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I am ready for another baby... am I nuts?
I have 3 children from a previous relationship... DH has none. My kids are 6,8 and 10. Am I nuts for wanting to start this all over again?
Re: I am ready for another baby... am I nuts?
considering DH has none... I don't think you are nuts at all.
Besides- you're are old enough that you've forgotten about the sleepless nights by now
That is true. He is just worried that we are not ready. I completely understand you are never financially ready to have a baby. We have stable careers, and everything seems to fit.
He would like the finer things in life and before we got married we had this discussion, and I thought I did not want anymore.... But something has changed...
It is probably a phase....lol
ummm-- I just re-read my response and that should say "YOURS are old enough" not "you're" as in "You are" old enough not to remember.
I hope you didn't take it that way!!! eeek!
Anyway- I still don't think you're nuts ,and no matter what you're never really ready. We wanted a lot more things in life then we do have, but decided that having #2 was better than having a fancy car. We can get that stuff when the kids move out in 20 years...lol.
You could always borrow someone newborn for the night to see if you really want to experience that again. New moms, anyone want a full night of sleep?
I would do it! i think it was just a phase though... I love other peoples babies, I can give them back when I dont want to do it anymore!