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RP: I'll go ahead and FREAK OUT here too...

Background: I'm divorced. I kept the three bedroom home, taking on a second and third (ish) job to make sure I could still eat like I like (high maintenance) and afford everything. It makes me busy, but worth it!

I have a boyfriend. I met his parents at Thanksgiving, and they are great! In order to make sure we could both attend both holidays, I am doing a little shindig at my house with my parents, sister/BIL/new neice. We decided it would be cool if our PARENTS met and his parents came to my house that night too. It is Saturday the 22nd.

I am a teacher and our last day of school is the 21st. Remember I also have another job in the evenings (3 a week). Usually I have more than ONE day off before the present exchanging starts to do some shopping, because we usually get off school about 5 days before it all. NOW I am also hosting a party which now includes a HIGH STRESS situation the day AFTER I am done with school.

When am I going to cook? When am I going to clean? When am I going to SHOP?

I hoped I would feel better after venting this...yay, notsomuch.

Re: RP: I'll go ahead and FREAK OUT here too...

  • Holy high stress!  I have no suggestions, but I am confident you can do it all, and it will all be wonderful.  You just seem like the kind of person who can totally pull it off.
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    Mother's Day, 2011
  • That might be the nicest thing someone has said to me in awhile!  Thanks for the vote of confidence!

     

  • I think it's great that you have a boyfriend and that you're willing to do all this for his family!

    You can do it, just take it one step at a time. 

    It'll be a fabulous time, even if the TV is dusty!  LOL!
  • If there's anyone who CAN do it, it's you. :) Boy that's tons of stress.
  • You can do it! I do this to myself, too, if it makes you feel any better! Good luck with the parents meeting :)

    Here's some helpful hints that I try to do:

    -Clean the downstairs bathroom NOW and just shut the door and try to not use it until the 22nd. One less thing to clean.

    - Don't worry about cleaning upstairs unless you are having the guests spend the night. Focus your cleaning on downstairs.

    - Clean one room a night next week. That way, it's not all piled up at the end of the week.

    - Can you freeze any of the food you're making? Try and make as much ahead of time as possible.

    I hope those help!  Good luck!! :)

  • You can do it! Just mix in a few glasses of wine here and there to help releave the stress. :) One task at a time and you'll totally knock it all out. Let us know how it goes!!!!

    p.s. Maybe that wonderful BIL that you have can help with any last minute details. :)

  • Can you tell that it's the crazy busy Christmas season...and my first with a baby?  I believe it's "relieve" not "releave!"  Yikes!

    I swear having a baby has wiped out a good 1/2 of my brain cells! :)
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