probably know that your life is about to change, and that is a great thing!
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