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Anyone been to Savage Men in AC?

We went last night for my soon to be sister in laws bachelorette party and  all I can say is WOW!!!  I don't think anything they did their couldn't be considered over the top.....I swear if any of these brides fiancee's new what went on they would take their ring back.

We thought it was gonna be like The Cave in Philly, but that looks like a pre school compared to this.  It was so bad and so degrating to every female....they referred to us as hoe's and hotchies all night and some of it was hysterical and we laughed our asses off but only b/c we weren't the ones up on stage.

I don't understand of it's legal for a strip club to pull females on stage who didn't consent to any of this (their bridal party did) and do the things they do...I would of walked out!!  I mean I'm talking hands up skirts and licking things off parts of these girls bodies and putting their faces places....Things I'm guranteed that if any guy new their girlfriend/fiancee/wife went there they would flip out.

I had to post this b/c we were all so taken aback by the whole thing...yes it was funny and they say in good fun...but these men felt they had the write to grope, touch and push your head in their crotch b/c they where built good.

After that I can say that the stip clubs men go to are NOTHING compared to this place

Re: Anyone been to Savage Men in AC?

  • Ugh you are not making me feel any better! LOL.

    I am a first time bridesmaid and the bride-to-be is insiting we go there for her b-party. Needless to say, I'm not at all into that. She was a BM in my wedding and I made it CLEAR I didn't want to do anything like that -- it's just not my style (we went on a wine tasting tour of local wineries and had dinner @ the Renault winery for my party and it was perfect for me).

    I have a feeling it will be a problem when the time comes, but I won't step foot in that place -- especially now that I know all of this!

  • That's so gross.  Who knows where those men have been?!  I think my H would have killed me if I went somewhere like that.

  • Ugh I feel so bad that you have to go....I think any bride that goes there has so serious issues and shouldn't be getting married.  Some of the things that happend there I don't even think I can type it was so bad....and these guys are so rough and they don't take no for an answer which pissed me off.  My sister was at the bar getting a drink and one of them grabbed her ass and pulled her against his thong glad ass and grinded against her......It was so disrespectful to women...the whole show.  They treat the girls on stage like objects.....when one of the guys hoisted a girl on his shoulders so she was straddeling his face we almost passed out....She had a SKIRT on!!! 

    I couldn't belive these girls alloweed any of this...I mean seriously, most bridal parties consist of close friends and family members and they are all sitting here watching.  I don't understand how this place hasn't been shut down b/c of a sexual harrasment charge.  Yes the girls up on stage have been paid for to be up there but the girls sitting in the audience are there for the show and not to be gropped and they are right in your face....My future sister in law was pulled up with 2 other girls and they guy took off his thong had a towl rapped around his waist and flashed the 3 of them while straddeling them....he had just a condom on!!!   My sister in law was't big on the idea of the strip club but her sister booked it and none of us knew how bad this was gonna be.  I seriously would never talk to my bridal party again if they put me through that....it's a 2 1/2 hour show of girls getting harrassed but ass hole men.

    Ok, I'm done...If I was ever told we were going there again for someones party I would turn it down in a second.  I don't need to spend the night being treated like that!

  • haha my BM's took me there for my bachelorette.  I guess I have serious issues and shouldn't have gotten married.

    I will say that am pretty conservative when it comes to that kind of stuff and I definitely thought it got a bit raunchy but nothing was too over the top the night I went...I have seen worse at other bachelorettes I have attended (I thought the cave was more raunchy, although nothing as bad as what you described).  Then again, I didn't get brought up on stage (I think my BP knows my personality). 

    The stuff you described is pretty disgusting and I am glad that I didn't see any of what you just described at my bachelorette.  I would have been mortified!

  • haha...sorry krista!!  You weren't taken up on stage so your girls where nice enough...some of these girls looked mortified.......We had all been to The Cave before and that's what we expected but got so much more....How bad it was depended on which guy was dancing so I guess who works when determines the show.....We apparently had a bad night! :)
  • haha no, it's ok.  I would have been po'ed if the guys were acting that degrading.  The story about your sister being at the bar and having the guy come up and grind on her is just gross.  Just bc you are there does not mean that you want them to do that. Yuck!
  • I agree with Krista, I went here for mine as well, and I didn't see anything like that and I'm glad I didn't!  
  • Do I smell the venue for the next Nestie GTG?!  bwahahahaha...
  • imageizzy_n_jersey:
    Do I smell the venue for the next Nestie GTG?!  bwahahahaha...

    Nest Fest 2k9 now has a venue. 

  • Woo-hoo...we can squirt Beano on the dancers!
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