Having a bad night (RANT)

suzstar

So, I went to tutor a kid in physics this evening and came home to a p***ed hubby. It seems in my day of running errands, cleaning what I usually do of the house, putting meat in the freezer from the store, and getting ready for tutoring that I didn't do enough. He is now so peeved that he has locked himself in his office and relegated me to my little corner of the house. I've explained my day about 3 times and he just gets more peeved. He seems to believe that since I've got no job right now that I should do everything he asks without regard for the things I have to do for myself as well. I know he is just upset but I'm just not in the mood to be the bad guy tonight. *sigh* He will get over it but right now I'm not in the mood to be charitable. I just wanted to come home tonight after turning my brains to mush tutoring physics to a quiet evening with maybe a little chat time and watch a little stupid TV and head to bed. Instead I sit back in my little corner wanting to just bawl my eyes out and scream at the top of my lungs.

 Sorry for the rant but I need to get it out because otherwise I will just make things worse by yelling at him like I did about an hour ago. 

MojoLove

I'm so sorry that you are going through that. I hope things get better soon. I'm sure you are doing the best that you can. If I were you, I would just go on and do what you were planning to do. Sit down, relax, and enjoy yourself. Don't give him the benefit of making you cry and feel terrible. Take care of yourself first. Just get up and do what you need to do tomorrow. It really seems like he's making a mountain out of a mole hill. So, maybe there is something else going on in his life that is making him react that way? Maybe you should try to talk to him about it. I hope things get better for the two of you!?

suzstar

Thanks for the support MojoLove! It was a two day long issue that finally worked itself out on Saturday. It was work and other issues really getting to him. He had to get through things his own way. I got my stuff done and now we are back on our even keel and realizing that we need to talk instead of him just going off like that. Life is better in our little house. Aside from a nasty sunburn from wearing a tank top on a bike ride yesterday...that was my own silliness because I am as white as a freaking ghost and I burn like crazy. The making up was the best part!