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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
WWYD Friends Wedding (XP)
Two friends of ours are getting married on Dec 29th. We are friends with both, but definately closer to the groom. I did not want to assume we would be invited since (1) it is OOT in Indianapolis (2) we have only known them a year and (3) the groom and I met through school, we are in the same cohort, and it would be hard to invite only some members of the cohort without offending people
Since we found out informally that we would be invited I have really been looking forward to going and plotted how to get there etc. The official invitation arrived in the mail today.
The problem?
Well, at a halloween party I overheard the bride talking to another mutual friend (in the cohort) about how she had invited more people than can fit in the church, how she felt obligated to invite our whole cohort and how she was counting on most of them not being able to come since it is OOT during the Holidays.
Now I almost feel bad about going, as if our invite isn't a real invite but just something they felt obligated to do. At the same time, I still really want to go, and as I said, we are closer to the groom than bride so I wouldnt want to miss the wedding just because something the bride said.
Would you go to the wedding?
Since we found out informally that we would be invited I have really been looking forward to going and plotted how to get there etc. The official invitation arrived in the mail today.
The problem?
Well, at a halloween party I overheard the bride talking to another mutual friend (in the cohort) about how she had invited more people than can fit in the church, how she felt obligated to invite our whole cohort and how she was counting on most of them not being able to come since it is OOT during the Holidays.
Now I almost feel bad about going, as if our invite isn't a real invite but just something they felt obligated to do. At the same time, I still really want to go, and as I said, we are closer to the groom than bride so I wouldnt want to miss the wedding just because something the bride said.
Would you go to the wedding?
Re: WWYD Friends Wedding (XP)