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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Friends lost their twins :(
We just found out last night. DH's friend and his DW had been having fertility issues, but finally got pregnant after IVF (1st round I think, but they had gone through issues w/Clomid and such). Apparently one of the twins was growing faster than the other, so they were sent to Philly to one of the few surgeons who could try to remedy the situation. I don't have all the details, but apparently they lost their little girls last night. This is so bittersweet, since they've been wanting kids ever since they got married over 2 years ago, and I'm so afraid that they'll get depressed. DH wants to stop over and see them this weekend, but I'm afraid it's too soon. Keep them in your thoughts if you would....I'm just so heartbroken for the 2 of them. 
Re: Friends lost their twins :(
6/14/10 BFP; 6/30/10 Dx ectopic
11/16/10 BFP #2; DD born 7/26/11
Oh no.. that's terribly, terribly sad.
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Oh Jen, this made me cry, my heart goes out to them.
To you it might seem to early but honestly call and ask them, maybe offer to do takeout and bring some adult beverages. They may just need some time w/ friends where they feel comfortable being able to vent.
that just breaks my heart. ditto pp- it may seem soon, but maybe they could use some support. I would call and ask if they are up to some company and maybe bring them dinner or dessert.
I am so sorry to hear this. ?How heartbreaking for them ?:(
They may not be up for company so soon. ?After my losses I hardly wanted to talk to anyone. ?You may want to check in with them before he goes to visit. ?I'd send an email in a week or two just letting them know you are thinking of them. ?It's weird b/c in my situation I wanted people to acknowledge the loss but I didn't necessarily want to talk about it all the time.
?Anyway I am super sad for your friends. ?With supportive friends like you and your DH you will help them get through it.?
Oh how sad.
My heart goes out to them.[^
This is horrible and my heart goes out to this poor couple.
Its so scary also.