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After your first pregnancy how long will you and DW wait before you have another? J/C
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  • I have no clue.  If we have a second, which we both would like it we'd most likely start trying 2-3 years later.  But a lot will depend on how long it takes the first time around.
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    If we hadn't of had twins, I think we would have had #2 when #1 was about 2 years old. 

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  • Jay and I were actually talking about this earlier today, we plan to start ttc baby#2 when baby#1 turns 6months. If I get pregnant on one of the first few tries the babies will be about 15 months apart.
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  • Probably two years between the first and second one, and maybe a little less between the second and third one. Who knows though - this is mere speculation :)?
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  • no clue.  we're not even sure if we'll have more than one bio child. and it'll depend big time on the foster situation.

  • I would like them to be about 2-3 years apart.  I think it really will depend on money as we would need to pay for childcare for 2 kids.  I am just trying to make this one before I move on though!
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  • a lot depends on $$.  I'd love to have them closer together. Ina  way, twins would be ideal so we're forced to pay all the daycare at once!
  • My DD is 5 y/o and DW and I are going to start trying this summer/fall.  DD is from a previous relationship hence the long wait.  Ideally I would space them 2-3 years apart.
  • We're not sure of course, but we likely won't start ttc again until #1 is 3.  After my experience nannying for brothers who were 22 mos apart, I feel like we will want more breathing room than that.  Who knows what we will feel like/decide in the future, but for now we think 3-4 years age difference would be nice.

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  • I think 2 years is nice spacing for kids (I have a brother two years on either side of me, among other siblings). We'll see, but it's entirely possible we'll stop at one (not ruling anything out, though).

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  • This is the only biological one that we will have, but we are discussing adopting when she turns 5 or 6.

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  • We're planning on 4 years apart.
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