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Re: Confession
*HUG*
Your MIL can F herself. That whole attitude she has is incredibly selfish.
Maybe when you and DH get back to CT you can have a good long talk about all that you have said to us and more, and see where you are after that.
I'm sorry you're having a rough night. Like KAG said, you MIL can eff herself. She's being rude and selfish.?
Take some deep breaths. It will all be okay for the time being. You recognize that you and your DH need some help and that's great thing to be able to do. Even if it does have to wait until Monday, I still think you'll be okay.
((((HUGS)))) ?
(Those are apparently hug emoticons)
Mr and Mrs EST 8.19.06
DD#1 3.28.12
::hugs:: I'm so sorry you're going through this and as a pp said, your MIL can go eff off. WTF?
I've been down this road before and would happily chat with you or email with you. terrefit at yahoo dot com anytime, ok?
Listen, my schedule is crazy now but perhaps we can have a gtg sometime VERY soon as there are a few of us living in Stamford. I for one need to get out and decompress and I'm a great sounding board and an even better drinking buddy.
Hang in there and keep coming here to vent.
(((HUGS)))) I hope you and DH can work things out.
I don't love spending holidays (or really any day) with my in-laws either but I think that maybe if you can just pull yourself together and go downstairs and try to enjoy the night with your DH that would be a big step you can take right now towards mending things. And believe me, I know how awful that will be for you. However, I think it might make a big impact on starting to work things out with DH. I've been in the same place as you right now in the past and I've considered doing rash things like just escaping - but it never helps anything and just adds drama.
I hope things get better
Good luck getting through the rest of your time there, sweetie. We're here when you need us.
And your MIL is a big old ***!
**HUGS*
I don't want to get all psychologist on you so all I will say is do what feels right, follow your heart.
6/14/10 BFP; 6/30/10 Dx ectopic
11/16/10 BFP #2; DD born 7/26/11
First off, your MIL's an A-HOLE. And YOUR feelings do not come second to anyone's. Swallowing, suppressin g, ignoring, and hiding your true feelings just leads to resentment and eventual blowup. Do not allow yourself or your feelings to take a back burner to anyone. Be true to yourself - your gut won't steer you wrong. Be sure your DH hears your voice LOUD AND CLEAR. Good luck - and many hugs coming at you. . . .