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home invasion in my neighborhood

http://www.nbc30.com/news/15939210/detail.html?dl=mainclick

as if I'm not paranoid enough over all of the home invasions this past year, this one happened less than a mile from my house - so scary

I can't wait til we are in a new house because we are getting a security system - I want one now but DH doesn't want to invest another penny into this house - so I'm left with just a bat by the bed...

Re: home invasion in my neighborhood

  • Eeek!  Scary!  That's close to my parents neighborhood.
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  • wtf?  that's just insane.

     

    ugh so scary. 

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  • Oh my goodness, that's so freaky. He had a gun and a machete!!!! What was he doing? This is very scary!
  • That is so scary!
  • Yeah, I dont get this one at all. He only broke into a screen door and didnt even attempt to enter into the rest of the house.

    My money is on the fact that this dude was looking for, and doing, drugs.

  • That is insane!  I can't believe how close to that street I used to live!  If you cut through the tiny bit of woods where that new bunch of houses is at top of the street I used to live on - you were practically on Cranberry.  AND I went to highschool with the girl of the person who lives there...
  • just got an email from a retired teacher and it was her sister's house!

    I guess the guy was drunk and he was just sitting in the sunroom with a gun. He aimed it at the owner of the house. The owner remained calm and sensed he was drunk so he told him to leave because they had to go to church.

    The perp actually listened and left and was running through the neighborhood until the police dog tracked his scent and they found him.

    When the police found and tasered him - the perp shot himself in the head. They took him by lifestar but I haven't heard if he is still alive yet.  

    MJP - I didn't realize where Cranberry was until my friend told me - that is way too close to my house - literally a few streets over!

  • OMG Alyssa--I would be so freaked out too!!  I've already had such a hard time with all this home invasion stuff, I've become a bit paranoid in my own home at times, and I hate that!!  I can understand exactly how you must feel!
  • Jenn - I am paranoid all the time! Doors are locked at all times, windows are locked at all times, and if windows have to be opened I use the saftey latches or whatever they are so that the windows can only open a few inches.

    I sleep with the bedroom door locked, my phone and cellphone by the bed, and a bat. I find myself playing out different scenarios in my head and figuring out what I would do to save myself/DH.

    DH thinks I'm nuts - but there are too many sickos in this world. It's scary.

     

  • Honestly I would put some kind of security system in

    1. increase value of your home

    2. save $$$ on your home owners insurance up to 20%

    3. you can make a deal with adt to install it and when you move you can transfer you contract over.

    how do I know this... I worked with ADT for 5 years and we did alot of situations like this with owners in the selling process.

    I think it is worth it for your piece of mind. I would rather pay $$$ for my spouse and family to live than to pay $$$ for medical or their funeral.

    My dh works for the state in the court system so I do know what is out there and to have something to either deter them away is a good thing.

    At least do this ~ find someone you know that has a security system and see if they can ask for some signs or stickers ~ sounds funny I know but it does work ~ I worked in the security field for over 10 years and it really did prove to deter criminals especially the quick fix ones

    be safe and good thoughts coming your way

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  • Alyssa--You have no idea how easily I feel your pain, I am the same way, and it kind of makes me nuts that I'm becoming so neurotic over this.  Sometimes I even find myself getting freaked out/nervous when I'm leaving the mall by myself too.  I do not want to be one of those people who walk around in a constant state of panic.  My DH thinks I'm nuts--I'm always checking doors to be sure they're locked, I only open windows that are not on ground level, and I keep trying to get him to put an alarm on the house--he doesn't believe in them.  I grew up with one, so I do!!  LOL!!  Anyways, I hope we are both able to overcome this fear sooner or later--I'm hoping it gets better for me before the baby comes!
  • Ugh, how awful.

    I have a cheap home security suggestion for you if you want it - those cheap wooden baby gates you can get at Walmart. After the Chesire invasion, I had one built in and one cheapo one stacked at the top of our stairs. I could still get to Jillie/the bathroom but there is no way anyone was getting through two stacked gates before I woke up, called the cops and barricaded us behind a locked door.

    Sounds silly, but until I did this, I wasn't sleeping at night and it held me over until we moved.

  • Ugh.  I am so sorry this happened so close to you!  That must be so nerve-wracking.  I totally hear ya on being paranoid.  We live in a "safe" town in the woods and just had our alarm system turned on.  I feel a little like a crazy person turning it on when we go to sleep/leave the house but it's just peace of mind.  There are some fairly inexpensive systems out there and the monitoring almost pays for itself with the discount you get on your home owner's insurance.  It might be worth looking into, as it's a nice perk to a potential buyer.
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