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Poll: Songs you want young girls to hear

If you could make an inspirational, respect yourself type of mix for a 12-14 year old girl, what would you put on it and why?

Re: Poll: Songs you want young girls to hear

  • Here are some of my ideas...

    -Take Me or Leave Me - from Rent, for saying that if someone doesn't like you the way you are, too bad for them

    -Irreplaceable - Beyonce - because I think a lot of girls should heed the line "Well, if I'm not your everything, how about I be nothing?  Nothing at all to you?"

    -Stupid Girls - Pink - because it is a great reminder of what girls shouldn't focus on!

    -Proud - Biggest Loser theme song - because everyone should end their day thinking "What have I done today to make me feel proud?"

  • Defininitely Martina Mcbride's "This One's For The Girls"

    This One's For The Girls

    This is for all you girls about thirteen
    High school can be so rough, can be so mean
    Hold onto, onto your innocense
    Stand your ground when everybody's giving in

    This one's for the girls

    This is for all you girls about twenty-five
    In little apartments just trying to get by
    Living on, on dreams and Spaghetti-Os
    Wondering where your life is gonna go

    This one's for the girls
    Who've ever had a broken heart
    Who've wished upon a shooting star
    You're beautiful the way you are
    This one's for the girls
    Who love without holding back
    Who dream with everything they have
    All around the world
    This one's for the girls

    This is for all you girls about forty-two
    Tossing pennies into the fountain of youth
    Every laugh, laugh line on your face
    Made you who you are today

    Yeah we're all the same inside
    From one to ninety-nine

  • Beautiful by Christina Aguleria Beauty isn't just about looks it's what is inside
  • Independent Woman Pt. 1 by Destiny's Child. 
    Why?  To teach them to rely on themselves.
  • That Johnny Eat World Song:

    Hey, don't write yourself off yet
    It's only in your head you feel left out or looked down on
    Be yourself be everything you can
    And don't you worry what those bitter hearts are gonna say....

    It just takes some time, little girl you're in the middle of the ride, everything everything will be just fine...
  • I also think "Englishman in New York" by Sting is a good one, but you might not get the significance until you're older than 14. Depends on the girl.

    "It takes a (man) to suffer ignorance and smile. Be yourself, no matter what they say."
  • definitely agree with the Martina McBride suggestion!

    I think I might also include Life is Sweet by Natalie Merchant... and maybe 32 Flavors by Ani DiFranco...

  • Oooh, 32 Flavors is a GREAT ONE.
  • Stronger Woman by Jewel.  My new fav song!

    This One's for the Girls by Martina McBride

    Would it be cheesy if I said I'm not a Girl, not yet a Woman by Britney?

    Wide Open Spaces by the Dixie Chicks

    ...let me keep thinking
  • ooh  Natalie Merchant--Wonder & These are Days by 10,000 Maniacs
  • Closer to Fine or Galileo by Indigo Girls
  • Intuition by Jewel is another good one... follow your heart, your intuition!

    this is tough, because when i was that age the grunge era was in full swing and all I wanted to listen to was Soundgarden and Pearl Jam :) 

  • Martina McBride-This One's for the Girls

    Jewel-Stronger Woman

    Leann Womack-I Hope You Dance

    Celine Dion-Power of the Dream (from the Atlanta Olympics)

    The bottom two aren't really "respect yourselves' type songs, but they are 'you can do anything' type songs.

  • 32 Flavors by Alana Davis

    Video by India Arie is a must!  Here are the lyrics http://www.lyriczz.com/lyriczz.php?songid=14799

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