Anyone heard from JoesCop?

cork2win

I've just been thinking about her...

And, on a side note.  I would post here a lot more if the Nest didn't suck so bad!  Does everyone have as much trouble posting as I do?  I mean, I click on "respond" and I can wait up to 5 minutes for all kinds of crap to load before I can actually respond.  Most times I just give up!  Anyway, sorry.  I'm really here to ask about Joescop.

Danica1

I have chatted with her on My Space recently although it's probably been about a week since we exchanged thoughts.  Did I miss something going on with her last week?

I have problems on here sometimes too Sue. It does IRK me!

michaelliz

I was thinking about Heather on my way home last ngiht. I sure hope she is doing ok.

 

 

buckeyechik

I was just thinking about her, too....if you're reading, Heather, I hope things are okay....

stephpalmerface

Ditto - she popped in my head one day last week!  Hope all is well.

OHFallBride06

I was thinking about her last night...I hope everything is OK!

Let us know what's cookin' girl!

joescop

Ladies, all I can say is thank you.  This almost made me cry.  Perhaps it?s my hormones or something but it means a lot to me to know that y?all were thinking of me.  I?m alive, barely.  I?m working 4 jobs.  (3 part time, one full time) so I?m kind of a mess but trying my damnedest to keep it together.  Joe lost his job 12/27.  It?s kind of a long story.  On 12/22 he tells me that I?m not the same person he fell in love with and that since I?ve gained weight I?ve changed.  Again, he briefly covered the anger ?problem? which I thought was long gone.  Apparently not in his opinion.  I?m still hoping and praying for this internship in VA.  It will almost feel like a vacation.

Thank you again for all the thoughts.  I really have no idea what 2008 will bring me or my relationship but all I can hope for is less heartache.

 I love you all.

cork2win

Thanks for checking in.  I'm sorry to hear things aren't improving.  FOUR jobs?  No wonder you're drained.  I hope Joe is doing his part too.

My wish for you in 2008 is clarity and strength.

Mrs*Pink

Ugh.... I HATE the way he blames all your problems on you, and then happily lets you work 4 jobs while he doesn't work any.  I think it's seriously time to consider a separation.  If he realizes what he's missing and works things out with you, great, but he needs to see what life is like without you and your income for a little while.

So what if he doesn't like the extra weight on you - I'm sure you're still just as beautiful.  Tell him that you didn't fall in love with an unemployed Joe!

buckeyechik

Julie, thanks for having the balls to say that...it's EXACTLY what i was thinking. 

So ditto Julie.  ((HUGS)) to you, Heather.  If you need to talk, please email me.

Temp536318000001135

Heather, thank you for the update. ((HUGS)) and good thoughts coming your way. I can't believe you are working 4 jobs...I hope Joe is actively looking and right now a job at McD's would be better than nothing for him.

stephpalmerface

I've got to "ditto" Julie, too!

(((hugs)))

Rett*s_bride

big big (((hugs))), I hope 2008 is 10x better than 2007!

triumphantreturnofplanningbug

Thanks for the update.  I'm sorry he's being such an idiot, and while I ditto Julie, I really hope that whatever you do, you find peace with it.  Nobody deserves the crap he gives you.

justEmily

Definitely ditto Julie!!!

I will be emailing you - sorry it's been awhile!!