Question for non-religious folks

Kim2884

Octoberbride's post made me think... whenever people hear about a tragedy, they say things like "i'll keep so-and-so in my prayers." I would love to say something like this to convey my compassion and concern, but I am not religious so I won't be praying for anyone.

If there's anyone out there who is also not relgious, what do you say in these situations? Is there anything other than "I'll keep them in my thoughts"? It just doesn't seem to have the same effect to me.

pghctwife

I usually say you are in my thoughts. I think that is fine and appropriate

OctoberBrideNYC

If I am talking to someone who's not religious, or I'm not sure,i usually say something like, "You will be in my thoughts."  "I will think only good thoughts for you today."  "You are in my thoughts and my heart today." Something like that.  Just because you're not religious - the sentiment's the same. 

melcunnin

I just say "I will keep you in my thoughts".  It may not have the same effect on others but it does  in my mind so that is all I can say.

carrieongrove

I know what you mean.  In the case of someone I know, I try to be specific and personal, so that my thoughts and feelings are meaningful.  In the case of something like a message board, I go with "thoughts."

DuffOliver

What the pp's said. Although prayer doesn't have to be attached to a particular religion or regular practice of it. It can just be an intention or hope sent out, you know?

I usually say that I'm wishing peace and strength for those who need it, because that's what I would want for myself at a tough time.

EMERALDEYEZ13

I usually say I made a special wish for you, or something else like that. Also Prayers dont have to be tied to a particular religion or belief, Sometimes a prayer can just be positive thoughts and hopes sent into the universe...when people know they are thought of and cared about by many, it sometimes helps lift the burden of their pain and grief, even if just for a minute

Mrs.MJP

Does prayer have to be something religious?  I'm not sure that is why I'm asking this.  I mean I don't consider myself religious but I do believe in a higher power - so I "pray" to that higher power.  Know what I mean?

pghctwife

for me, prayer infers a higher power. I am an atheist and do not believe in any higher power, so I am not comfortable using the term myself. But if/when I am in a situation that calls for thoughts/prayers.whatever on my behalf, I have always been happy to receive any and all.

Kim2884

Thanks, ladies! I guess if "thoughts" are interpreted as meaningfully as "prayers" by the majority here, I can use that expression.